My Cousin divorced his wife 4 days into their wedding and he is PISSED OFF!

[VixR]

deceiving is a big sin in Islam. men aren't even supposed to die their hair black to hide grays to pass of as young when courting a woman for marriage, why should sexual past be hidden? anyways, it seems like the guy would have accepted her if she wasn't dishonest.

Like I said, it's rigged. You get out what you put in.

Let me try not to laugh. We all know that's a lie @ bold. The guy who would've accepted her is one who would've taken it in stride just like he happily did with the non-virgin gaal girl he was with prior, not the one who went straight to divorce kkk

 

[TheMadMullah]

You're at ease with non-virgin gaals in LTRs and marriages, but when it comes to the Somali girl whom you took her virginity she becomes like a qashin the moment she loses it. That's the stark reality.

So color yourself shocked and surprised that the product is women who're unwilling to tell you their past, or head in other directions, like that's new.

I'm very much a gaal.

I'm not going down that rabbit hole of no one wants me. I'm hyper-aware of the opposite. The few who learned I was gaal became even more interested for reasons that are obvious to me, but I'd have to be 10x more discerning than the average girl. Only once was a Somali guy worth it for me, but he was also a gaal. I suspect he was my last Somali, and there's a poetry to that, in a sense.

Good luck with dwayne james Or Roger Petterson

 

[Foreman]

Like I said, it's rigged. You get out what you put in.

Let me try not to laugh. We all know that's a lie @ bold. The guy who would've accepted her is one who would've taken it in stride just like he happily did with the non-virgin gaal girl he was with prior, not the one who went straight to divorce kkk

He could have bang her for balash than and miss with the headache. Why marry, pay meher and throw a lavish weeding for someone he will dump 2 months down the road? You argument is flawed.

 

[Ferrari]

Like I said, it's rigged. You get out what you put in.

Let me try not to laugh. We all know that's a lie @ bold. The guy who would've accepted her is one who would've taken it in stride just like he happily did with the non-virgin gaal girl he was with prior, not the one who went straight to divorce kkk

He knew about the cadaan chick and was probably effing her.
the somali girl said she was virgin. Do u really not see the difference?

 

[Foreman]

He knew about the cadaan chick and was probably effing her.
the somali girl said she was virgin. Do u really not see the difference?

She completely ignores the fact he court her by the book, disclosed his past and throw her a big party. Obviously he invested so much into the marriage. By dumping her he will end up with the short end of the stick

 

[Abdalla]

Some guys get the flower for free, but you have to pay meher. Some guys get the flower after a date at the Macdonalds, you'll get it after a lavish wedding. Wallahi that has to hurt

 

[VixR]

He could have bang her for balash than and miss with the headache. Why marry, pay meher and throw a lavish weeding for someone he will dump 2 months down the road? You argument is flawed.

Point out the flaw? 2 months?

The Somali man
A non-virgin gaal: years
A supposedly non-virgin Somali girl in this case : four days
A Somali girl who's virginity you took: numbered



The incentive a Somali non-virgin girl has to disclose her 'past' to you:
zero, zip, nada.

 

[Abdalla]

Also when is the ex wife returning to the UK? Asking for @Cognitivedissonance

 

[Ferrari]

Point out the flaw? 2 months?

The Somali man
A non-virgin gaal: years
A supposedly non-virgin Somali girl in this case : four days
A Somali girl who's virginity you took: numbered



The incentive a Somali non-virgin girl has to disclose her 'past' to you:
zero, zip, nada.

the chances a somali girl will get divorced in two days if she gets caught about her lying about her being vrigin
100%

 

[VixR]

the chances a somali girl will get divorced in two days if she gets caught about her lying about her being vrigin
100%

Nah, the fact of the matter isc it's better to take your chances and hide your sins walhamdulilaah ya satir al dunuub kkk

 

[TheMadMullah]

Point out the flaw? 2 months?

The Somali man
A non-virgin gaal: years
A supposedly non-virgin Somali girl in this case : four days
A Somali girl who's virginity you took: numbered



The incentive a Somali non-virgin girl has to disclose her 'past' to you:
zero, zip, nada.

