Is it time we leave behind the idea of a meher

Mehr is simply a gift the husband gives the wife. It is men that have reduced it to to a transaction of ownership as many simply do not respect women as people. They view women, the same way they view their trainers from JD, something that is owned and dealt with as they see fit.

It is really funny though that they think they owe women because they paid 2-5k mehr which is the amount many western Xalimos earn every month.

Dusty cheap ass bastards.
 

Luciddreamer

Certified bakhti
Mehr is simply a gift the husband gives the wife. It is men that have reduced it to to a transaction of ownership as many simply do not respect women as people. They view women, the same way they view their trainers from JD, something that is owned and dealt with as they see fit.

It is really funny though that they think they owe women because they paid 2-5k mehr which is the amount many western Xalimos earn every month.

Dusty cheap ass bastards.

This one is woke af
 
Ladies! This is why these dusty, cheap minimum wage bastards want you not to have your own income. They want to dangle their small income and use that as a way to silence you.

If I scream! Imagine a man using 2-5k mehr as a way to suggest he owns me? That is the amount a normal person earns monthly.
 

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
VIP
Misogyny is heavily embedded in our culture.

Mix that with the mehr and you get a husband who thinks he owns you.

Knowles is right, best solution is to marry out or find a level headed farax (a unicorn)
Sis you can marry anyone you want don’t let these pricks tell you otherwise, if you don’t mind tho I still want my mehr :mjohreally:
 

Muji

VIP
Ladies! This is why these dusty, cheap minimum wage bastards want you not to have your own income. They want to dangle their small income and use that as a way to silence you.

If I scream! Imagine a man using 2-5k mehr as a way to suggest he owns me? That is the amount a normal person earns monthly.

Loooooooooooooooooooool

Sis @Abdalla will be after you. Hold off with the truth.
 
In Somalia my father used to give my mother a monthly fee. That’s the norm back there. We should do that here in the west too. Your husband should reimburse you for your sacrifices at the end of the month.
 

Muji

VIP
A wise lady said to me a man will never do anything that doesn’t benefit him. I’ll carry that truth to my grave.
 

Bohol

VIP
Meher doesn't have to be money. It can be anything.

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That’s exactly why I plan on paying Mahr just like Indian culture. It’s the sweetest deal on earth. For $5k, I can have a personal maid and chef. Also, Mahr doesn’t even get paid in full. I can just pay $1k as a deposit. I can’t wait to be freed from the burden that is household chores. I have already started saving for my future husband.
 

Muji

VIP
That’s exactly why I plan on paying Mahr just like Indian culture. It’s the sweetest deal on earth. For $5k, I can have a personal maid and chef. Also, Mahr doesn’t even get paid in full. I can just pay $1k as a deposit. I have already started saving for my future husband.

Smart girl.
 
@curious FOB you seem to think I hate Somali men I don’t. I hate all men in general.
@curious FOB you seem to think I hate Somali men I don’t. I hate all men in general.


everything that happen around you you come here and report it. but you make either farax or somali issue it dont matter what it is even if you see an accident on the road you report it here and make it a somali issue why cant you just talk about things in general why make it specifically somali issue there must be some psychological problem you have thats connected with the words farax and somali
 

Luciddreamer

Certified bakhti
That’s exactly why I plan on paying Mahr just like Indian culture. It’s the sweetest deal on earth. For $5k, I can have a personal maid and chef. Also, Mahr doesn’t even get paid in full. I can just pay $1k as a deposit. I can’t wait to be freed from the burden that is household chores. I have already started saving for my future husband.

The indian thing is real? WTF hahahhaha.
I need to research this hold up :mjlol:
 

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
VIP
Ladies! This is why these dusty, cheap minimum wage bastards want you not to have your own income. They want to dangle their small income and use that as a way to silence you.

If I scream! Imagine a man using 2-5k mehr as a way to suggest he owns me? That is the amount a normal person earns monthly.
Lol any man who tells you don’t work, don’t trust him, let me decide if I want to work or not. The audacity of some men to tell you stay at home when they make minimum wage :noneck:
 
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