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    Somali air traffic controllers UNITE

    Hi I am currently looking for careers to go into and air traffic control is one I'm specifically looking into however no one I know does it. I have asked everyone my uncle, my friend, my friends brother and my friends brothers cats babysitter etc. On top of that its a white nepotism-ish field...
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    One of my profs said something racist to me

    So i was basically talking to this prof (Chinese) and the topic of USRAs came up (research assistantship program in Canada). Before asking me anything else, he was like "you should indicate you are black when applying because then you'd probably get it". like he didn't ask me my GPA (which is...
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    for those of you living in the Netherlands

    are the people racist over there? i heard black face is super normal. was thinking about doing grad school there (university of Amsterdam if ur wondering) but i was worried it'd be super hard to live there cuz of racism. there are really few universities that have the program i want so am kinda...
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    Please help...

    Basically my parents are yelling at me and practically forcing me to go to college. I graduated from high school this year and I already feel like shit. My mother never fails to compare me to other kids my age and criticizes me for taking too long to figure out what I want to do. She’s forcing...
  5. Cartman

    Advice from Asian women to Black women

    Do you Somalis want to secure an cadaan man, we’ll look no further. Asian women give their advice :pachah1:
  6. 486th President

    I hate myself

    Ever since quarantine has happend I’ve felt unfifiled I’m masturbating, barley keeping up with school, thinking weird stuff, unmotivated, I’m reliving the same day, I pray but nothing comes, I’m bored, life sucks, I’m thinking bad thoughts, I’ve been doing things that I’ve never done before, and...
  7. 486th President

    What’s the best place for a first date

    I was thinking that the first date should be simple nothing fancy maybe those 2 seated romantic Ferris wheel things or maybe just McDonalds or something I need to know for future purposes when I become a sophomore or after the lockdown 🤷🏾‍♂️
  8. Helios

    Smart Man With Advice For Xalimos

    My Somali is improving I could understand most of what he said :wow1:
  9. Bossanova

    Skin Care: What Do You Use On Your Face?

    Hello, I’m a guy and I’ve been recently getting into taking care of my skin and I’d like to know what the ladies here are using. I’m using Cerve wash and moisturizer. I have oily and pimple prone skin. Anything I should avoid and/or put in my routine.
  10. Calaf

    Charity and Opinion

    Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you And to others, I greet you and say Hello. Dear Somalispotters, The only reason I have returned is for your advice. Now, indeed, I did say...
  11. QAADDO

    Why somalis should get into woodworking

    Woodworking if managed correctly can easily save the economy of Somalia. Here is why: 1. Cool stuff can be made out of it 2. Because of cool stuff, people will want to make and be able to sell and buy more stuff, resulting in revenue feedback loops. 3. Helps econominally remove invasive...
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    Don't be afraid to walk alone

    The best youtuber that gives amazing advice. This for us guys we need to inspire one way or another.
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    High IQ. Less friends, less problems.

  14. Thugnificent

    school

    I'm currently a first year civil engineering student (bachelor) thinking about doing architectur(bachelor) on the side. Any tips/ advice.
  15. Yungmulababy23

    Somali's in trouble in Lewiston Maine

    A fight in lewsiton Maine happened a couple weeks ago. Racist peckerwood white animals attacked a group of young somali men. Allah intervened and said hell no and killed off one of the racist white guys, (he got in a comma after getting his ass beat and died.) ever since then white keyboard...
  16. Strawberryshuffle

    Emotional vampire

    Hi everyone, I need some serious advice, I got to know this muslim girl in the begin of 2017, I thought she was nice and friendly and all and we would sometimes chat using whatsapp, just the casual stuff, how are you how school etc etc. Now here comes the story shortly after we got acquainted...
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    What am I doing wrong with my hair?

    So the hair on my head is thick and quite frizzy. I live in Hargeisa now, so products are limited to pretty basic products. What surprises me though is everywhere else, my hair is soft. Mustache, beard, chest, and body hair. Straight short and wavy mix with curls It makes me wonder if I should...
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    I need advice badly

    First off, I need to say that im a half Somali with a Filipino mother. My somali is minimal and my father passed away years ago. I dont know his side of the family because of several, complicated reasons. I live now in a Somali community/neighborhood, and my mother is getting harassment from...
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    Somali women only (help!)

    As-salamu alaykum Abaayos, I'm new to this forum but basically I wanted help from my sisters needed help from my somali sisters. I'm a 21 year old woman (still struggling to get used to that) and I was raised in the west. I've realised now that I've wasted about 9 years of my life and have...
  20. rabshole

    Sincere advice thread

    This thread is dedicated to giving small pieces of advice to your fellow Somalispotters I will start myself. Bismillah here goes. Never EVER lay down on your bed an hour after maghrib if you havent prayed isha already :francis: Post below some lessons you learned the hard way and have now...
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