My Dad is very clingy and it's annoying

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I was just cooling in my room today playing fifa when my dad decided to walk in and say warya let's go to the masjid I don't mind praying at home or going to jummah Salah but I hate going on other days because the mosque my dad takes me to is full of Jamaican reverts and Somali snitch odays. Whilst I was in mosque I was so clusterphobic and wishing for it to end something about Madows spewing salafi garbage really triggers me.
It's been like this for a while now my dad always trys to make me go pray at mosque it's getting so annoying I don't know how to say no in a nice way without triggering my pops. Literally he will call me at the maddest times like let's go mosque.
Also whenever I wanna go out for a snack or go chill with the mandem my pops is nowadays tryna gimme slack about my safety telling me come home early and shit like I'm a fully grown man he's never been this clingy I don't know what triggered him to be so on my case but it's bothering me a lot to the point where I'm now trying my hardest to avoid seeing my pops in the house and shit because I know he either wants to tell me a lecture about Deen warn me about acid attackers or drag me to the mosque its getting repetitive.
What should I do has anyone else been in this kinda situation it's like my dad's trying to finally start steering my life for me why does he wanna do it now when I'm a grown man :tacky::tacky:
 

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I was just cooling in my room today playing fifa when my dad decided to walk in and say warya let's go to the masjid I don't mind praying at home or going to jummah Salah but I hate going on other days because the mosque my dad takes me to is full of Jamaican reverts and Somali snitch odays. Whilst I was in mosque I was so clusterphobic and wishing for it to end something about Madows spewing salafi garbage really triggers me.
It's been like this for a while now my dad always trys to make me go pray at mosque it's getting so annoying I don't know how to say no in a nice way without triggering my pops. Literally he will call me at the maddest times like let's go mosque.
Also whenever I wanna go out for a snack or go chill with the mandem my pops is nowadays tryna gimme slack about my safety telling me come home early and shit like I'm a fully grown man he's never been this clingy I don't know what triggered him to be so on my case but it's bothering me a lot to the point where I'm now trying my hardest to avoid seeing my pops in the house and shit because I know he either wants to tell me a lecture about Deen warn me about acid attackers or drag me to the mosque its getting repetitive.
What should I do has anyone else been in this kinda situation it's like my dad's trying to finally start steering my life for me why does he wanna do it now when I'm a grown man :tacky::tacky:


Cherise these moments huuno. U need to focus on Allaah swt instead focusing on what shaytaan wants u to focus on. Some years later u will miss these moments and say I wish I was present :(
 
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The situation you described is a father watching out for his son so he dosn't become a qaasro. Its called love. My dad does this to all of my brothers and alhamdulilah no baqti boys acting like hood rats :rejoice: if the mosque you go to bothers you then reccomend another one to your father
 
My father wanted me to go everywhere with him at one point. It was hard. But he loves me and I don't mind when I go out with him. Your dad wants to create a tighter bond with you and that's nice. Cherish these times because most parents don't do this for their children. Most children wished they had a father to always make sure they are happy.
 
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