Xalimos n abdis , opinions please.....

[Jungle]

Ive got this ex that i speak to every 2-4 months on the phone for about 2 hours plus about life, our relationships basically who we're dealin with and what we expect from eachother (gas). Ive known this girl for like 12 years, same school all that and she lives 10 mins away from me till this day. I popped her cherry. We've both got kids at this point, 1 each .
She knows some of my siblings and i know her big brothers. We was actually together for about 4 months at 16 where we was active but we've kept in contact this whole time in between our own relationships and honestly only f*ck like twice in them 12 yrs . Never speak on road tho unless face 2 face meaning if i see her across the road i don't say nothing and vice versa. Recently we spoke and she made a unexpected proposition in a marriage ting, about lets raise our kids together n make some more. Im considering it but its easy for her to say tbh. Shes bad af from the day i met her in yr6 till today where we both mid 20s n above.b

 

[Revolutionary]

Damn so you guys both got kids and are divorced with the partners you made the child with? I say if you are committed go for it

 

[Alluring]

1. Why don't you raise your son? Does your ex not let you see him?

2. You both are divorced with 1 child, I say it's best to become a family if you guys connect well.

 

[Bronco]

I call this strange bro. You either like her or don't. The fact that you haven't pursued her in what I imagine has been 10 years says a lot.

Then again, I'm personally never the type to go back on anything. If I'm done with it, I am completely done with it. No matter how good it was.

Don't marry her, you're both doing this out of convenience.

 

[Jungle]

1. Why don't you raise your son? Does your ex not let you see him?

2. You both are divorced with 1 child, I say it's best to become a family if you guys connect well.

Your first q is all the way out there. Why you'd assume that im not allowed to see my seed?

 

[Alluring]

Your first q is all the way out there. Why you'd assume that im not allowed to see my seed?

Because I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt over not "rasing your son", it's either that or you're a deadbeat.

Edit: Seems you edited out the part mentioning you don't raise your son

 

[Lotus7]

Your first q is all the way out there. Why you'd assume that im not allowed to see my seed?

How disrespectful to your kid, calling them your seed.

 

[Revolutionary]

Because I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt over not "rasing your son", it's either that or you're a deadbeat.

Edit: Seems you edited out the part mentioning you don't raise your son

 

[Villainess]

this is a mess.. please don't tell me either of you are somali

 

[Nak Muay]

If you've stayed in contact all these years there's clearly still something there. You took her virginity, some girls get really attached and get hung up on that.

Do it sxb

 

[Jungle]

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Because I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt over not "rasing your son", it's either that or you're a deadbeat.

Edit: Seems you edited out the part mentioning you don't raise your son

Listen i am there when im needed. My child go school so all she do put em in a uniform n i pick em up. That inhouse ting on her, holidays on me and thats end of the story

 

[Alluring]

Listen i am there when im needed. My child go school so all she do put em in a uniform n i pick em up. That inhouse ting on her, holidays on me and thats end of the story

You sound slow

 

[Gambar]

I thought you were much older.

 

[salma saluuni]

 

[Jungle]

You sound slow

If that sounds slow to YOU then so be it. Shes not no goody 2 shoes and her female relatives help her out lol. Grow tf up

I thought you were much older.

Lol how old do you think i am?

 

[Yukon_Niner]

I remember when you showed your dreads

Should've not ignored my prejudices, of course this is what a Somali with dreads does.

 

[Gambar]

If that sounds slow to YOU then so be it. Shes not no goody 2 shoes and her female relatives help her out lol. Grow tf up


Lol how old do you think i am?

Late 20s 27-29. Your Somali is top knotch, big up yourself. Glad to know I’m your elder.

 

[Finesse]

"seed"... isn't that what African Americans say?

 

[Lotus7]

"seed"... isn't that what African Americans say?

Somaha

His use of language that alone tells you what kinda man he is.

 

[Alluring]

"seed"... isn't that what African Americans say?

He speaks/types very slow, is a *possible* deadbeat, has dreads, and refers to his child as sperm.