A perfect example of why the woman should never lead the relationship.
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wonyluvr
Leader of the SDL( Somali defence league 🤫)
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This is a liberal western mentality which goes against our religion and culture. There can only be one leader, and that is the man.
Liberal? Western? kkkkkk this obsession with leaders in the household & powerstruggles is as western as it gets. Western culture wars diin iyo dhaqan ha noga dhigin
Self Report cheater everyone here is saqajaan
this woman is a walking red flag
Espaa_
Ku sali nabiga {scw}
He shouldnt be mad she withdrew the intimacy, he has a lot of kids. His legacy is secure through his offspring, and if intimacy such a big issue just divorce and get with another woman.
{Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means.} [An-Nisa’ 4:34]
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a woman to fast when her husband is present except with his permission, or to allow anyone in his house without his permission.” (Narrated by Al-Bukhari, 4899)
Ibn Hibban narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’”
Ibn Majah (1853) narrated that `Abdullah ibn Abu `Awfa (may Allah be pleased with him) said: When Mu`adh came from Syria, he prostrated to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) who said, “What is this, O Mu`adh?” He said, I went to Syria and saw them prostrating to their archbishops and patriarchs, and I wanted to do that for you. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Do not do that. If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands."
Just a reminder that feminism is kufr.
Not a single one of the hadiths you posted is relevant to anything I said.
I genuinely find soft saaxiibtis who want to be "dominated" (whatever that means) or taken care of and whose emotions seem all over the place very unattractive. I imagine it's the same sort of revulsion a lot of naago feel toward men they slap the "man-child" label on. Libaaxad actual partners to the ends of the Earth.
Espaa_
Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Mr Jambo what if i tell you im a hench person who goes gym 5/6 days and my libaax nin works but soesnt work out and If me and him fight I could finish him therefore im his protector physically and hes my protector financially
i karate kick him everyday to remind him hes my husband. Assert dominance
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3rdchild · Aw geelale
% was gonna say the men do lead out of principle of providing for the family, but the women have their own responsibilities delegated to them! marriage is an agreement between the two parties and they should help each other by fufilling their responsibilitiesSimilarly the spouses each have their own rights including good treatment and respect and bedroom activity. The wife obeys the husband so that the house runs smoothly, because governance of the house is delegated to the wife, but the woman is of a high status in this relationship highlighted by the word {قَوَّامُون} used in the quran ayah
《قَوّام: (اسم)
القوّامُ :: القيام لله بحقوقه : اشهد الحقّ ولو عاد ضررُ الشهادة عليك وإذا سئلت عن الأمر فقل الحقّ فيه ولو عادت مضرّته عليك》
《Fulfilling God’s rights: Bear witness to the truth, even if the testimony will harm you. And if you are asked about something, say the truth, even if it will harm you.》القوّامُ :: القيام لله بحقوقه : اشهد الحقّ ولو عاد ضررُ الشهادة عليك وإذا سئلت عن الأمر فقل الحقّ فيه ولو عادت مضرّته عليك》
The man is meant to even stand up for the woman's rights, and in the same way as the woman they too are not to hold contempt
{And if a woman fears from her husband contempt or evasion, there is no sin upon them if they make terms of settlement between them - and settlement is best. And present in [human] souls is stinginess.[1] But if you do good and fear Allāh - then indeed Allāh is ever, of what you do, Aware.}
