Galaeri
USC | Ururka Bililiqada iyo Kufsiga
lets see...
the most important thing of all: must not marry another woman while we are together. I will accept divorce (or his death) before i accept another woman.
- tall (I'm too fussed about being under 6' but he has to be taller than me. i'm 5'6 so few inches taller would be fine)
- does not look like a typical Farah
- feminist ( he has to be aware of all the shit that women go through in our culture and must not contribute to it)
- good job/educated
- good grasp of Somali
- cook and clean (he must be able to take care of himself. this one is a definite dealbreaker. he cannot expect me to take his mothers place and baby him)
- he must be willing to plan our family and not expect me to pop out a child every year.
- he must be very involved in our potential kids lives (i do not want anyone who spends more time in makhayads than in their kids lives)
I understand that is a list 99.9% of Somali men can't fulfil so i'm keeping my options open.
Where are you going to find a Somali male that is a feminist? Ileen we are not gay.
You better drop your expectations soon, you don't want be like 30 and married, ultimately ending up to be some dudes second wife.
I wish you the best on your crusade. Alle haku garab galo.