A question for Somali men

[Abkaal]

Beenta naga dhaay ugaaso
Ever heard of a noble that has yet to visit the UK
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the nobles have changed that along time ago.

 

[BirtaanJabin]

You can teach a virgin how to cook, but can you teach a cook how to virgin?
That said i voted cook

 

[Somali Legend]

we all know Somali men are not very useful when it comes to cooking or cleaning after themselves. Hence why they make such a big fuss about a woman who can cook. But they also demand virgins despite not being one themselves.

So I wonder, given the choice would you marry a virgin or a xalimo who can cook.

@Cognitivedissonance a xalimo from the jungle is not an option.

A woman who can cook and clean is always the best option. Traditional gender roles are needed in today's family structures. The man brings home the money, while the woman cooks and cleans.

 

[TheJx]

I can cook but can't make Somali food and not insecure enough to care for if she's a virgin, cooking all day.

 

[Muji]

@Steamdevolopment which way did you vote I’m just curios?

 

[Steamdevolopment]

@Steamdevolopment which way did you vote I’m just curios?

Who cares about virginity if the food is good and the sex satisfying?

A virgin who can't cook is like a green banana, it is too bitter to swallow

 

[Muji]

Who cares about virginity if the food is good and the sex satisfying?

A virgin who can't cook is like a green banana, it is too bitter to swallow

That makes sense

But how do you explain the majority of males who voted virgin?

What is the appeal?

 

[Steamdevolopment]

That makes sense

But how do you explain the majority of males who voted virgin?

What is the appeal?

Since you're male yourself, you should know the answer:siilaanyosmile:



However I theorize it comes down to the inherited patriarchal view of women's sexual conduct, where women sexual exploration is viewed as damaging her potential and risking that the man use ressources on another man's offspring in addition to most muslim men viewing women as the property of their male guardiance, and if your property has a lot sex it is damaged.


Basically sexism