Fam I am not sending you money if you have a second wife and your parents live in the baadiyo, I will send money to your parents and, if they want, they can send you money. I have more respect for people that take in orphans than people getting a second wife.If women were to wake tomorrow and become devoid of jealousy, they’d become the 2nd, 3rd, 4th wife of a man with money, looks ect as there will be more access to men like that. Furthermore, the number of men and the number of women is roughly equal with some societies actually having more men. The idea that there is more women is a myth and I don’t know why Muslims like to peddle this. But since there are equal number of men and women and high value or relatively successful men are now able to take on 4 women, the vast majority of working class man will be left with 0. It’s why civilizations such as the Romans banned polygamy, it is why Islam actually reduced polygamy to 4 and added rules. To simply put it women’s natural preference for monogamy and societal restrictions has allowed men to procreate.