Would you divorce if your husband/wife confessed to you they have LGBT attraction?

[empressjamila]

I browse the MuslimMarriage section on Reddit at times and this story I have come across is so scandalous I have no choice but to share

Which begs the question, what would you do if you married someone who confessed to you after your wedding that they suffer from this type of attraction but have never acted on it (yet)? Inshallah none of us are tested with this. But hypothetically speaking?

 

[Yaraye]

Hell yeah! DL men have a high rate of getting STDs. Madow men have the highest number of DL men and in turn their women have the highest rate of STDs. DL men are dangerous

 

[Lebron James]

No, sounds like a dream now you can have threesomes and your wife won't get angry. Win for all sides involved

 

[Ozymandias]

Nah I'm good, lgbt people have a higher rate of mental illness

 

[Yaraye]

Which begs the question, what would you do if you married someone who confessed to you after your wedding that they suffer from this type of attraction but have never acted on it (yet)? Inshallah none of us are tested with this. But hypothetically speaking?

I believe it best not to marry someone who has desires for the same gender. Too much problems

 

[Dualke]

Didn't have to succumb to those base desires but went ahead anyways, absolutely degenerate. If she was at least fully gay it would have made more sense.

 

[mrlog]

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[Doctorabdi]

Depends on the situation, if she loved another person then divorce needs to be done no point in keeping a relationship that will not hold up in my eyes. Marriage is very difficult in this world. Focus on your life

 

[Gacmeey]

Maybe if she agreed to be a second wife and is okay with having no kids but otherwise no

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

ATTENTION ALL XALIIMOS!

A fact that all men agree upon but never mention is that most men find lesbians more attractive than straight women, that' s why some faaraxs above wouldn' t mind to take them as 2nd wives and have a 3 sided relationship.
Although men with discipline would never do that

Sorry boys, the ladies had to find out

 

[Barni]

Well she is still bisexual with attraction to men, had she been a complete lesbian i might have slightly sympathized with her. But cheating is never justifiable, he should divorce her since she cheated and perhaps she is no longer attracted men anymore. But I am showing this to my hooyo having a lgtb spouse is gonna cause u nothing but pain, maybe she stop asking me to get married now.

 

[Doctorabdi]

Well she is still bisexual with attraction to men, had she been a complete lesbian i might have slightly sympathized with her. But cheating is never justifiable, he should divorce her since she cheated and perhaps she is no longer attracted men anymore. But I am showing this to my hooyo having a lgtb spouse is gonna cause u nothing but pain, maybe she stop asking me to get married now.

I agree. Cheating is out the board to speak of.

 

[hinters]

If youŕ girl is bi that means twice the amount of people to cheat with, stay woke kings.

 

[Kalsoon]

Maybe if she agreed to be a second wife and is okay with having no kids but otherwise no

Why the no kids policy?

 

[Gacmeey]

Why the no kids policy?

Well it's fairly likely that a marriage with the opposite gender is not what she thought it would be and it's not fair to bring kids into a household where divorce is a looming possibility from the onset. That being said if we have been together for it's something I would reconsider.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

At the end of the day even if it doesn’t sting anywhere near as hard because it’s with a woman, you’re still getting cucked.

 

[Nilotic]

At the end of the day even if it doesn’t sting anywhere near as hard because it’s with a woman, you’re still getting cucked.

No, it would sting just as bad; I mean how bad would your tongue game have to be that a woman (without the other tool you have) is taking your girl to a higher sexual climax than you and is probably making your girl call her daddy or some sh*t?

 

[Kalsoon]

Well it's fairly likely that a marriage with the opposite gender is not what she thought it would be and it's not fair to bring kids into a household where divorce is a looming possibility from the onset. That being said if we have been together for it's something I would reconsider.

Why marry a person to begin with if you can even see divorce as a possibility?

 

[Waa dhamatay]

No, it would sting just as bad; I mean how bad would your tongue game have to be that a woman (without the other tool you have) is taking your girl to a higher sexual climax than you and is probably making your girl call her daddy or some sh*t?

True. She doesn’t even have one yet her dick game is still 10x better than yours

 

[Waa dhamatay]

I’ve seen enough of these marriage stories to come to the conclusion that 80/20 is legit. The majority of men are going to end up as incels in dead bedrooms, cuck style relationships, settling for a landwhale and just being used lol. Blackpill = law