«Somali men are not romantical»

[bluebird]

something about romance disgusts me. it always seem like an act. its ok between a married couple occasionally, but something about someone trying to "win" you over with gifts and sweet nothings makes me uncomfortable!

 

[Ragnimo]

We’ve been too agreeable lately it was getting boring, good timing.

he celebrated Valentine’s Day by buying his girl gifts, last I checked valentines was unislamic. And he said my girl as opposed to wife, so how is she his woman?

If a woman isnt a wife nor a lover how does one claim her as his, is it by playing the role of a provider?

Ignore her she's confused.

The topic of discussion was about buying valentines day "gifts" for your girlfriend and she flipped it to Muslim men on the deen buying gifts for their wives??!??)????

 

[ATLbound]

Fair assessment. This time I won her over, so no more act thats for sure

 

[bluebird]

to the point of this thread, I feel like somalis are actually too romantic in a weird way. imo they don't act normal/stoic enough when courting. I had a really funny interaction once with a somali pepe le pew and he was probably the worst but there are a lot who are almost as bad

 

[Kane]

this is reaching

No seriously bro if you haven’t shared a bed with a woman, you can never claim her as yours.

Because she is still fair game, plus women are courted by multiple men at the same time. They pick the most interesting among the group, and believe me it’s not the one buying the gifts.

something about romance disgusts me. it always seem like an act. its ok between a married couple occasionally, but something about someone trying to "win" you over with gifts and sweet nothings makes me uncomfortable!

That’s what predators and men who don’t know their own value do, to gain a woman’s trust and validation.

Why not see if you enjoy each others company or share any chemistry, without the giving of bribe.

Ignore her she's confused.

The topic of discussion was about buying valentines day "gifts" for your girlfriend and she flipped it to Muslim men on the deen buying gifts for their wives??!??)????

Nah bro she ok , it’s just that she enjoys miseducating the thoughtful brothers like most other women.

 

[Keo]

You a trick getting gifts for gyal on valentines dkm

In what world is getting a gift for your girl on Valentine's Day considered "tricking".

 

[SomaliSteel]

Who says we are not romantic?

 

[ATLbound]

W

to the point of this thread, I feel like somalis are actually too romantic in a weird way. imo they don't act normal/stoic enough when courting. I had a really funny interaction once with a somali pepe le pew and he was probably the worst but there are a lot who are almost as bad

Wrong. U met the wrong ones sorry

 

[ATLbound]

I over estimated many on this forum. Thinis first and foremost

I'm not effeminate actually it's the tricks who are, they use buying gifts to compensate for their lack of ability to satisfy their partner sexually.

You need an aabo in your life. This is not a competition, its internet. Who even mentioned sexual stuff ? Xoolo foqol xoolo. This thread was about to get soomali rago on code

 

[Ahmed123-]

You are one tricking ass nigga I'm praying for you sxb that's not even your women.
At least the non-Muslim men are getting pussy. After giving the broads 40 dollars' worth of flowers and Chocolate.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

I over estimated many on this forum. Thinis first and foremost

You need an aabo in your life. This is not a competition, its internet. Who even mentioned sexual stuff ? Xoolo foqol xoolo. This thread was about to get soomali rago on code

Why did she think somali men are unromantic? I think that’s why people are calling you a trick it give off poor connotations

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

No seriously bro if you haven’t shared a bed with a woman, you can never claim her as yours.

Because she is still fair game, plus women are courted by multiple men at the same time. They pick the most interesting among the group, and believe me it’s not the one buying the gifts.

That’s what predators and men who don’t know their own value do, to gain a woman’s trust and validation.

Why not see if you enjoy each others company or share any chemistry, without the giving of bribe.


Nah bro she ok , it’s just that she enjoys miseducating the thoughtful brothers like most other women.

Women pick men they are attracted to and also exhibit signs of protection and provision. No woman in her right man trusts a man who shows up empty handed to meet her, especially if it is at the stage of serious courting (with mahrems involved). It is called bad manners.


But, feel free to lead these men off a lonely cliff.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

something about romance disgusts me. it always seem like an act. its ok between a married couple occasionally, but something about someone trying to "win" you over with gifts and sweet nothings makes me uncomfortable!

If its FOB lovebombing, then yes, it is cringey and scary, but in a relationship that develops at a natural pace, it's cute.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Women pick men they are attracted to and also exhibit signs of protection and provision. But, feel free to lead these men off a lonely cliff.

Doubt. Listening to women is unwise. You naturally don’t understand men so you wouldn’t be able give them logical advice.

Also there’s the disconnect between what women say and what they actually do to take into account, hardened saqajaan like @Kane will go off the latter.

From what I’ve seen though you’re pretty honest about the importance of looks and are blunt af to nice guy subhumans at least

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Doubt. Listening to women is unwise. You naturally don’t understand men so you wouldn’t be able give them logical advice.

Also there’s the disconnect between what women say and what they actually do to take into account, hardened saqajaan like @Kane will go off the latter.

From what I’ve seen though you’re pretty honest about the importance of looks and are blunt af to nice guy subhumans at least

Yes. Please do not ask women, what women want. Ask men. Because men know women better than women know themselves.


Oh boy.

Macasalaama folks.

 

[KinsiHilaac]

Got my girl a valentines gift, and she was so surprised. «You are changing my view on somali men» … followed by: «im suprised I didn’t know you had this in you»

This is getting old, as all of my friends and extended circle buy gifts or treat woman better than any other ethnic group, I guess guys in here can co-sign this. But somehow WE are the ones deemed «not romantical»

I know friends who take trips by plane just to meet some of these gabdho.

Currently somali men are facing an unnecessary uphill battle, while many other misogonyst guys from other ethnic groups gets a free ride.

I am pretty sure that myth comes from baadiye men that are stiff as hell and can't or won't even move their head properly to give a kiss to their wife.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I am pretty sure that myth comes from baadiye men that are stiff as hell and can't or won't even move their head properly to give a kiss to their wife.

In public lol

In private it is different.

Somalis do not show PDA, so we mistake that for lack of romanticism and naxariis.

 

[KinsiHilaac]

In public lol

In private it is different.

Somalis do not show PDA, so we mistake that for lack of romanticism and naxariis.

I think even in private Somalis do not show love they probably tell each other war maxaad noogu dhegdhegaysa LOL

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Yes. Please do not ask women, what women want. Ask men. Because men know women better than women know themselves.


Oh boy.

Macasalaama folks.

It’s true. Women are more passive aggressive than men on average. Passive aggressive people tend to communicate implicity (I’m passive aggressive myself tbh it’s joever). You can’t ask someone like that for advice because they’ll lie straight up or omit the harsher details.

 

[Angelina]

We’ve been too agreeable lately it was getting boring, good timing.

he celebrated Valentine’s Day by buying his girl gifts, last I checked valentines was unislamic. And he said my girl as opposed to wife, so how is she his woman?

If a woman isnt a wife nor a lover how does one claim her as his, is it by playing the role of a provider?

Do you have issues with men buying women gifts in general or Valentine’s Day?

It’s normal for a man to buy a women before marriage a gift. Even in halal courtship. As in going to her house with the family there, it’s ceeb for him to not get her gifts.

Do you have issues with husbands gifting wives?

Btw, I don’t approve of Valentine’s Day. Such a shaytAn holiday.