Personally I wouldn't want to have kids in the west but just like I plan so too does Allah and Allah is the best of planners.Not in the west. Two is ideal and three too many. Life is not as easy as it is in Somalia or in an Islamic country. You should talk to parents or observe what families go through to keep a roof on their head, provide schooling like Dugsi to their kids which is expensive and send money to relatives back home all at the same time.
Using God as an excuse to mess up waa laga fiican yahay.
I recall this Hadith talking about during prophet Solomon's time a man was seated next to him when the angel of death came into the room. The angel looked at the man in a way then proceeded to deliver the message to the prophet and left. The man asked prophet Solomon to command the wind and take him to the Far East as he was afraid that the angel was sent to take his life as soon as he landed the angel took his life bear in mind there's no airplanes back then. The angel was suprised cause it was written that this mans soul should be taken from him in the Far East yet he was in Arabia so it goes to show even the angels don't know the unseen. I just feel people shouldn't be victimised merely for having many kids cause it's the will of the most high some can't have kids at all and if they do decide to have a football team I say masha Allah.
Do you believe that everything About us was written by Allah before we were even created?
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