Somali people in the west are doomed, I guess that what happens when your prioritize culture and reputation over education and the wellbeing of your child = rebellious people.
I agree with you ألف مرة everything with your statement,
أنت تتحدث عن الحقيقة
قد تبدو شابًا ، ولكن لديك عقول أكثر من تلك التي تسمى الكبار
but you also forgot to mention that Somalis prioritise religion over everything , this toxic relationship with Islam should be confined privately within households and we should not let it dictate our lives, unfortunately we are not empathetic , we lack emotional intelligence since we tend to look for own interests first (reputation, clan status and honour) rather than the well being of children hence it's common for neglect and dysfunction to flourish
The child will feel left out and marginalised
The solution is to legislate reform and it should be implemented nationwide