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It's quite sad to be honest and I think it's like committing a sin against your children when you don't try to be the best you can be, for them at least!
I love seeing those mothers who clearly do their best for their children even though they may not have achieved much. You can see clearly, who cares and who is selfish/lazy and just got married to hide from life.
As in, messy houses, unkempt/ill-mannered children etc. etc.
Exactly! So obvious. Insha’Allah if Allah blesses me with children I’ll do my best to be a great mother to them. First remembering that they’re a gift from Allah, and an amanah from Him. I don’t want to treat them like I own them or make their lives hell by being a control freak because for many, their children are the only things they can ‘control’ Subhana’Allah.