Yasir Qadhi: Brothers, please stop commenting on sister's attire!

[Deleted L]

Yasir Qadhi spoke the harsh truth here. How many "Dawah" youtubers (not mentioning names) do you guys know who are obsessed with Hijabi youtubers and bash them publicly under the guise of "giving advise?" I remember when Dina Tokio took off her Hijab, the whole internet went crazy and the so called "Dawah Sheikhs" were milking this story non stop for a week.

 

[Chun Li]

I agree with you & thank you

 

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[Chun Li]

These “men” should focus on their own mother, sisters, cousins, nieces, etc.

 

[Sumaaya]

They went IN on Dina Tokio miskiinta lol, I remember

 

[MiskeenMikeVick]

No

 

[Alluring]

For a random man to comment on a woman’s clothes means he wasn’t lowering his gaze

 

[Mercury]

They went IN on Dina Tokio miskiinta lol, I remember

ive seen her channel before she didn't deserve the backlash her and her husband they seem like nice kind people

 

[Regg]

I always wondered what do their family think when they do this? From the look of those thumbnails, I can tell 95% of those women are Arabs, Pakistanis and East Africans where families from those backgrounds are very conservative when it comes to their women.

No one is tech illiterate in this day and age, every boomers know how to go on YouTube so what do they do when they see their caked up daughters, nieces and cousins in there?

I’ll lose my shit if I see one and it will be gone asap.

 

[Revolutionary]

Well you can address an issue but you shouldn't milk it, plus i have mixed feelings on Yasir Qadhi, too much controversy surrounding him

 

[Zoro]

Dudes with feet fetish aren't losing the "lower the gaze" game. Good for them, fu**ing weirdos

 

[Villainess]

I have mixed feelings about this topic. Especially when girls wear see through clothing with "hijab" and tell you to "mind your buisness"

 

[Deleted L]

I have mixed feelings about this topic. Especially when girls wear see through clothing with "hijab" and tell you to "mind your buisness"

You're a women, Yasir Qadhi was specifically targeting young men. You could advise among your own gender (at the right time and place) since women have a better social standing among their gender then men, let alone a young man advising which is not wise.

 

[Omar del Sur]

I agree with you & thank you

says the wannabe star.

 

[Omar del Sur]

there is an issue in a man approaching a woman and doing this- that is correct. but that men should comment on what women wear in and of itself, there is nothing wrong with that and there is no rule that only men can comment on the behavior of men and only women can comment on the behavior of women.

 

[Sumaaya]

there is an issue in a man approaching a woman and doing this- that is correct. but that men should comment on what women wear in and of itself, there is nothing wrong with that and there is no rule that only men can comment on the behavior of men and only women can comment on the behavior of women.

Some of the men on YouTube attack the females like a pack of hyenas and then a lot of people follow in pursuit. That is not a very Islamic nor manly thing to do huuno

 

[Omar del Sur]

Some of the men on YouTube attack the females like a pack of hyenas and then a lot of people follow in pursuit. That is not a very Islamic nor manly thing to do huuno

Can you show me the evidence from the Quran or Sunnah that says this is forbidden? I am fine with believing what you're telling me, no problem- just as soon as you show the proof from Quran or Sunnah. Also, Quran and Sunnah talk about enjoining the good and forbidding the evil.

 

[Sumaaya]

Can you show me the evidence from the Quran or Sunnah that says this is forbidden? I am fine with believing what you're telling me, no problem- just as soon as you show the proof from Quran or Sunnah. Also, Quran and Sunnah talk about enjoining the good and forbidding the evil.

You are suppose to advice in a way that is kind and in private

 

[Deleted L]

there is an issue in a man approaching a woman and doing this- that is correct. but that men should comment on what women wear in and of itself, there is nothing wrong with that and there is no rule that only men can comment on the behavior of men and only women can comment on the behavior of women.

As Yasir Qadhi said: "As our scholars said, when commanding the good or forbidding the evil will result in a worst harm, then don't do it."

Islam is not just a religion with rules and rituals, it's a religion of wisdom. Islam is suppose to make us wise. Generally speaking, women would not take advise from men, especially men who are younger than them or the same age. If you approach an average Muslimah on the street and try to give her advise, she'll yell at you, screaming "mind your business" in a harsh way or she'll fight you. It's best and more appropriate if women give other women advise since women have a better social standing among their own gender. What we men should do is lower our gaze and move on with our days.

On the authority of Abu Sa`eed al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say, “Whosoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then [let him change it] with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart — and that is the weakest of faith.” (Sahih Muslim)

What we learn from this wise Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (ﷺ) is to act with wisdom depending on the different situations you're in. If you can't change it with the hand, do it with the tongue, if you can't do it with the tongue, then dislike it in your heart.

 

[Omar del Sur]

As Yasir Qadhi said: "As our scholars said, when commanding the good or forbidding the evil will result in a worst harm, then don't do it."

Islam is not just a religion with rules and rituals, it's a religion of wisdom. Islam is suppose to make us wise. Generally speaking, women would not take advise from men, especially men who are younger than them or the same age. If you approach an average Muslimah on the street and try to give her advise, she'll yell at you, screaming "mind your business" in a harsh way or she'll fight you. It's best and more appropriate if women give other women advise since women have a better social standing among their own gender. What we men should do is lower our gaze and move on with our days.

On the authority of Abu Sa`eed al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say, “Whosoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then [let him change it] with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart — and that is the weakest of faith.” (Sahih Muslim)

What we learn from this wise Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (ﷺ) is to act with wisdom depending on the different situations you're in. If you can't change it with the hand, do it with the tongue, if you can't do it with the tongue, then dislike it in your heart.

I already said you shouldn't approach a woman. You shouldn't approach a woman on the street. But there is nothing wrong Islamically if a woman makes a thread on here "why I took off the hijab" and you comment with some proofs from Quran and Sunnah discussing the issue from the Islamic standpoint.

Furthermore, this "wisdom" argument gets used to defend all kinds of crazy stuff. I saw a video where a man was trying to pressure Ahmed Deedat into allowing his organization to deal in interest and he was using that same "wisdom" argument.

You can't just say "Islam is a religion of wisdom" and then say whatever you want and say this is the correct Islamic approach because it is "wisdom". People can try to justify anything that way. You could say anything is Islam.