A young couple who got married 3 years ago are divorcing over what happened @ their vacation N Miami

[TooMacaan]

If those men weren't posing a threat to the wife, I don't see why the husband would even think to step in. Does she not have a mouth to defend herself and tell them off...? Also, unless the "hollering" was getting to a point of harassment, the best plan of action (for both the wife and husband) is just to ignore it and keep it moving. If it was to a point of harassment, then report it. I don't understand why this issue is being over complicated tbh. No sane woman would divorce her husband just because he neglected to be chivalrous and 'stand up for her' in a situation where she was fully capable of doing so herself.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Menace turning on his favorite Islaamo gossip radio channel

Adeer dee iga daa..

It really happened to many of us....Luckily for me I stepped away and a guy came up to my female but once the guy sees me he turns away...

 

[VixR]

Given your disbelief, I imagine you wouldn't divorce your hypothetical husband over something like this, but would you not think less of him? I agree that a sole incident like this is very unlikely to lead to a divorce in the real world. Most women I think would not be happy with the outcome of that particular scenario, but it would hardly define enough of their relationship to make it cease. But do you not believe her husband being a 'coward' in general is the cause of her dissatisfaction? Why is it so unbelievable?

Sure, some women might not be unhappy with the outcome, but to come forth with that as the reason you're disolving a three year marriage is nothing other than a flat-out LIE.

Personally, I don't view this in the way it's being presented. I find it completely unnecessary for a guy I'm with to get riled up bc some other guy hit on me. I've seen the alternative and I prefer the calm demeanor. We've been getting hit on all our lives. I can handle it better myself.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

where does he get his stories from. is he masquerading as a somali islaan online??

Go check my fb account called AyaanAyuutoAruuriso

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

@VixR can you please tell us what your man did at that moment.

 

[Dino]

If those men weren't posing a threat to the wife, I don't see why the husband would even think to step in. Does she not have a mouth to defend herself and tell them off...? Also, unless the "hollering" was getting to a point of harassment, the best plan of action (for both the wife and husband) is just to ignore it and keep it moving. If it was to a point of harassment, then report it . I don't understand why this issue is being over complicated tbh. No sane woman would divorce her husband just because he neglected to be chivalrous and 'stand up for her' in a situation where she was fully capable of doing so herself.

please. No self respectful man would ever fail to defend his female members of his family let alone his wife. Seriously I would rather get beat then let a man talk crap to my wife.

If there are men out there who are fulay then do something about it. Join the gym. Better yet get some martial arts classes. Seriously jiu jitsu and muay thai is a great odds evener. Even if it's against more than one person

 

[Hilaac]

I don't think a woman would divorce solely over this. She'd probably lose some major respect for her husband tho.

Can you imagine, him sheepishly looking the other way lmao. He'd forever be a loser after that

 

[ItsHanna]

This happens to me and my boyfriend often on public transport and we ignore it. Why would my bf get mad at someone giving me a compliment? It would be a different story if they tried to touch me.

 

[Nightline Kid]

She's divorcing her husband because some niggas catcalled her?

 

[cantspeak]

She's divorcing her husband because some niggas catcalled her?

Thats what she thinks is an adequate reason to use to save face.

 

[Malcolm X]

No way this is why she's calling for a divorce. It must have been something else.

 

[TooMacaan]

please. No self respectful man would ever fail to defend his female members of his family let alone his wife. Seriously I would rather get beat then let a man talk crap to my wife.

If there are men out there who are fulay then do something about it. Join the gym. Better yet get some martial arts classes. Seriously jiu jitsu and muay thai is a great odds evener. Even if it's against more than one person

Lmao, defend from what?? Do you think women are so fragile that some words are going to destroy us?
It may be annoying af but IF it's harmless, then there's no point of causing commotion over a couple of idiots. The only thing that'll do is further escalate the situation and give those men the attention that they're obviously seeking.

Why take the risk of entering physical violence over verbal disrespect?? The circumstance truly doesn't warrant it imo (it's not like those men got physical with the wife or threatened to get physical); it's better to be the bigger person and walk away. As to the physical training, I don't know why you're bringing it up when there is no physical altercation in OP's scenario...and even if there was, I think it'd be best to encourage women to also take those classes so they don't need to be dependent on their husband (or male family members) to always be by their side in order to feel secure/safe.

From the words that I've bolded in your post, I suspect that your biggest issue with this scenario is that you feel your honor and pride would be insulted if other men talked to your wife/female relatives in a disrespectful manner. These women are not your children and you aren't their guardian, you aren't bound by duty to be responsible for them sxb. This machismo and bravado BS needs to die honestly.

 

[XamarCade]

Enjoy Till

 

[mrdeeni]

Personally speaking, I would do the same. Insha'Allah it never happens to me again.

His a coward and he didn't stop those men from disrespecting his wife, don't you think the black guys knew they were together but did it anyway?

Reminds me when I meet this skinny abdi to go cinema, as he was at the cash point these black guys came up to me and tired talking to me.

This guy just stood there, I had to tell the guys don't you see, I'm with someone, move along now. I swear
They did it on purpose. Maadows are dogs.

I never spoke to that coward again, sure he was out numbered but I realised he wasn't a man, I needed to date older guys.

So if he fought and got knocked out how would you feel?

stories like this make me lift more in the gym.

YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG ENOUGH TO PROTECT YOUR EARTHY TREASURES

 

[The Cushitic One]

cowards die a thousand deaths.

but what are you doing meeting abdis and going to cinema together? why not bag a man the halal way instead of dating?

Insha'Allah Khair

my ears and big feet lol.

Big feet? We both know that's not something to be ashamed about, but I know you're alluding to something else lol

Ears? Come on how big can they be sxb? Woman don't care about that kind of stuff....

 

[The Cushitic One]

So if he fought and got knocked out how would you feel?

stories like this make me lift more in the gym.

YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG ENOUGH TO PROTECT YOUR EARTHY TREASURES

I would've probably have been devastated, the situation was impossible either way. I couldn't help my disgust Wallahi

 

[mrdeeni]

I would've probably have been devastated, the situation was impossible either way. I couldn't help my disgust Wallahi

Damm you women. I geuss the only way is to carry the qoriga.

 

[Zeus]

If a guy catcalls your girl - walk away

If a guy openly flirts with your girl- She should handle it on her own, you're not her personal bouncer

If he touches her inappropriately- deal with him

 

[Ubax45_]

Somali people are notorious for giving very wierd reasons for divorce just to cover up the truth.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

Black guys totally do this though.

It's happened to me before too, but my bf was too edgy. IMHO it's too much if the guy you're with is ready to f*ck some shit up bc another guy said something or so much as looked at you some type of way. It's not sustainable.

Was your BF Somali?