A hooyo single mother brings a new husband to her home. She now alleges he sexually molested her 8 year old daughter. (Others supporting the man)

[Aboow]

Amiin.

Somalis do believe their people can do harm. But we do have a mindset of burying those things rather than deal with them.

To my original point, if your friend had reported that man..he would've been exposed to everyone who needed to know without traumatizing the kids in a society. The kids need to move on.

She was young and didn’t have access to the resources. This man needs to be named and shamed. Ironically, your doing the same thing and trying to bury it aswell by saying they should call the cops and just keep it between whoever is involved. The mother only shamed the men and he deserves to be exposed and go to jail.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

They get named, shamed by default as soon as you report them. You don't need to do this to your children. There is a reason courts and newsmedia don't reveal the victims. They don't want to create a public record of their trauma.

These idiots don’t realize the damage they inflicting on the child victim. Somalis know one another.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Bruh...I once worked in a certain field that dealt with divorce in states, Somali women have a tough time separating their emotion towards the man from the lives of the kids.

Cadaan people would place a premium on protecting the kids from their battles. In the cases of certain immigrants, the kids were artillery.

Now I have to be cautious of her story.
I just can’t believe a divorced Somali lady.
There’s so many stories of framing.

They love to go for couple of devastating accusations

“Waa khaniis”

“Ilmaheyga bu fara xumeeyey”

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Many of you have not spoken about what she’s really comply about.

she alleges that her the sheikhs of the city have sided with the guy

 

[Angelina]

At this point it’s a he said..she said ..

Secondly, xaliimos are notorious to go for the man’s jugular if he leaves them. They have no decency. They don’t care the ramifications.

Its one thing to claim he abused her, but its another thing for a woman to claim her child was sexually abused. I don't think i've ever heard of a woman lying about her own child being a victim in this way.

You're taking it too far and I feel like you defend the worst of men.

 

[YAMS]

Many of you have not spoken about what she’s really comply about.

she alleges that her the sheikhs of the city have sided with the guy

Yep. In my experience, it's a bad sign when someone obsesses over who is supporting the accussed as his character witnesses. The complaint seems less about her child and more about "how come he is not destroyed" in the community. Not a a good sign.

 

[YAMS]

Its one thing to claim he abused her, but its another thing for a woman to claim her child was sexually abused. I don't think i've ever heard of a woman lying about her own child being a victim in this way.

You're taking it too far and I feel like you defend the worst of men.

Btw did you hear what she claimed the guy did?

 

[Angelina]

Btw did you hear what she claimed the guy did?

I just saw the title about her child being a victim authobillah.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Its one thing to claim he abused her, but its another thing for a woman to claim her child was sexually abused. I don't think i've ever heard of a woman lying about her own child being a victim in this way.

You're taking it too far and I feel like you defend the worst of men.

You have not listened to her.
She stated “if I stook before god I cannot verify to being a witness to it. I have not seen it. I have not heard it. ….However my daughter came to me complaining “

What further complicates the situation is that it is alleged that the child was abused in such a way where the child can’t be examined. I don’t want to get too graphic. He is alleged to not have penetrated her. If a penetration happened sex kit would’ve been used. But in this situation it is alleged that he made her touch him.

I am leaving this to the authorities.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Btw did you hear what she claimed the guy did?

She didn’t even watch it but had the audacity to attack me.

I am a man who believes in law and order. Not pure emotion-driven verdicts.

 

[Leila]

Someone needs to tell Somali people especially the new arrivals that social media is NOT the way to settle disputes .

A few weeks ago there was the father in Germany claiming that his ex wife left their kids with him and now this . What do they want the audience to do? In this case the mother should go to the police if her claim is true otherwise keep quiet about your personal affairs . The whole world doesn’t need to know what’s going on in your household

 

[Angelina]

You have not listened to her.
She stated “if I stook before god I cannot verify to being a witness to it. I have not seen it. I have not heard it. ….However my daughter came to me complaining “

What further complicates the situation is that it is alleged that the child was abused in such a way where the child can’t be examined. I don’t want to get too graphic. He is alleged to not have penetrated her. If a penetration happened sex kit would’ve been used. But in this situation it is alleged that he made her touch him.

