They have no choice for upward mobility due to extreme low-self-esteem issues which comes as a result of not looking after themselves physically, psychologically and emotionally like other women.
They are just as bad if not worse then the bums they seek out, that bum is in exactly the same predicament as her having no other choices.
But the moment things change for him, he goes after better quality women then those he was accustomed to.
But things very rarely change for AA/Somali women, they mostly have fixed mind-sets rather then a growth mind-set, which sets them on a default path of slow gradual deterioration.
No one else wants them as a result, especially foreigners that have an abundance of quality women that are feminine, petite, look after themselves and don't all come from broken homes to choose from.
It's only the extreme losers in that group which Xaalimo's always end up with as a result of life-time neglect of themselves.
Even the AA women end up with better Non AA males then your average fat obese Xaalimo.
Your knowledge of sex is very interesting. Almost orgasmic.
anyway I barely knew this and I can tell she wanted me to completely surrender and chase after her just throw all my dignity out the window. hit me with one of those “I been eating too much lately I need to get back to the gym” comments to which I responded and let her know she wasn’t fat and that if she wants to lose more weight that’s completely up to her but that I thought she looks good. Now I don’t know about you guys but calling a girl not fat is probably the greatest compliment you can give her (if she’s actually not fat ) once I dropped that comment she should have known what’s up but she wanted me to spell it out and basically be like a pick me type of guy where I say all this sus beta stuff in hopes she will choose me.