Xalimo regrets getting married & misses the streets.
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I’ve noticed a trend the more marriage obsessed people have short lived marriages. Don’t get wrong marriage can be a beautiful thing. But just for the sake of it ehh.
From all the red flags of that 2 cells brain wife post you got bothered by this?
100% yes.
Bad hygiene is nasty and its enough for any sane person to want to leave and get a divorce.
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She should have been real with herself before getting married. Though personal and particularly familial expectations could have been a factor.
She should have also vetted the guy before accepting his proposal. Though this is harder for people who don't date before marriage.
I high-key thinking dating and relationships make sense in the modern times to ensure long term happiness in relationships.
Also, the guy should have just married a more traditional girl, because she would have been more his speed. Then again, he's probably oblivious to her resentment.
She could have simply married a more Westernized man who was more her speed. Family may have not have approved, but she would personally be happier.
Her jealousy of her friends being wined and dined by ballers is a slight red-flag on account of the fact that it will most definitely result in a lot of resentment no matter what happens, as most men are realistically not gonna have it like that based on simple statistics. This doesn't mean you should settle for someone broke, but there are levels to this shit.
Also those ballers are not particularly interested in wifing people up. They usually know that they're pretty rare in general and usually wait before wifing people up.
Usually from my experience, women inflate short term flings with their value as an eligible long term partner. Because the ballers create a high level experience, that standard simply doesn't change. As a result, people who hook up with them usually either settle and get resentment or end up lonely cause they wait too long.
She should have been real with herself before getting married. Though personal and particularly familial expectations could have been a factor.
She should have also vetted the guy before accepting his proposal. Though this is harder for people who don't date before marriage.
I high-key thinking dating and relationships make sense in the modern times to ensure long term happiness in relationships.
Also, the guy should have just married a more traditional girl, because she would have been more his speed. Then again, he's probably oblivious to her resentment.
She could have simply married a more Westernized man who was more her speed. Family may have not have approved, but she would personally be happier.
Her jealousy of her friends being wined and dined by ballers is a slight red-flag on account of the fact that it will most definitely result in a lot of resentment no matter what happens, as most men are realistically not gonna have it like that based on simple statistics. This doesn't mean you should settle for someone broke, but there are levels to this shit.
Also those ballers are not particularly interested in wifing people up. They usually know that they're pretty rare in general and usually wait before wifing people up.
Usually from my experience, women inflate short term flings with their value as an eligible long term partner. Because the ballers create a high level experience, that standard simply doesn't change. As a result, people who hook up with them usually either settle and get resentment or end up lonely cause they wait too long.
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NordicSomali
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I think lots of women feel that way, but they rarely say that. If lots of men abandon their kids then obviously lots of women have this secret desire too, particularly in somali women.
Yeah. A big part of it imho is being too career focused. I'm at that phase now and will not be getting married until my goals are completed and I'm in a more stable position to focus in relationships. This would result in having more time for more intimacy. Worked for my uncle. He's basically my blueprint lol
Saxib, being too career focused doesn't mean you should let your hygiene go. I'd be so embarrassed if my parner thought I stank
.Also, all he does is play video games supposedly. So he has time to play games but not wash his armpits and entertain his wife?
Anyways, i'd doubt they'll last. But she needs to be honest with him, so that next time he doesn't subject his next wife with that nonsense.
Also, she needs to understand that comparison is the the thief of joy. Those ballers tend to be morally corrup and use and discard women like their many trainers, but when you're stuck at home in a loveless marriage its easy for you to end up focusing on others.
All my single friends flying out, wined and dined by ballers." This statement is very questionable. This might indicate she was flying out, wined and dined with "Ballers" before she married. Yes you can blame the husband for not being hygiene, but those defending her shouldn't overshadow her statement by saying "well uhh her husband doesn't bath."
I would be thinking of all the bitxhes i could be fuxking if I was dealing with a stank ass women.
Don’t blame the chick tbh.
You have to go deep in the countryside to find the cute untouched virgin who doesn't own a phone and will be grateful for a bottle of clean water for mehr.Only Village Girls Are Pure Anymore May Wickedness Never Befall Us
I assume that "bathe" in this context includes showers, because I can't possibly imagine that most adults are bathing in still waters for the purposes of cleaning themselves.
Man gotta pay the hydro bill, saving money 
Put some unsi on and take care of your child,
Put some unsi on and take care of your child,
Nilotic
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I actually don't get why this is funny
Showers are so much better; baths are only good after you've already showered and just want to relax in hot water and essential oils.
