Young somali man in need of some testosterone injections opposes polygamy and diagnoses polygamous men with mental issues
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He's not lying
I get the point. No one should set out four wives as their aim.
I don’t think Prophet Muhammad SAW set out to have four wives from the beginning when he married Khadija but got married when circumstances dictated it.
You marry a second wife because you need to not because you want to.
I don’t think Prophet Muhammad SAW set out to have four wives from the beginning when he married Khadija but got married when circumstances dictated it.
You marry a second wife because you need to not because you want to.
Theres nothing wrong with desiring more than one wife.Albeit not common, but why do you believe that one should not set four wives as their aim whereby they are legally allowed.
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I swear to God when i see a man with titties and three double chins my pimp hand start twitching.
When it comes to the multiple wives, I agree with the Shafici scholars that state it should be a need rather than a want.
Even the Surah that permits multiple wives say that most of polygamists will not treat their wives fairly, meaning that the majority that take part in this will be sinners.
My opinion:
Polygamy is perfectly fine as Allah has made it halal.
My concerns:
-Polygamy is a privilege, rather than a right. The majority of men don't have that 'right' especially the young on this forum. You don't even have the requirements to be in a polygamous marriage.
-The vast majority of Polygamous marriages I have seen aren't conducted in a halal way. Usually, the wife is back in Somalia and the husband visits her two months in a year. That goes against her Sharia rights. Also, finances is a huge problem. This is a generation that don't want to spend on women and cry about mehr, yet their vocal about their 'rights' to polygamy.
-Men are obsessed with forcing their opinions down women's throats. Women have every right to put polygamy clauses in their marriage contracts.
To conclude:
But apart from that, polygamy is something the Prophet s.a.w and the Sahabas have engaged in. We can't make the halal haram, nor can we act like every man has a 'right' to or that women can't have choices.
Polygamy is perfectly fine as Allah has made it halal.
My concerns:
-Polygamy is a privilege, rather than a right. The majority of men don't have that 'right' especially the young on this forum. You don't even have the requirements to be in a polygamous marriage.
-The vast majority of Polygamous marriages I have seen aren't conducted in a halal way. Usually, the wife is back in Somalia and the husband visits her two months in a year. That goes against her Sharia rights. Also, finances is a huge problem. This is a generation that don't want to spend on women and cry about mehr, yet their vocal about their 'rights' to polygamy.
-Men are obsessed with forcing their opinions down women's throats. Women have every right to put polygamy clauses in their marriage contracts.
To conclude:
But apart from that, polygamy is something the Prophet s.a.w and the Sahabas have engaged in. We can't make the halal haram, nor can we act like every man has a 'right' to or that women can't have choices.
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As always, valuable insights given
He has the right to ask a valid question. Is 4 Wives necessary even if Islam tells you its Okey? People usually run for the loophole but never read fine prints. The fine prints are : Are you able to cater to your 4 wives equally-or risk Jahanaam ?
Surah Nisa says that we will not be fair to our wives.
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Typo meant wives.
And you will never be able to be just between wives, even if you should strive, so do not incline too much to one of them so as to leave the other hanging, and if you reconcile and have piety, then surely Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Surah Nisa verse 129.
4 wives as an aim? Maybe if your rich this thinking is normal
Mashalaaah u see, that is the "fine print" that Men gloss over. Allaah swt clearly stated the nature of Men right there in bold letters. But Allaah swt is also forgiving so they can limit it to two wives. I think that is sufficient
