A Xaalimo proposes to me

[Assata]

Wallahi Somali men and women are made for each other.

The men are brain-dead, irresponsible, imbecilic and foolish.

The women are the most cheap, promiscuous and numerous commodity in the market place.

What an amazing people we are.

Akaas you talk trash about Somalis 24/7 but yet here you are on SomaliSpot.


If you hate Somalis why are you here?

 

[Ferrari]

i was referring to that thought being put into mens heads at a young age that they can marry upto 4 women and have 72 more in death. regardless of the reasoning for this it breeds a certain thought process that is evident in this thread. men can have as many a body count as they please but women must remain untouched. above that i wrote "muslimics use to justify their misogny. "trophy" "Treasure" "Sacred"." by which i was referring to men, specifically some muslim men sleep around but when asked why the reverse is wrong they revert back to "your pearl is a treasure that should be kept safe" "dont let others sample the goods" lets be real we've all heard people say shit like this too many times. but never once did i say it was okay for muslim men in ISLAM to have sex outside of marriage.

First of all, not every man gets the 72 virgin thing, only those who die in battle(the right kind of battle) , not what isis and alshabab fight for. Second the notion that a stigma is placed on women who sleep around and no none on men is the same everywhere regardless of race or culture or religion so it is lot exclusive to us.

Lastly these men are wrong for their double standards, why don't you go at them for it? What do Muslims have do with it?

 

[Ferrari]

Wallahi Somali men and women are made for each other.

The men are brain-dead, irresponsible, imbecilic and foolish.

The women are the most cheap, promiscuous and numerous commodity in the market place.

What an amazing people we are.

You are not Somali so this does not concern you. Tread carefully if you want to keep posting on here.

 

[Knowthyself]

First of all, not every man gets the 72 virgin thing, only those who die in battle(the right kind of battle) , not what isis and alshabab fight for. Second the notion that a stigma is placed on women who sleep around and no none on men is the same everywhere regardless of race or culture or religion so it is lot exclusive to us.

Lastly these men are wrong for their double standards, why don't you go at them for it? What do Muslims have do with it?

i was addressing what i know. your conflating islam with muslims. remember that muslims are flawed and capable of wrong doing. y'all aint saints and you know damn well this type of thinking is very common. i agree i shouldnt generalize somali men or muslims but this is a common thought process amongst both communities and you know this

 

[Ferrari]

i was addressing what i know. your conflating islam with muslims. remember that muslims are flawed and capable of wrong doing. y'all aint saints and you know damn well this type of thinking is very common. i agree i shouldnt generalize somali men or muslims but this is a common thought process amongst both communities and you know this

I agree that was my point.

 

[Timo jileec]

Why commit zina with her.
Xalimos are only for marriage!

If you really wanted to get you dick wet there are alot of non-somalis out there.

If you decline her proposal you will ruin her life.

 

[XawoTako]

Last night after having a reunion dinner with one of my ex a strange convo came up. The xalimo out of nowhere proposed to me (remember) this is 3 weeks after we started talking on the phone again.

It's not that she is ugly or anything coz believ me most of you guys in here will easily be happy to wife her. She is outspoken fashionista and very independent.

Now this is where the problem lies. I met her 4 years ago and after couple of dates i somehow managed to deflower her and took her most precious trophy even though she willingly accepted. Few months down the line we parted and each went on his way and i moved to a new city with no further ties. But since last January i moved to a new city and strangely i met my ex i deflowered in this mall, so we hugged each other and after a few words we exchanged numbers.

Now back to the present we have been talking for 3 weeks and last night was our first dinner date but she shocked me by telling me since we parted she has been thinking about me and said will you marry me BUT my problem is who else has she been with all those 3 years ?? How many guys have dived in there just like i did? Shall i marry her or NOT

What do you guys think![/QUOTE
If your intentions are sincere and you want to marry her..ask her where she has been the past 3 years.secondly if you decide to marry I would advice both of you to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.however if you decide not marry don't waste her time and be honest with her.

 

[TheMadMullah]

From my understanding what the OP is trying to say is once a girl starts sleeping around it is hard for her to change her
ways and remain in a loyal marriage. Were's a bad boy can easily change his ways and be a loyal husband. The issue
is if she gave it to too many guys there is no guarantee she won't continue her behaviour in a marriage as she is used to
being promiscuous.

