Yaraye is this your dream "Cinderella" life?

Yaraye

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cooli3o said:
Don't be a mother then
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So a mother has to be dealing with the child 24/7 huh? :ohreally: You men and your hypocrisies. A woman doesn't deserve to be a mother if she wants to pass her child to someone else for several hours? :what: yet many men are gone from early morning then come home late and start the entire process again the next day which means they may not even interact with their child for days. Yet a woman is forced to deal with a child every min of the day or they don't deserve to be a mother? shut up with your nonsense! :westbrookwtf:
 
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Somali Ugaas said:
Wouldn't the police be tracking her credit card or bank account and see her activity. Or is Dubai police as useless as their Lamborghini police cars.
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The wife better claim that she knows nothing. "I'm just a housewife! I got no idea where he gets the money from. I know nothing!" :hillarybiz:
 
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Yaraye said:
So a mother has to be dealing with the child 24/7 huh? :ohreally: You men and your hypocrisies. A woman doesn't deserve to be a mother if she wants to pass her child to someone else for several hours? :what: yet many men are gone from early morning then come home late and start the entire process again the next day which means they may not even interact with their child for days. Yet a woman is forced to deal with a child every min of the day or they don't deserve to be a mother? shut up with your nonsense! :westbrookwtf:
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That is the role of the mother, from the very first humans to the last, the man makes money the women looks after the child.
plus in these countries where they have maids who take care of their children 6 days a week the maid becomes the childs mother and the mother feels disconnected from the child
noone said you need to be with the child 24/7, but if being with your child outside makes you repulsed then you are not ready to be a mother
 
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Somali Ugaas said:
I just thought maybe you would want your child to come along with you as a fun little trip. Poor kid will grow up without father and mother. Mama at the Mall and Papa playing Pool or whatever
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lol stop being dramatic
Over It What GIF by Bounce
a few hours each day with the maid will not cause the child to think they aren't loved. They'll be just fine.:kodaksmiley:
 
Somali Saayid

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Yaraye said:
lol stop being dramatic
Over It What GIF by Bounce
a few hours each day with the maid will not cause the child to think they aren't loved. They'll be just fine.:kodaksmiley:
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When they put you in nursing care remember this comment, they'll probably buy a nice 3 bedroom house for the maid too.
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cooli3o said:
That is the role of the mother, from the very first humans to the last, the man makes money the women looks after the child.
plus in these countries where they have maids who take care of their children 6 days a week the maid becomes the childs mother and the mother feels disconnected from the child
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Most women have the maid do the hard work of the child (ex; changing diapers..etc). they accompany both the maid and their child to supervise. They bond with the child that way by always being with them, talking to the child, and playing with the child.
cooli3o said:
noone said you need to be with the child 24/7, but if being with your child outside makes you repulsed then you are not ready to be a mother
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Just cuz I said the maid needs to accompany both the child and me make me repulsed by my own child? There are times to go out with the child. Shopping is not the time to be with a child. I want to have fun. How could i do that with a creature besides me who will grab everything and jump off the stairs. Eventually I'll end up doing another round of babysitting. which is why the maid needs to be there for an extra pair of eyes and hands for the child's safety and my own peace of mind. I can shop peacefully and include my child to pick things from time to time.
 
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Somali Ugaas said:
When they put you in nursing care remember this comment, they'll probably buy a nice 3 bedroom house for the maid too.
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My children will not put me in a nursing home. Astagfurullah, waxaas ha igu siraadinin. Somali women since the beginning of time had maids to help with the house and child rearing. Key word "Help".
the child's mother need to spend time with the child, not necessarily do the Physical labor that comes with the child. That's what the maid is for. Plus the maid for the child will not be there for long. The child will eventually get the the age where they can use the bathroom on their own, not need diapers, bathe themselves, and take care of themselves physically. That means you only need a maid for the house, which should be switched once in a while to prevent a deep bond. The bond with you must be the deepest for the child, replacing the maid once in a while will do the trick.

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Yaraye said:
So a mother has to be dealing with the child 24/7 huh? :ohreally: You men and your hypocrisies. A woman doesn't deserve to be a mother if she wants to pass her child to someone else for several hours? :what: yet many men are gone from early morning then come home late and start the entire process again the next day which means they may not even interact with their child for days. Yet a woman is forced to deal with a child every min of the day or they don't deserve to be a mother? shut up with your nonsense! :westbrookwtf:
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Do you not understand family dynamics.

The father doesn't need to be at hone 24/7 for him to be connected to his family. He goes out and works.

The woman can't just leave their child all day like a father does without feeling disconnected. All children who grew up with maids instead of their mother see their female maids as their mother figure. The opposite is not true for fathers since they take a different role in a child's life and affection is shown in different ways by the father.
 
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