But these girls are already damaged. The marriage was doomed from the start no matter how the guy treated them. Wallahi a lot of somali girls live sad lives stuck in family home looking for freedom. And once they get married at 20-21 they have far less experience with guys and life in general. Even after divorce a lot of these girls need some healing and maybe therapy imo. They run around few years and marry again without having learned from the past. I had one say to me this summer I will marry within this year. If not you then someone else. I was like you dont even have someone else except me...fvck you talking about. She said there are plenty guys out there ready. And yes she lived at home loolI know a xalimo who divorced after three months for this reason. She thought the wedding was long enough to be convincing that it was out of love but she absolutely hates the guy.
The second one, married and even had a kid (although accidentally) she admitted to me that she first got married to get out of the house but painfully regretted it once she moved in with him. For some of these xalimos it’s out of the pan and in to the fire when they go from their family home to an equally controlling husband. Hence why divorce leads to freedom from both without being disowned by the parents.