Too many faraxs on this site think they can do whatever they want and bashal with ajnabis in their early 20s and then later settle with a pious halimo when they are ready to settle down.
Personally this makes me sick
Would you marry someone just because they were "good" for you?
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Personally this makes me sick
CALMONE20###
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Thank you! Finally someone said it. Had it been a xalimo,faaraxs wouldn't want to marry her. Misogynistic double standards are real. A zaani for a zaniyah virgin for a virgin.Too many faraxs on this site think they can do whatever they want and bashal with ajnabis in their early 20s and then later settle with a pious halimo when they are ready to settle down.
Personally this makes me sick
CALMONE20###
Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
I've noticed that the emotionally mature faaraxs aren't promiscuous. Promiscuous men are boys,not real men.Too many faraxs on this site think they can do whatever they want and bashal with ajnabis in their early 20s and then later settle with a pious halimo when they are ready to settle down.
Personally this makes me sick
But there's a huge difference between thinking you're entitled to settling down with a pious halimo after being a scumbag for most of your teens/20s and said pious woman choosing to overlook your past. Let's not muddle the twoToo many faraxs on this site think they can do whatever they want and bashal with ajnabis in their early 20s and then later settle with a pious halimo when they are ready to settle down.
Personally this makes me sick
CALMONE20###
Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
Would you overlook a promiscuous xalimo's past if you liked her?But there's a huge difference between thinking you're entitled to settling down with a pious halimo after being a scumbag for most of your teens/20s and said pious woman choosing to overlook your past. Let's not muddle the two
If I were squeaky clean, probably not. But I'm not, so who am I to judge or say "no"?
CALMONE20###
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Finally someone who isn't a hypocrite. You were kinda mean to me a few weeks back though which ain't cool.
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JackieBurkhart
The years don't matter, the life in those years do
It is the reality. Now I'm not saying all women will look past a mans transgressions but it is alot harder for a women. Double standards suck but they exist for a reason.This is what I want to do to your neck:
Don't annoy me further.
CALMONE20###
Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
Not true some guys look past a woman's body count too.
JackieBurkhart
The years don't matter, the life in those years do
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If you are going to be serious with her then yes. However if you are not then do not ruin her chance at a good future.The idea was floated that a family friend's daughter and I should get married a few years back. The girl was a hijabi who takes her deen seriously and is also a really reeeeally sweet person. We practically grew up together, so her family already knew I was bit of a cùnt at the time. I thought it was my relatives bantering me like usual and I half jokingly said "yeah, course I would!" wink wink, nudge nudge.
My half jokey agreement was was taken as a "yes" and the wheels were in motion. Her family was invited to our house a few weeks later, but I spent the night before the little "intro party" at a tech-house event and dropped Es like they were skittles. I spent the next day sleeping and going to the sauna with my friends, so I missed it.
But she still left her number so I could contact her. But I, being the fucking useless saqajaan dickhead I was, didn't give it much thought as I was "seeing" someone at the time anyway. I later realised that the girl I callously brushed off could've legit made me happy, a better man and brought me closer to my Allah. But I came to that conclusion far too late.
Now the opportunity to fix things with her has presented itself, but I'm so consumed by my career that I can't see myself giving this decision the proper consideration it deserves. My situation isn't exactly stable, so it would be really unfair to drag someone else into my mess.
Getting my elder's blessing when it comes to marriage is extremely important me and I personally believe that your parents know you better than you know yourself sometimes. Feel like messing this up a 2nd time could haunt me for a loooong time. Married people of SSpot, what're your thoughts, am I being a little naive and just getting FOMO?
Gosh. You aren't identifiable. I'll assume you are 25-27 y/o. Reason being, you are a young millennial.Under 30, I'm not finna drop personal info that could ruin me IRL
Then, scale back and focus on your finances since you seem more keen on that right now. How old will she be in 5 years since you want to delay family planning and consider that a deciding factor?
Dont mine me I was pandering to the halimosBut there's a huge difference between thinking you're entitled to settling down with a pious halimo after being a scumbag for most of your teens/20s and said pious woman choosing to overlook your past. Let's not muddle the two
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She deserves to be with someone that isn’t second guessing her. Seems like you want someone to make you better what you need to know is isn’t your rehab center. Get yours together before starting a family on a jumpy foundation. Good luck.
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@Nak-Muay-Femeu
Besides the noted 'concerning' foibles, and no judgment from me, for we have all got own afflictions, do you consider yourself a gentleman? Do you know how to treat a lady? I mean trully treat a lady, and not some female(s) you may get your leg over.
I reckon you are being very lucky in that you are matched with a good lady, who is familiar with, if already briefed as to your flaws, and failings, yet is willing to settle for you, if taking a chance with you, warts and all. From the sound of it, she is a fine lass, therefore I see no reason for you to be conflicted, unless of course there is an attraction element, or lack thereof, to consider on your part, in which case, aestheticism wins the bout at thy expense.
With respect to the professional growth aspect, if anything, stability shall further advance your career, for almost all successful, great men are(were) in 'stable' relationships.
Go for it, mate, and do extend invitations to the congregation on the fateful day. Singing, we shall be, 'he is a jolly good fellow', and speak not of thy indiscretions on the day.
Besides the noted 'concerning' foibles, and no judgment from me, for we have all got own afflictions, do you consider yourself a gentleman? Do you know how to treat a lady? I mean trully treat a lady, and not some female(s) you may get your leg over.
I reckon you are being very lucky in that you are matched with a good lady, who is familiar with, if already briefed as to your flaws, and failings, yet is willing to settle for you, if taking a chance with you, warts and all. From the sound of it, she is a fine lass, therefore I see no reason for you to be conflicted, unless of course there is an attraction element, or lack thereof, to consider on your part, in which case, aestheticism wins the bout at thy expense.
With respect to the professional growth aspect, if anything, stability shall further advance your career, for almost all successful, great men are(were) in 'stable' relationships.
Go for it, mate, and do extend invitations to the congregation on the fateful day. Singing, we shall be, 'he is a jolly good fellow', and speak not of thy indiscretions on the day.
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Weren't you posted with a Lebanese shorty last week outside nigga what you on aboutToo many faraxs on this site think they can do whatever they want and bashal with ajnabis in their early 20s and then later settle with a pious halimo when they are ready to settle down.
Personally this makes me sick
JackieBurkhart
The years don't matter, the life in those years do
Weren't you posted with a Lebanese shorty last week outside nigga what you on about
