Would you date someone who had the same name as your brother/sister?

[Goodbye ✌]

Honest question. I just automatically get the ick when someone who has the same name as one of my brothers wants to get to know each other for marriage purposes. Am i childish for this? Do you know how many Mohamed’s there are in the world? I feel so bad at times because sometimes they will have their nickname displayed and once they introduce themselves . Does anyone else have the same experience? Maybe it’s immaturity but I just can’t detach my siblings name to a romantic interest.

 

[Khanderson]

Depends.

if they have the same age, personality and looks.

we’re out.

 

[asveros]

for women they have no choice considering how many somali guys are named abdi/mohammed

 

[Goodbye ✌]

Depends.

if they have the same age, personality and looks.

we’re out.

That happened to me once. Exited with quickness!!

 

[Goodbye ✌]

for women they have no choice considering how many somali guys are named abdi/mohammed

Alhamdullilah i have no brothers named abdi.

 

[asveros]

Alhamdullilah i have no brothers named abdi.

my name was about to be abdi, my dad saved me and chose my name instead of my mum.

i wouldve changed it to steve if that wasn't the case.

 

[Xanibacal bin Barqa]

I'll say No , it's kinda weird somehow , I remember this girl from my high school days , she had the same name as my sister ( i have only one sister ) , she was really good looking and used to get too 'friendly' with me , but somehow everytime I hear her name a picture of my sister pops up in head so I sister-zoned her , she kinda looked a little like my sister too , which made it even worse.

 

[Goodbye ✌]

my name was about to be abdi, my dad saved me and chose my name instead of my mum.

i wouldve changed it to steve if that wasn't the case.

I already have a list of unique muslim names if Allah blesses me with children inshallah.

 

[Goodbye ✌]

I'll say No , it's kinda weird somehow , I remember this girl from my high school days , she had the same name as my sister ( i have only one sister ) , she was really good looking and used to get too 'friendly' with me , but somehow everytime I hear her name a picture of my sister pops up in head so I sister-zoned her , she kinda looked a little like my sister too , which made it even worse.

Brother-zone, friend-zone, family zone. No hard feelings I just can’t.

 

[Khanderson]

@asveros

Ajnabis sees us as Abdis and call us Abdis.

If you’re celebrating because your name is not Abdi.

 

[asveros]

@asveros

Ajnabis sees us as Abdis and call us Abdis.

If you’re celebrating because your name is not Abdi.

i've been called desi/paki more times than abdi from people ik which isn't a compliment tbh

besides abdi is a shit fking name, youre a whole slave to anyone who calls you by your name so damn right im celebrating that

 

[Nilotic]

Honest question. I just automatically get the ick when someone who has the same name as one of my brothers wants to get to know each other for marriage purposes. Am i childish for this? Do you know how many Mohamed’s there are in the world? I feel so bad at times because sometimes they will have their nickname displayed and once they introduce themselves . Does anyone else have the same experience? Maybe it’s immaturity but I just can’t detach my siblings name to a romantic interest.

You know I've never stopped to think about this; my sisters all have names that are very rarely found outside our clan, so it's unlikely that I'll fall for a girl that shares names with my sisters.

 

[Goodbye ✌]

i've been called desi/paki more times than abdi from people ik which isn't a compliment tbh

besides abdi is a shit fking name, youre a whole slave to anyone who calls you by your name so damn right im celebrating that

Nahhh I actually like the names abdirahaman, abdifatah, abdimalik, abdikarim. Having one of the 99 names of Allah within your name is beautiful.

 

[Xanibacal bin Barqa]

i've been called desi/paki more times than abdi from people ik which isn't a compliment tbh

besides abdi is a shit fking name, youre a whole slave to anyone who calls you by your name so damn right im celebrating that

I had this friend named Abdisamad , everyone used to just call him Abdi , even ajnabis, he used to hate it so much .
everytime I see him I'll be like :
Ya cabdi , bring me some water , and don't forget the ice.

 

[Nilotic]

I had this friend named Abdisamad , everyone used to just call him Abdi , even ajnabis, he used to hate it so much .
everytime I see I'll be like :
Ya cabdi , bring me some water , and don't forget the ice.

Oh that's cold

 

[Xoxoxo]

My dumb brothers have unique names alx that aren’t common among Somalis so I am safe.

Still regardless would never date an Abdi

 

[Periplus]

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[Khanderson]

My dumb brothers have unique names alx that aren’t common among Somalis so I am safe.

Still regardless would never date an Abdi

Just cause you had bad talking stages with a Somali guy doesn’t mean you should project it on us.

 

[Xoxoxo]

Just cause you had bad talking stages with a Somali guy doesn’t mean you should project it on us.

No the name is too common and isn’t anything special.

 

[Khanderson]

No the name is too common and isn’t anything special.

Just cause you had bad taking stages with a guy called “Abdi” doesn’t mean you should project on us.

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