Would you marry someone with a mental illness

[SOULSEARCHING]

I meet up with a close friend the other day, and she told me she recently got engaged and I asked how her relationship been , and she said it's fun sometimes and sometimes not, she shared with me her man has schizophrenia and biploar and she knew it before she got engaged to him, she accepted it because she loves him.

I was like wow you white girls are something else lol.
My question is would you marry someone with an mental illness?

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

I meet up with a close friend the other day, and she told me she recently got engaged and I asked how her relationship been , and she said it's fun sometimes and sometimes not, she shared with me her man has schizophrenia and biploar and she knew it before she got engaged to him, she accepted it because she loves him.

I was like wow you white girls are something else lol
My question is would you marry someone with an mental illness?

Islamically it is not acceptable.

 

[Abdisamad]

No

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Islamically it is not acceptable.

I didn't find a Hadith backing up your statement

 

[Yukon_Niner]

Nope

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

I didn't find a Hadith backing up your statement

Sound of mind is a prerequisite.

I have seen Somalis getting the mad sons married.

 

[Basra]

I meet up with a close friend the other day, and she told me she recently got engaged and I asked how her relationship been , and she said it's fun sometimes and sometimes not, she shared with me her man has schizophrenia and biploar and she knew it before she got engaged to him, she accepted it because she loves him.

I was like wow you white girls are something else lol
My question is would you marry someone with an mental illness?

White people are so stable. They behave like Muslims, and Muslims behave like gaalo lol

White people household is more a two parent household than single mother or father. The mental illness is not a big deal for them.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

White people are so stable. They behave like Muslims, and Muslims behave like gaalo lol

White people household is more a two parent household than single mother or father. The mental illness is not a big deal for them.

The girl is also taken on being a mother to his two other children from his ex.

I was like you are crazy lol

 

[Lostbox]

Dealing with a normal person is a headache

 

[Aurelian]

No, probably we would get divorced in 2-4 yrs after marriage, so this isn't good, for me at least

 

[Apollo]

People with severe mental illnesses like schizophrenia or bipolar disorder IMO should not pass on their genes. It is very selfish of them to do that as those diseases are highly heritable.

But for mild stuff like ADHD or mild anxiety I'd be more lenient.

 

[AishaBarri]

Terrible idea. Bipolar + schizophrenia?? I don’t wanna be rude but this seems like a very unstable situation. Must be true love because could never be me

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Terrible idea. Bipolar + schizophrenia?? I don’t wanna be rude but this seems like a very unstable situation. Must be true love because could never be me

White people lol

 

[Sambuus]

No

 

[Octavian]

depends on how well they manage their illness

 

[Sophisticate]

Wouldn't severe mental illness present an obstacle in forging a relationship? Not saying it's not possible but it would be challenging similar to dealing with a person with an addiction.

 

[Riverborn Venus]

Wouldn't severe mental illness present an obstacle in forging a relationship? Not saying it's not possible but it would be challenging similar to dealing with a person with an addiction.

Absolutely, for example dealing with a partner with BPD, they would literally punish you for untrue scenarios that happened in their minds.

Black and white thinking. Dealing with that on daily basis is exhausting, and would make any relationship almost impossible to maintain.

 

[anyways]

You asking this question like half of reer somalispot don’t suffer from mental illness themselves

 

[kickz]

Nope, throw in someone with buuq and qeyli in them too.

 

[TheSayid]

one of my fears is marrying someone with mental issues that they either hid or they're undiagnosed.