In Europe you always see and hear stories about somali women who got their kids taken by social workers 98% you only see women demonstrating and supporting each other meanwhile the fathers are nowhere be seen
Imagine being a father and have 0 clue about your kid and not being involved in your kids life in my opinion even if you aint in good terms with your wife ,divorced or left her to be with your new wife whatever the situation
The minute you father kids you need take full accountability and responsibility over them only way you can do that is by being a man set aside your differences and make arrangements with your ex about visiting and spending time with them
Children are an amana theyre a trust that Allah has placed in your hands but with somalis its been normalized seeing couple go their separate ways and the man doesn't look back nor contact his kids