We congratulated your wedding, but this sounds like self-hate fueled by deep insecurity.Show her what?? Autistic dhaanto?? or low IQ niiko???
Weddings is more of a womens thing anyway so im letting her do what she wants with it and i dont really care for Somali culture. Look into how rich Syrian culture is and how lit their weddings are, and even you would be embarassed by what we call somali dhaqan