My Dad is very clingy and it's annoying

[Fang4]

You will always be a child even if you are 50 years old in the eyes of your father. Be patient with him because you’ll regret it when he leaves this world and you miss the companionship you had with him.

 

[MarehanBanker]

Masjid Abdul-Aziz Bin Baz it's full of negros

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

‘Literally he will call me at the maddest times like let's gomosque.’
Nigga you mean salah time

Can't lie I'm dead

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

My father wanted me to go everywhere with him at one point. It was hard. But he loves me and I don't mind when I go out with him. Your dad wants to create a tighter bond with you and that's nice. Cherish these times because most parents don't do this for their children. Most children wished they had a father to always make sure they are happy.

True that guess I have to wait until I can move out the struggle is real

 

[Ainan]

It's disappointing to hear you find your father to be clingy. I bet it would break his heart to think you think like this.

Try to do more organised social activity with your dad. Something different with your brothers and sisters, if possible. Your parents are important. Don't ever think they're a burden.

Your dad thinks you're old enough to be friends now. This is his way of seeing you as a man.

 

[Silky]

It's disappointing to hear you find your father to be clingy. I bet it would break his heart to think you think like this.

Try to do more organised social activity with your dad. Something different with your brothers and sisters, if possible. Your parents are important. Don't ever think they're a burden.

Your dad thinks you're old enough to be friends now. This is his way of seeing you as a man.

He should then just buy him a beer

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[AarHawd_7]

Cherish your father as long hes alive little broski some of our fathers arent in this dunya no more little broski.

 

[AussieHustler]

Sanbuur


Abti your father is well aware of your past antics and your association with the wrong crowd that has already led you to be convicted of a crime. He’s worried and is trying to keep you on a leash, so you wouldn’t end up in prison. Sit down with him for a chat and tell him that you appreciate his support and want to change your old ways. reassure him that you are on the right track and need your space and politely ask him to have confidence in you.
He means well, show him maturity and negotiate with him in a level-headed manner. Don’t expect him just to pull out, he will still require to gain confidence in you. Don’t just talk, show him that you are mending your ways. Slowly, he will believe that you are heading the right way.


What do you think if you surprise him a couple of nights by initiating to go with him to Isha prayers @ Mohamed Abdilwahab mosque? Or, tell him abti Aussie on Somalispot is your new spiritual guide.

 

[esmailxxx]

Suggest a different mosque to him,or do this before he comes to you,you go to him like abo let go to the mosque take him to another mosque,when he ask why tell him i like this one better,then do this a couple of days till he understand without you saying a word to him,

 

[felloff]

I was just cooling in my room today playing fifa when my dad decided to walk in and say warya let's go to the masjid I don't mind praying at home or going to jummah Salah but I hate going on other days because the mosque my dad takes me to is full of Jamaican reverts and Somali snitch odays. Whilst I was in mosque I was so clusterphobic and wishing for it to end something about Madows spewing salafi garbage really triggers me.
It's been like this for a while now my dad always trys to make me go pray at mosque it's getting so annoying I don't know how to say no in a nice way without triggering my pops. Literally he will call me at the maddest times like let's go mosque.
Also whenever I wanna go out for a snack or go chill with the mandem my pops is nowadays tryna gimme slack about my safety telling me come home early and shit like I'm a fully grown man he's never been this clingy I don't know what triggered him to be so on my case but it's bothering me a lot to the point where I'm now trying my hardest to avoid seeing my pops in the house and shit because I know he either wants to tell me a lecture about Deen warn me about acid attackers or drag me to the mosque its getting repetitive.
What should I do has anyone else been in this kinda situation it's like my dad's trying to finally start steering my life for me why does he wanna do it now when I'm a grown man

i know the mosque they tried entice me with pizza and food every last friday lol