Shaah corner

[waraabe]

#ANONYMOUSPOST
Ladies I have a huge problem in my marriage prior to my husband I was deeply in love with my ex and may Allah forgive us both we had sex many times while dating but our relationship ended due to family problems and we never got married then I met my husband we dated but never had sex because he always acted religious during our courting and out of hate and frustration I had with my ex I agreed to marriage we got married and when we consummated the marriage that night he sucked in bed not only that he would very fast this made me irritable and I questioned myself often he would please himself and go to sleep while I stay up all night thinking what the hell did I just experience because that to me was not the sex I'm used to so since it was early in our marriage I got quiet and put the blame sometimes on me and sometimes made excuses that maybe he is nervous this continued for several months I became pregnant with my first child things got even worse then when we first got married we were having sex once a month then it went to every 3 months I kept it to myself and after the birth of my child I told him he needed to get medical help he would always say I will but never took the initiative I ended up pregnant again and I involved his family and some Sheikhs they had a talk with him he said he would change but his family became hateful towards me and think I wanted to trash his name they even said how can you have two kids if your not satisfied in bed so I stayed quiet and started having phone conversation with my childhood guy friend ladies only Allah can jus ge me but I ended up stepping outside of my marriage and visiting the mother land where I spent a month of the best sex and loving I can ask for when I came back to the states I couldn't even look at the face of my husband I keep asking for divorce but he keeps holding on to me I am at my boiling point now I have wasted 6 years of my life with this man who only gave me affection once every 3-4 months and when I complied with his desire he would only satisfy himself in less than 3 minutes and fall asleep I am done being frustrated and blaming myself And feeling sorry for him I no longer want my self esteem to die I have decided to leave him and marry the brother from the motherland my question to you ladies is what would you do if you were In my shoes?

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@UncleMenace @Duchess @AbdiJohnson why don't you bring us more juicy stories like this

 

[Kalshaale]

To summarize the story:

A guy- marries a female-, continues to probably screw other female-s, while his wife- is at home alone with his child. The wife- gets lonely, contacts the friends and brother of her of a husband and ends up fucking the husband's brother, who in return is another guy-. All the individuals in this story (If this story is real) did not have any taqwa or piety to being with. They are the product of an environment where Allah's deen is absolutely absent in their lives.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

I always knew you were a messy, gossiping .

 

[waraabe]

I always knew you were a messy, gossiping .

Don't derail my thread, if you have a problem with me contact me thru the pm or contact the mod. I wont allow you to feed of my name

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

To summarize the story:

A guy- marries a female-, continues to probably screw other female-s, while his wife- is at home alone with his child. The wife- gets lonely, contacts the friends and brother of her of a husband and ends up fucking the husband's brother, who in return is another guy-. All the individuals in this story (If this story is real) did not have any taqwa or piety to being with. They are the product of an environment where Allah's deen is absolutely absent in their lives.

Wrong summary.


A had sex with her bf, then got married to a virgin, clueless religious guy. He couldn't get it up or satisfy her. He was a typical Somali guy who lasted for 30 seconds. Surprisingly she got pregnant. Before the pregnancy they used to have sex once a month after she had the baby it came down to once every 3 months. She got tired of it and complained to his family, they started hating her so she ran away to Africa, had sex orgies, men, women, goats, cows, you name it she romped it. Came back to the states and wants a divorce but ole boy refused to dirvoce her.


The end.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Don't derail my thread, if you have a problem with me contact me thru the pm or contact the mod. I wont allow you to feed of my name

Without my presence, there's no waraabe.

 

[Inactive]

I feel sorry for her soon to ex husband.

 

[Kalshaale]

Wrong summary.


A had sex with her bf, then got married to a virgin, clueless religious guy. He couldn't get it up or satisfy her. He was a typical Somali guy who lasted for 30 seconds. Surprisingly she got pregnant. Before the pregnancy they used to have sex once a month after she had the baby it came down to once every 3 months. She got tired of it and complained to his family, they started hating her so she ran away to Africa, had sex orgies, men, women, goats, cows, you name it she romped it. Came back to the states and wants a divorce but ole boy refused to dirvoce her.


The end.

My summary was towards this story below and not the story Waraabe posted.