Now you have hit the nail on the head well done son well done

 

[TheMadMullah]

after having had very honest discussion with the xalimo she admitted that she had engaged in sex with 3 other guys after me in those 3 years
1. Twice with a cadaan guy
2. Numerous times with an afghani
3. And another farax couple of times

No having talked to my close friend and Female cousin i opted NOT to marry her but try to play along the ball and get that malab of her. I will keep her as my sex toy!

 

[agnes]

May Allah punish you for what you did to that girl. You are so evil.

 

[TheMadMullah]

May Allah punish you for what you did to that girl. You are so evil.

What have i done to her?? I never forced her nor black mailed her

 

[TekNiKo]

Those that are claiming double standards, think about this.

Can a man commit zina easily as a woman? A man has to work ten times as hard to gain access between her legs. Even a prostitute requires money xoolo kaga baxaysa. Even xalaal marriage is quit e difficult financially for most men.

How about a woman? If shes attractive she can easily simply request to be fucked and seduce any man, she holds the key in this elusive dance of sex.

So of course society will devalue women who are bicycles, and extremely value and treasure a pure virgin.

A key that opens many locks is known as a masterkey. A lock that is opened by different keys is a pretty shitty lock

 

[TekNiKo]

after having had very honest discussion with the xalimo she admitted that she had engaged in sex with 3 other guys after me in those 3 years
1. Twice with a cadaan guy
2. Numerous times with an afghani
3. And another farax couple of times

No having talked to my close friend and Female cousin i opted NOT to marry her but try to play along the ball and get that malab of her. I will keep her as my sex toy!

Reer Roger already dped this chick and Abu Feyruuz al Farsi definitely Baccha bazzied her anus, run Farax run

 

[Bahal]

after having had very honest discussion with the xalimo she admitted that she had engaged in sex with 3 other guys after me in those 3 years
1. Twice with a cadaan guy
2. Numerous times with an afghani
3. And another farax couple of times

No having talked to my close friend and Female cousin i opted NOT to marry her but try to play along the ball and get that malab of her. I will keep her as my sex toy!

 

[foxy jay]

I'm gonna propose to my farax

 

[TheMadMullah]

May Allah punish you for what you did to that girl. You are so evil.

How am i evil when this was willing buyer and willing seller affair, i did not in anyway force her infact the pressure was from her side.

I guess punishment will be to both of us in this case

 

[The Cushitic One]

Last night after having a reunion dinner with one of my ex a strange convo came up. The xalimo out of nowhere proposed to me (remember) this is 3 weeks after we started talking on the phone again.

It's not that she is ugly or anything coz believ me most of you guys in here will easily be happy to wife her. She is outspoken fashionista and very independent.

Now this is where the problem lies. I met her 4 years ago and after couple of dates i somehow managed to deflower her and took her most precious trophy even though she willingly accepted. Few months down the line we parted and each went on his way and i moved to a new city with no further ties. But since last January i moved to a new city and strangely i met my ex i deflowered in this mall, so we hugged each other and after a few words we exchanged numbers.

Now back to the present we have been talking for 3 weeks and last night was our first dinner date but she shocked me by telling me since we parted she has been thinking about me and said will you marry me BUT my problem is who else has she been with all those 3 years ?? How many guys have dived in there just like i did? Shall i marry her or NOT

What do you guys think!

Marry her you took her virginity and
You must have feelings for her?

If she hasn't forgotten about you,
Safe to say she probably hasn't
Slept with anyone else.

 

[TheMadMullah]

Marry her you took her virginity and
You must have feelings for her?

If she hasn't forgotten about you,
Safe to say she probably hasn't
Slept with anyone else.

By her own admission she Said 3 more guys after me (could be more) but that chapter is closed now as we both moved on.

Ilahay ba iga lexiyay godka madoow an ku dhici laha

 

[ArchBishopofAtheism]

You must administer two (2) tests first
1. Check her for STDs
2. f*ck her and check her for tightness
If both pass and you have no other issues, marry her

 

[ArchBishopofAtheism]

Safe to say she probably hasn't
Slept with anyone else.

It's been FOUR years. Of course she's been sleeping around.