Inquisitive_
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As someone with good experience with both, here is a few golden advice's you should heed.
The , the undercover, the materialistic, the crazed lunatics are 20x harder to identity there then in Europe which requires most times a single glance at her or a few minutes conversation, they are a lot smarter, subtle and have 10x the skills at hiding and hooking you.
If your going there to marry some random women you got to know, you better off getting married here, it's more likely you will end up with much worse over their, and you won't even know it until she runs a few circles around you.
The rule of thumb marrying back home, is that she has to be <21 (western equivalent of 28), same sub-sub-clan, religious parents and minimum Xaafid Quran, if she has as much as pissed under a tree, you would know about it.
They are a dime a dozen over there, your best picks are orphans, I know a lot of 18-22 year old guys from West that have gone to marry there after finding it impossible here, being told they were too young, just as a community we have been funding over 400 of them for a decade, every single one of them Xaafid.
Don't set your standards low, if your going back do it big, your son/daughter need you most when your picking their mother, is the famous Somali saying.
The , the undercover, the materialistic, the crazed lunatics are 20x harder to identity there then in Europe which requires most times a single glance at her or a few minutes conversation, they are a lot smarter, subtle and have 10x the skills at hiding and hooking you.
If your going there to marry some random women you got to know, you better off getting married here, it's more likely you will end up with much worse over their, and you won't even know it until she runs a few circles around you.
The rule of thumb marrying back home, is that she has to be <21 (western equivalent of 28), same sub-sub-clan, religious parents and minimum Xaafid Quran, if she has as much as pissed under a tree, you would know about it.
They are a dime a dozen over there, your best picks are orphans, I know a lot of 18-22 year old guys from West that have gone to marry there after finding it impossible here, being told they were too young, just as a community we have been funding over 400 of them for a decade, every single one of them Xaafid.
Don't set your standards low, if your going back do it big, your son/daughter need you most when your picking their mother, is the famous Somali saying.
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