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Angelina said:
Misr is controversial due to the effects it has on society. Many Scholars that initially allowed it, retracted their statements and have said it is haram simply because they saw the effects. This isn’t new btw.

Look at Islamqa, it gives you a detailed explanation. Sh. Albani was completely against it, Sh. ibn Baz allowed it at one point and so it Sh. Uthaymeen. The latter later retracted his fatwa and said it was haram. As you can see, it is a grey area.

The issue is that, misr mostly happens with men seeking younger but poorer women who actually need money and a man to look after them. They are the main benefactors and seekers. Example, khaleeji men going to the marriage marts of Hyderabad.
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That’s pure exploitation, these kinds of marriages should be illegal, to non divorcees and widows without children.

Angelina said:
If misr becomes normalized, you’ll find that the vast majority of those doing it aren’t the older widow/divorcee with money and grown kids. That is the crux of the issue and that is what Scholars have witnessed.
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The negatives overweight the positives, usually the religion goes against any matter that falls into that category.

the reason why misr made sense to me,for divorced single mothers. Is because I have seen many women, who are done with conventional marriages, and have no other options but fall into the trap of zina. Out of desperation.

Angelina said:
Also, misr isn’t something that can be enforced btw according to even scholars that allow it, as if the wife changes her mind and askes to be looked after, the husband is obliged to change the arrangement and give her rights in full. But we both know that any man that started his marriage in such a wife isn’t ever going to be okay with playing normal husband.
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Yeah and the man could follow suit and change his mind too, and there is nothing a sheik can do about it.

The deeper you get into the details, the more confusing it get, definitely sounds unislamic.
 
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Marriage has become a joke to Muslims. Practising Christians and even atheists take marriage much more seriously (much less divorce, much less demands, collective interest in making it last, much happier, etc). Contrast that with Muslims in the west and you hear of a marriage breakdown every 6-8 weeks.
 
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AbdiFreedom said:
Marriage has become a joke to Muslims. Practising Christians and even atheists take marriage much more seriously (much less divorce, much less demands, collective interest in making it last, much happier, etc). Contrast that with Muslims in the west and you hear of a marriage breakdown every 6-8 weeks.
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Higher IQ makes them appreciate more abstract intrinsic qualities in a relationship. Even though Somalis on average are more religious they don't follow these morals that religious scripture has provided, due to either cognitive dissonance and or lower intelligence
 
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Muslim men encouraging wh0redom and broken homes as halal, women we must step up and correct these men. They want to send us all to hell.
 
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Signed up :salute:
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I had a feeling it was UK based app and it looks it is since the in app purchase currency is in pounds.

You need a 7 day trial otherwise you won't be able to navigate to the community tab to enter the dating pool.

Apparently there's a telegram channel with women discussing their experience on this app.

UK Faraaxs enjoy.
 
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AbdiFreedom said:
Marriage has become a joke to Muslims. Practising Christians and even atheists take marriage much more seriously (much less divorce, much less demands, collective interest in making it last, much happier, etc). Contrast that with Muslims in the west and you hear of a marriage breakdown every 6-8 weeks.
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My Arab friend has just concluded a very ugly divorce and he can't even see his child; the Sheikhs haven't been able to resolve it

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The Shaykh is saying "misyar marriage" is the same as "secret marriages" these days which is haram. Marriages need to be performed with a wali, witnesses and fully documented (he mentions the harms of secret marriages). Also, there's no such thing as a "misyar marriage" in sharee'ah but the concept comes from the permissibility of a woman foregoing some of her rights in a marriage. It isn't even a type of marriage because the woman can just as easily request her rights in full again and the husband has to fulfil them.
 
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