I am leaving this to the authorities.

Her child told her.

Why would an innocent child lie? Why would a mother not believe her own child?

This isn't even something an 8 year old is capable of lying about.

 

[YAMS]

You have not listened to her.
She stated “if I stook before god I cannot verify to being a witness to it. I have not seen it. I have not heard it. ….However my daughter came to me complaining “

What further complicates the situation is that it is alleged that the child was abused in such a way where the child can’t be examined. I don’t want to get too graphic. He is alleged to not have penetrated her. If a penetration happened sex kit would’ve been used. But in this situation it is alleged that he made her touch him.

I am leaving this to the authorities.

I'm glad you said it because I know what she said in the interview and many people are reacting to it without watching her. The thing the guy allegedly did is kinda out there in itself.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I'm glad you said it because I know what she said in the interview and many people are reacting to it without watching her. The thing the guy allegedly did is kinda out there in itself.

In a court of law it wouldn’t hold water.

evidence is needed. It should be beyond the shadow of a doubt.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Her child told her.

Why would an innocent child lie? Why would a mother not believe her own child?

This isn't even something an 8 year old is capable of lying about.

I guarantee you this cannot stand on a court of law.

It is known Somali mothers do weaponize their children

 

[Bundasliga]

Someone needs to tell Somali people especially the new arrivals that social media is NOT the way to settle disputes .

A few weeks ago there was the father in Germany claiming that his ex wife left their kids with him and now this . What do they want the audience to do? In this case the mother should go to the police if her claim is true otherwise keep quiet about your personal affairs . The whole world doesn’t need to know what’s going on in your household

100% agreed . Most of them are fobs who don't know how to seek justice in the west .

 

[Mercury]

Nope NAME and SHAME these pedophiles.

I know a girl shes s single mom with 2 kids her uncle visited her she let him sleep in the guest room while she slept with her kid he came in her room tried to molest her when she woke up he panicked and ran away said that he was high didnt know what he was doing he sent her 300$ to not tell anyone she went straight to police and he got arrested that same day the girls mother and the rest of her uncles got angry at her for getting cops involved imagine how sick that is

 

[Mercury]

You have not listened to her.
She stated “if I stook before god I cannot verify to being a witness to it. I have not seen it. I have not heard it. ….However my daughter came to me complaining “

What further complicates the situation is that it is alleged that the child was abused in such a way where the child can’t be examined. I don’t want to get too graphic. He is alleged to not have penetrated her. If a penetration happened sex kit would’ve been used. But in this situation it is alleged that he made her touch him.

I am leaving this to the authorities.

Why would a 8 year old lie about this though

 

[Aboow]

I know a girl shes s single mom with 2 kids her uncle visited her she let him sleep in the guest room while she slept with her kid he came in her room tried to molest her when she woke up he panicked and ran away said that he was high didnt know what he was doing he sent her 300$ to not tell anyone she went straight to police and he got arrested that same day the girls mother and the rest of her uncles got angry at her for getting cops involved imagine how sick that is

Not surprised tbh. Everyone is scared of « ceeb » and « exposing » people. If you feel sooo entitled to someone else’s body and you try to force yourself onto them you deserve to go to JAIL! No more protecting these monsters that spread fitna and trauma. Good job to the beautiful sis and alhamdulilah it was a failed attempt!

Somalis need to learn this is not a lawless country where your qabil can bail you out! You do the CRIME you do the TIME! As Muslims and humans we need to do what’s right! She had the right to tell the police because God forbid if it were to happen they would BLAME her! How wicked. I hope Somalis know that this generation were not protecting NO ONE and we snitching. Periodt.

 

[Aboow]

Why would a 8 year old lie about this though

I didn’t even know what se.x was at the age! My mother told me in order to get pregnant you have to eat a lot! Urgh the gaslighting.

She needs to go to the cops and file a report. Than she could come online and make a video as a cautionary tale. First CALL the COPS!