Would you claim your ‘clan’ if your father left your mother before you were 1 years old?

[Garaaddada]

you can contact your dads mom or his dad and try to have connections with them without going through your father. May Allah make it easy for you walal.

Just going to keep it 100, that’s what happened to me. I know his tribe, know the region (Biciidyahaan of majeeerteen, Werder region in Ethiopia) but I have no connection to them and have only visited my mothers clan (dhulbahante -laascaanood) and family. This is what I’ve always viewed my ‘tribe’ as. Again, I don’t want to promote any qabilism, this is just family and clan relations.

 

[Arkan]

I come from a two-parent home, Alx. Plus, my parents are a part of a similar sub-clan so it's back at square one.

Hunno, stop flexing on em. 1 parent house-holds ain't a Samaroon thing, I'm sure that's common knowledge. This is we should keep our lineage pure so outsider cultures don't infiltrate

 

[Yaraye]

Flex? I feel so left out

I thought that it was the norm for people to get married to another clan or at least different sub-clan

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[GaradShabeel]

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[Calaami]

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I dunk on clans I’m related to all the time, you just separate the clan from the person you love from that clan.

 

[Yaraye]

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[GaradShabeel]

I dunk on clans I’m related to all the time, you just separate the clan from the person you love from that clan.

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[GaradShabeel]

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[Ladylike]

qabil is a distraction is not even that big deal however Somalis are noisy they will want to know yours they will find out with or without your permission. I never tell people my tribe nor do I talk about not because I hate is just nothing to be proud of and people that are obsessed with it usually are compensating for something else. Sorry about your dad what ever he did has nothing to do with you it only reflects on him and his choices. Hold your head high. Live.

 

[Yaraye]

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[GaradShabeel]

Hunno, stop flexing on em. 1 parent house-holds ain't a Samaroon thing, I'm sure that's common knowledge. This is we should keep our lineage pure so outsider cultures don't infiltrate

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[Yaraye]

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[Arkan]

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What's their Reer Abti

 

[Ragaasi]

I dunk on clans I’m related to all the time, you just separate the clan from the person you love from that clan.

Wouldn’t it be scary if the clans you dunked on whether they are your abtiyaal to you, in-laws whatever it may be, discover your thoughts on them on this site

 

[GaradShabeel]

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[Calaami]

Wouldn’t it be scary if the clans you dunked on whether they are your abtiyaal to you, in-laws whatever it may be, discover your thoughts on them on this site

That’d be embarassing but their westerners so they wouldn’t take it seriously.

 

[GaradShabeel]

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[Danakiil]

Yah ofc. I'd just make sure to erase his name from my abtirsi when I get yutes. He'd be forgotten just like he treated his son

 

[Yaraye]

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[Yaraye]

Wouldn’t it be scary if the clans you dunked on whether they are your abtiyaal to you, in-laws whatever it may be, discover your thoughts on them on this site

tell them "It's not personal"