A hooyo single mother brings a new husband to her home. She now alleges he sexually molested her 8 year old daughter. (Others supporting the man)

[Grigori Rasputin]

 

[mrlog]

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[Basra]

Sounds like another Mama Malyun

 

[greznigrezni]

Take a gun and never open your legs for a man. This is the xaar that happens when you do this without thinking about your future. File a complaint against him so that justice can be served. If she thinks of her kid so lightly that she would openly talk about it on Facebook, then call Child Protective Services on her. A woman lets you marry her in her most vulnerable time and this is how you repay her? Dameer cala Dameer.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

ladies! Stay a single mother if you don’t have a good communication with your child.

I’ve taught my kids to never be afraid to bring me any news, good or bad.
I also taught them that “NO ONE SHOULD TOUCH THEIR PRIVATE PARTS AND IF THEY DO TO COME TO US IMMEDIATELY “. We’ve repeated to them repeatedly. We drill that again the next year.

 

[Bundasliga]

A woman lets you marry her in her most

Maybe that was his plan from beginning.
There are predators who specifically seeking single mothers with children .

 

[YAMS]

I don't understand why you go on this platform and ruin the lives of the children, the in-laws etc. Let the police do their work in private.

 

[Ninmadow]

Wallahi that’s sad if it’s true but I hope she’s not lying

 

[greznigrezni]

Maybe that was his plan from beginning.
There are predators who specifically seeking single mothers with children .

In Minnesota, a lot of the single men mostly go after single mothers. It always ends in domestic abuse and sexual abuse. 80% of all Somali single mothers in Minnesota have had over 2 failed marriages.

 

[Aboow]

I don't understand why you go on this platform and ruin the lives of the children, the in-laws etc. Let the police do their work in private.

Nope NAME and SHAME these pedophiles.

 

[YAMS]

Nope NAME and SHAME these pedophiles.

They get named, shamed by default as soon as you report them. You don't need to do this to your children. There is a reason courts and newsmedia don't reveal the victims. They don't want to create a public record of their trauma.

 

[Aboow]

They get named, shamed by default as soon as you report them. You don't need to do this to your children. There is a reason courts and newsmedia don't reveal the victims. They don't want to create a public record of their trauma.

I mean NAME and SHAME so the Somali community knows who he is! Let’s be honest are you telling me the average Somali habo will look up his name and check if he’s a criminal? C’mon. I have a friend that was a victim of molestation from her own abtiyo and she always wanted them to be named and shamed. However they walk around respected! Nope! Name and shame! He should be outed….

She didn’t name the child though? Or maybe I missed that?!?

No MORE saving face for the aggressor! May they all get exposed!

 

[Mount23]

80% of molestation to kids is due to naiveity of single mothers worldwide

Imagine thinking another man can love your kids like their biological father

 

[YAMS]

I mean NAME and SHAME so the Somali community knows who he is! Let’s be honest are you telling me the average Somali habo will look up his name and check if he’s a criminal? C’mon. I have a friend that was a victim of molestation from her own abtiyo and she always wanted them to be named and shamed. However they walk around respected! Nope! Name and shame! He should be outed….

Did that friend report the guy and was he arrested?

 

[Aboow]

80% of molestation to kids is due to naiveity of single mothers worldwide

Imagine thinking another man can love your kids like their biological father

Not only single mothers : but also uncles, brothers and father ( it happens which is sick)

Speak to your children! Full stop.

 

[Aboow]

Did that friend report the guy and was he arrested?

Nope. She told her mother and her mother shipped her to Djibouti! Fast forward she is no longer a Muslim.

Instead of prosecuting her brothers and believing her daughter she just shipped her to Djibouti. I don’t understand why Somali people think every Somali is incapable of doing harm?!? We’re not angels! Maybe the mother didn’t know how to go with it but one thing I can say is that she resents her mother and now left the deen. Very sad.

Have conversation with your children even at the age of 4! Let them know that their private parts are PRIVATE and NO ONE should touch it! And if someone tries to touch it to tell you ASAP! Boy or girl! Let your kids trust you and don’t judge SubhnAllah.

May Allah protect us and our future children ameen

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I don't understand why you go on this platform and ruin the lives of the children, the in-laws etc. Let the police do their work in private.

At this point it’s a he said..she said ..

Secondly, xaliimos are notorious to go for the man’s jugular if he leaves them. They have no decency. They don’t care the ramifications.

 

[YAMS]

Nope. She told her mother and her mother shipped her to Djibouti! Fast forward she is no longer a Muslim.

Instead of prosecuting her brothers and believing her daughter she just shipped her to Djibouti. I don’t understand why Somali people think every Somali is incapable of doing harm?!? We’re not angels! Maybe the mother didn’t know how to go with it but one thing I can say is that she resents her mother and now left the deen. Very sad.

Have conversation with your children even at the age of 4! Let them know that their private parts are PRIVATE and NO ONE should touch it! And if someone tries to touch it to tell you ASAP! Boy or girl! Let your kids trust you and don’t judge SubhnAllah.

May Allah protect us and our future children ameen

Amiin.

Somalis do believe their people can do harm. But we do have a mindset of burying those things rather than deal with them.

To my original point, if your friend had reported that man..he would've been exposed to everyone who needed to know without traumatizing the kids in a society. The kids need to move on.

 

[YAMS]

At this point it’s a he said..she said ..

Secondly, xaliimos are notorious to go for the man’s jugular if he leaves them. They have no decency. They don’t care the ramifications.

Bruh...I once worked in a certain field that dealt with divorce in states, Somali women have a tough time separating their emotion towards the man from the lives of the kids.

Cadaan people would place a premium on protecting the kids from their battles. In the cases of certain immigrants, the kids were artillery.

 

[reer]

@Angelina this is what i said about kufsi iyo molestation of kids it is usually from somebody who knows the kid. being pedophile and liking women are not mutually exclusive. so qayb ka mid ah of pedophiles seek out single hooyos. labo shimbir hal dhagax ku dil.