Well here is the flaw the cadaan ex gf didn't not claim that she was a virgin when she was not while the Somali wife claimed exactly that.

It shows you that he was ok with the cadaan non virgin and would possibly be ok if his wife did tell him the truth.

 

[Ferrari]

Nah, the fact of the matter isc it's better to take your chances and hide your sins walhamdulilaah ya satir al dunuub kkk

you'd be stupid to take a big risk like that.

 

[mrlog]

Isn't it impossible to get a divorce 3 months in to the marriage??

According to Scientology or?

 

[NaomiHoney]

According to Scientology or?

Yess Scientology

 

[Foreman]

Point out the flaw? 2 months?

Na heedee

You insinuated he was not serious about marriage and will take off if the opportunity present itself and found another GF
how so when he invested so much into into marriage itself, might as well have a GF every now and then why bother with marriage in the 1st place if he had such a mindset?

 

[Foreman]

Nah, the fact of the matter isc it's better to take your chances and hide your sins walhamdulilaah ya satir al dunuub kkk

You could have said that early on.

Taking your chance and being humiliated upon "Lailat al Dukhlah"

Come clean and never get married

Tough choice to make Vik

 

[VixR]

you'd be stupid to take a big risk like that.

You only wish it was. It's a bigger risk for the sinner to disclose their sins.

You could have said that early on.

Taking your chance and being humiliated upon "Lailat al Dukhlah"

Come clean and never get married

Tough choice to make Vik

It's no choice at all. Lying is the best choice by far.

Well here is the flaw the cadaan ex gf didn't not claim that she was a virgin when she was not while the Somali wife claimed exactly that.

It shows you that he was ok with the cadaan non virgin and would possibly be ok if his wife did tell him the truth.

For years, the lack of virginity of the gaal couldn't have been farther from his mind. He was intimate with her for years without being troubled that he wasn't the one to take her virginity and was perfectly happy with her, formed a genuine bond, etc. Now come time to marry, the virginity of the girl is of the utmost importance, she's an object, he doesn't connect with her, he divorces of his companionship when earlier a gaal non-virgin had gotten all that and more for less, without having to lie about their life.

Somali men are like the Greeks of old. They fucked boys and young men for bonding, and married wives for reproduction. For all their trouble to stay virgins, Somali women get the shell and the detachment and treated like brood mare, while the non-virgins get the companionship and genuine bonding

His aunt robbed both of them of happiness

 

[TheMadMullah]

Na heedee

You insinuated he was not serious about marriage and will take off if the opportunity present itself and found another GF
how so when he invested so much into into marriage itself, might as well have a GF every now and then why bother with marriage in the 1st place if he had such a mindset?

I just learned that the meher was 15k and she got 5k in advance though she contributed 30% into the wedding expenses.. the dude is big nacas 15k for liis?

 

[Ferrari]

You only wish it was. It's a bigger risk for the sinner to disclose their sins.

how? if she's honest about it, chances are she might get married or she might not.
if she lies about, she'll definitely get divorced. The outcome is the same, no marriage. If anything, it'd be worse to have a divorce and a failed marriage on your resume. explain how it's worse to disclose ur past?

 

[TheMadMullah]

You only wish it was. It's a bigger risk for the sinner to disclose their sins.

It's no choice at all. Lying is the best choice by far.

For years, the lack of virginity of the gaal couldn't have been farther from his mind. He was intimate with her for years without being troubled that he wasn't the one to take her virginity and was perfectly happy with her, formed a genuine bond, etc. Now come time to marry, the virginity of the girl is of the utmost importance, she's an object, he doesn't connect with her, he divorces of his companionship when earlier a gaal non-virgin had gotten all that and more for less, without having to lie about their life.

Somali men are like the greeks of old. They fucked boys and young men for bonding, and married wives for reproduction. For all their trouble to stay virgins, Somali women get the shell and the detachment and treated like brood mare, while the non-virgins get the companionship and genuine bonding

His aunt robbed both of them of happiness

What your failing to bring to understand is the non virgin cadaan girl came at a 0 cost and left with nothing.

But our xalimo here lies and come at a huge cost $$$ on behalf of the poor guy and will probably leave with it only after 4 days. I hope now you see the difference