Hey ladies I need some advice I'm in a really bad situation and I don't know what to do..
Here's my story and I hope some of you ladies in here can help me.One thing I want to say is,I know everyone hands aren't clean so please don't be so judgemental.I honestly just want an advice.
I been with my husband for 4 years now and like every couple we have our arguments and fights.however 2 years ago,things started to change between us.I've noticed that he no longer pays attention to me physicially..I mean we had our first baby and like any other women,I put on some weight.
Besides I'm a mother first and wife second so I never took the time to work out because I was busy being a house wife and taking care of my child.
I've noticed that I was the one always initiating when it comes to our sex life.I had no idea me putting on some weight would turn him off.When we started dating and before we had our first baby,I was petite.I guess I was easier to pick up and now it seems like he makes excuses in everything.
So I starting to distance myself because he started working late and started coming home late.I would spend most of the night at home by myself.. So I started just calling the people in my contacts that i used to be friends with before I got married.
One of the people that was on my contact was his brother.Now before you guys jump to conclusion,let me explain.I was best friend with his brother and we went to the same school.However I always had a crush on his brother (my husband the one I'm married to know..)whenever we used to chill and do project together when we were in college.
Beside that's my Childs uncle so things between us was never awkward or weird because he would come over to our house to chill with our son...However one night while we were just catching up on life and let me remind you guys again that my husband works late at night.So one of these nights,the brother(my husbands brother) just started pouring his feelings out.I had no idea for all these years that he even loved me because all of those years I was paying attention to his brother(my husband) and not him..
I was speechless.I mean I felt flattered and he had me blushing because now my husband doesn't even pay attention to me.i was saying to myself,"what does he see in me?"well just like any other women,I was loving the attention he was giving me.I loved that he was there when I was sad at times and just wanted a little laughter.
So the brother started to come around more often.I catch myself thinking about him and started to put little time to myself...
I love how he motivates me,how he says positive things.I love that he just doesn't see a mother who let herself go.however whenever my husband is around us,we try to just act like we just cool but the truth is,we both love each other.
I never meant to catch feelings or anything and now I'm 3 months pregnant with my 2nd baby but my husband doesn't know that,I been seeing his brother.i never meant to have sex with him.my emotions got the best of me and now I don't even know how to tell my husband.
I know his heart will be broken and I honestly never meant this to happen but ladies should I let him know the truth now or wait until i have the baby. I'm sure he will figure it out anyways after i start to show in a few months.. His brother told me he will marry me once I get my divorce. I mean there's nomore love between us anyways what kind of marriage is it,, he neglected me physically and emotionally..

 

[madamelioness]

I have no sympathy for cheaters! They should be shot point blank. What would you ladies do kulaha?? How about don't be a cheating ?!

 

[DiricLover]

How did you get in the group? Lol

 

[madamelioness]

How did you get in the group? Lol

Is it a fb group? How much of this sheeko is real?

 

[Duchess]

@UncleMenace @Duchess @AbdiJohnson why don't you bring us more juicy stories like this

You need to understand how often these stories are posted on Shaah Corner. It's almost as if the group was created for women to constantly calaacal about their husbands.

It's a depressing place and I don't want to pollute this forum with that content. Plus, y'all already accuse me of hating Somalis enough. I don't want to give you more ammo.

 

[Duchess]

How did you get in the group? Lol

He didn't. He got it off of someone on somnet who used their wife's account to access the group. @UncleMenace does the same thing.

 

[Kalshaale]

Is it a fb group? How much of this sheeko is real?

You never know. Considering how Somalis were already "badow" to begin with; the western way of living has attracted many Somalis nowadays. Promiscuity, Alcohol and gambling has become a social norm to many in their attempts to imitate the western culture.

 

[DiricLover]

Is it a fb group? How much of this sheeko is real?

Yes, fake profiles and males are not allowed. Everyday they post about how their husbands are shit in bed and how he is bum that just sits at home. It's so depressing wallahi uff. I don't think most of the sheekos are true though

 

[Kalshaale]

Yes, fake profiles and males are not allowed. Everyday they post about how their husbands are shit in bed and how he is bum that just sits at home. It's so depressing wallahi uff. I don't think most of the sheekos are true though

-fest of a group, isn't it.

 

[RudeBoi]

Moral of the story:If you can't f*ck her like a man someone else will do it for you

 

[waraabe]

How did you get in the group? Lol

Are you a member

 

[madamelioness]

You never know. Considering how Somalis were already "badow" to begin with; the western way of living has attracted many Somalis nowadays. Promiscuity, Alcohol and gambling has become a social norm to many in their attempts to imitate the western culture.

Yeah true but still I remain hopeful. We still have a sense of modesty and boundaries. Ilahay ha so hadeeyo. I worry about the next generation of young Somalis, they will have it much worse.

 

[DiricLover]

Are you a member