Warya since yall hooyo mataalo and southern people. I'll just tell you about the xeedho tradition.
-Xeedho is a Waqooyi/northern somali tradition. There are two types of Xeedho, The muqumad one and the Macaan/Sabiib one. Xeedho is made by the girls family for the inlaws as a sumbol of the union of these two families and welcome the guy to the family circle. The 3rd night of the wedding week is when the xeedhos are exchanged in a colourful buraanbur and hido iyo dhaqan party by Sodohooyinka(Sodoh= mother in law).
Xeedho
Maxawash = mashed dates with spices
Then there is the Muqumad

which is basically sun-dried beef jerky somali style fried in oil/butter mainly eaten by men.
Xeedho 2. It's full of different kinds of sweets, uunsi, sabeeb etc for women.
After a month or so of the wedding, you return the Xeedho/Fijaan to the girls family and you've to fill it with gifts. Can be traditional dresses, money, perfumes etc