Would you claim your ‘clan’ if your father left your mother before you were 1 years old?

Danakiil

Danakiil

Nigga I WILL catch you. You don't gotta be sensitive anymore after you in the poke ball.

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Smokybob03

Smokybob03

𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈 said:
Out of curiosity, is your old man still alive (I do not know if you mentioned it)? I ask, for if he is, then I would try to track him down for no other reason, but to find out about family health history (not just for you, but your children too) i.e. you might want to know what is hereditary on that side of the lineage, runs in the family, and so forth.

Had I been in your position, I would want to know, and at least to suss out as to the root cause of his abandonment - that is probably my curious nature. Best of luck.
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I have no clue at all, I’m 25, he completely left the state with no contact just before I was 1 with no reason. Never got back in touch nor did his family so there is nowhere to begin. The disappointing thing, this case is not unique amongst my age group. So many dead beat fathers who have no backbone to do their duty.
 
Smokybob03

Smokybob03

Kalsoon said:
Maybe read up on the importance of maintaining close ties of kinship in Islam. It may change your stance on this. You could make your intention to do it for the sake of Allah. Not for any personal gain.

How blessed you were! Truly. Your Abti really went above and beyond his obligation. That’s what I call love. May Allah reward him immensely in this life and the akhirah.
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I’m well aware about keeping ties brother, but I have never known them. Do not know who exactly is alive from that side. It will be easier for me to learn mandarin as at least there are more resources at hand. The crazy thing is I could have siblings but have no clue
 
Barni

Barni

⚠️ EPILEPTIC WARNING ⚠️
Both my parents are HG so despite me not wanting to claim my abo’s qabil, I can claim my hooyo’s without ppl get mad that i am denying my father’s lineage.
 
K

Kalsoon

Smokybob03 said:
I’m well aware about keeping ties brother, but I have never known them. Do not know who exactly is alive from that side. It will be easier for me to learn mandarin as at least there are more resources at hand. The crazy thing is I could have siblings but have no clue
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Have you ever watched any documentaries about adopted kids finding their birth families? May Allah make it easy for you and reward you for your efforts.
 
R

Ripemoos

Imagine a nigga with a white mom and this individual never seen his black father. He was completely surrounded by white people growing up.

How dumb you think it’s gonna look when he says I’m white? Or how he’s gonna have to say some sob story every it’s brought up. Just own what you are tbh.
 
Smokybob03

Smokybob03

Ripemoos said:
Imagine a nigga with a white mom and this individual never seen his black father. He was completely surrounded by white people growing up.

How dumb you think it’s gonna look when he says I’m white? Or how he’s gonna have to say some sob story every it’s brought up. Just own what you are tbh.
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Your skin colour and genetics are far more visible and prominent in day to day life than your clan. You do realise this ?
 
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