Women controlling their men

[SOULSEARCHING]

Ok I've seen Somali men who are simps, older generation men I'm talking about.

So we had a Somali neighbors who live 5 houses down our road. The man is in his house 24/7, he doesn't work at all.
The wife does and she is in control of the house.

The husband would come over to our home and within 5 minutes she would call him and ask where he is, and to come home because they have to go some where.

First couple of times she done this I didn't think to much of it but it happened every time he was over ours. I asked myself why does she need him home when she has her own car? And that she does everything by herself usually while he sits at home everyday.
So I noticed when he would go home , they didn't go out, like wth...
she just seemed controlling.

I found it bizzare. I've been hearing stories of women doing sihir to their husbands so they obey them, I wonder if he's under her spell.

 

[Lostbox]

My good friend married argumentative women and basically shut himself off and let her do anything if she wouldn't argue . Not nice to watch

 

[Mozart]

If you give women an inch they’ll take the absolute piss. So when she says/does something stupid early on it’s in your best interests to tell her to shut up/get lost. Otherwise, she’ll end up controlling you.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

If you give women an inch they’ll take the absolute piss. So when she says/does something stupid early on it’s in your best interests to tell her to shut up/get lost. Otherwise, she’ll end up controlling you.

I think everyone should respect eachother

 

[xyz]

If he doesn’t work then that means she’s the breadwinner. Normally the breadwinner is the head of the household so I don’t get why you find it bizarre.

 

[Caaro]

If he doesn’t work then that means she’s the breadwinner. Normally the breadwinner is the head of the household so I don’t get why you find it bizarre.

She's not trying to reference stereotypes and say women should never be in charge. The problem is she'd call him to the house for no reason, It's ok for someone to take the lead but they shouldn't control each other and still give each other some freedom. Especially when it's a man who's treated like this it's even more pathetic.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

If he doesn’t work then that means she’s the breadwinner. Normally the breadwinner is the head of the household so I don’t get why you find it bizarre.

There's no problem in that but the man needs freedom too socialise with people not to be imprisoned in his own house.

 

[BobSmoke]

If she's making all the bread and pays for the rent, he cant really chat to her. He's her dildo basically.
The man need to sort his finances out quick. Women who make more money than their men usually acts like caucasian male bosses.

 

[Dooyo]

Woah. I recently overheard some habaryars talking about a women who had her husband on leash like that. Every detail you talked about. She was the sole breadwinner of the household, she had to know where her husband was at all times and be with him if he went anywhere. Creepy shit.

 

[Royalflush]

he has no xiniyo

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Woah. I recently overheard some habaryars talking about a women who had her husband on leash like that. Every detail you talked about. She was the sole breadwinner of the household, she had to know where her husband was at all times and be with him if he went anywhere. Creepy shit.

Must be common in our community

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

he has no xiniyo

I heard my father telling him to marry a second wife

 

[Royalflush]

I heard my father telling him to marry a second wife

whos gonna pay his meher, his first wife?

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

whos gonna pay his meher, his first wife?

Most likely

 

[Royalflush]

Most likely

his 1st xaliimo might get entangled with anothe dude

 

[المهندس]

loooool i've met simps like this absolutely pathetic.

la hawla wala quwwata illa billah

 

[Showbiz]

My good friend married argumentative women and basically shut himself off and let her do anything if she wouldn't argue . Not nice to watch

I would never ever by that dude but compromise is good thing in marriage but I ain’t trying be 10 again

 

[Octavian]

what a b1tch

 

[Ceeblaawe]

Ok I've seen Somali men who are simps, older generation men I'm talking about.

So we had a Somali neighbors who live 5 houses down our road. The man is in his house 24/7, he doesn't work at all.
The wife does and she is in control of the house.

The husband would come over to our home and within 5 minutes she would call him and ask where he is, and to come home because they have to go some where.

First couple of times she done this I didn't think to much of it but it happened every time he was over ours. I asked myself why does she need him home when she has her own car? And that she does everything by herself usually while he sits at home everyday.
So I noticed when he would go home , they didn't go out, like wth...
she just seemed controlling.

I found it bizzare. I've been hearing stories of women doing sihir to their husbands so they obey them, I wonder if he's under her spell.

Your suspicion is valid. Waa nin sixran. What are the neighbors saying? The streets most be talking. Get on with it and report back.

 

[Gambar]

Gacan iyo lug baan uu tagay.