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This is why women need to stop getting with broke men. Men are ungrateful creatures by nature. They have shown their ass many time when they get money.
again my dear sister, there is a difference of opinion.The shafici and hanbali madhab said its preferable to stick to one wife. I think we should take their advice.
I did some ijtihad and I prefer the opinion that its better to have one wife because men are pretty unfair and cant be fair especially in this economy.again my dear sister, there is a difference of opinion.
I do agree with shaykh ruhayli that it depends on the situation. In some cases it might be better for a man to marry more wives(many unmarried women in society like now just to name an example) and in some cases it may be better to not do so (it is natural for a woman to get jealous and if you cannot please them both perhaps its better to stay monogamous)
I do also see the wisdom in the opinion that it is better to marry more women, as it is a fact that the words of Allah in chapter 4 do start with 2 and that marrying one is mentioned when one cannot uphold justice.
Again, there are multiple reasons mentioned. And yes, it is said that purely because it is Fatima(may Allah be pleased with her) as this would hurt her and whoever hurts Fatima(may Allah be pleased with her) also hurts the messenger of Allah ο·Ί.So the prophet AS forbade the marriage because she was the daughter of abu jahl not because of fatima getting hurt in the process? What if it was another woman, would the prophet have fobade it?
you're not a mujtahid but again like I said, if you incline more towards that opinion, thats completely fineI did some ijtihad and I prefer the opinion that its better to have one wife because men are pretty unfair and cant be fair especially in this economy.
Errr why not?you're not a mujtahid but again like I said, if you incline more towards that opinion, thats completely fine
i don't know whether to laugh at this or'Buy a man shoes, and watch him walk out of your life'
Btw, I'm tired of defending women from bad polygamous situations. I've heard of women, who are sharing a man, and working at the same time. Can you imagine that? All the men in this world, and you've decided to share ONE man, and he's not even paying the bills?
That's when I retired from defending them.
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Errr why not?
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Therefore if it hurt fatima, a fellow woman then polygny should overall be avoided to prevent the heartbreak of women and the fitna of divorce. Women have every right to refuse sharing their husband. Also the financial pinch is no joke, if the husband takes another wife much less 4 wives, the finances and lifestyle will be of less quality. In these times all I see is cons not prosAgain, there are multiple reasons mentioned. And yes, it is said that purely because it is Fatima(may Allah be pleased with her) as this would hurt her and whoever hurts Fatima(may Allah be pleased with her) also hurts the messenger of Allah ο·Ί.
again, there are multiple reasons mentioned but this is one of those mentioned. please do not just focus on one of them but read them all.
This is what I really need to take note of. I've very confident person on the inside. How should i demonstrate that to the world?You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.
There is a reason why people say, youβll only really know a manβs real personality and desire when his stomach is full. Sometimes after a man hits the jackpot, you might end up not even being his preferred type of woman.
I'm only willing to finish a quarter of the last round with him.
Thatβs the thing, most donβt, hence why we have a surplus of stories like this.
Yes, money and power is a funny thing isnβt it.Reminds me of an old saying "Power does not corrupt. Power reveals." I think it's a little iffy and sometimes it does really corrupt otherwise goodhearted people but sometimes, yes, what it really does is reveal what that person would have always been if they had the power to be that.