DiricLover
Qalanjo
I will never understand it. Like I said he can 'protect' her without sleeping with her!!!!Once more I request that these darn females take off their Western lenses.
Dammit! Our people are faced with scarcity in resources. For you $100 means nothing to you but this $100 is 3 months wages.
There's always a needy man who could never get married because he couldn't afford the aqal. Now he sees a dead man and that's his biggest opportunity, to snatch that away quickly and assume the other man's family. At this point the deceased man's family cannot enter into any socialization or say in their deceased brother's home.
Also usually a lot of the men back home would incredibly abuse the children of another man. Have you not watched national geographic's Serengeti lions where the lion kills the Cubs of his new female's other kids. Back home it is the same, life's hardship have made people harsh. Not this life you idiots lead where you eat ice creams and relax on a Netflix.
I hope you now understand the reasons behind it.