i am 26 and work full time. Im not in the position to stall any longer. I will not have sex at all with my wife.If he wanted to wait a couple of years I'd be ok with that, but I wouldn't stay with him if he didn't want kids all.
Wait! What? You don't want to do the deed either? :/ Whoever you marry you better let them know ahead of time.
Maybe you will fall in love someday and you will want to do all these things you think you don't want now.
Yep thats what im saying. I dont want to have sex with my wife or with anyone else for that matter. We can have a sex-free relationship with no kids. We can both still work(im already putting in 15+hrs but i will not force her to work). Marriage doesnt always= kids. This is a common misconception. People are quick to associate marriage with kids but it doesnt always have to be the case. I know of many couples who have been married for 40+yrs and dont have any kids.Everyone's skipping over the actual weird part. Dude's not just saying he doesn't want to have kids, he said he doesn't wanna have sex.
What??
Yep thats what im saying. I dont want to have sex with my wife or with anyone else for that matter. We can have a sex-free relationship with no kids. We can both still work(im already putting in 15+hrs but i will not force her to work). Marriage doesnt always= kids. This is a common misconception. People are quick to associate marriage with kids but it doesnt always have to be the case. I know of many couples who have been married for 40+yrs and dont have any kids.
well not for me. I dont have the same sex-drive most somali men have and getting married is pretty much a means of getting my parents to shut up about it. I value my work over all else. Kids and wives etc are all a hindrance to self-fulfillment.
Marriage doesn't have to equal kids, but it sure as hell better equal sex.
i am 26 and work full time. Im not in the position to stall any longer. I will not have sex at all with my wife.
i am 26 and work full time. Im not in the position to stall any longer. I will not have sex at all with my wife.
well not for me. I dont have the same sex-drive most somali men have and getting married is pretty much a means of getting my parents to shut up about it. I value my work over all else. Kids and wives etc are all a hindrance to self-fulfillment.
i have said it before, i dont want to get married but im left with no choice. Parent-pressure! Yes ofc i will hug her and prolly kiss her but i will not have consensual sex with her.Why won't you have sex with your wife?:/
Lol@ I work full time. Would you hug her or kiss her at all?
What did you marry her for? What do you want from a wife?
lol this is no queensland bs, this is my personal opinion and i will not impose it on anyone else. Sxb, come to say you never told us which state you are from. You take way too many shots at us qlanders so im assuming ur from NSW.Garaad
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Is that Queensland bull-crap? Why marry in the first place if you don't intend to make love to your wife? I don't care about kids, don't know myself if I would have any. But, what you need is this and not a wife, she can talk and walk. They can even program her to pray with you 5 times a day and read the Koran. You could also find a Sheikh who will marry you to her.
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i have said it before, i dont want to get married but im left with no choice. Parent-pressure! Yes ofc i will hug her and prolly kiss her but i will not have consensual sex with her.
I would suggest you don't get married. Do you expect her to be monogamous?[/QUOTE/] honestly, i dont want to but i must. I will probably divorce her after a couple years until my parents are over it
He means on his end. Like she'd have to rape him cuz he sure as hell doesn't want toGaraad
Not consensual sex, then, what sort of sex? Rape her?
nothing at all sxb. I dont drool over women the way most men do nor do i see them as sexual object. I want to satisfy myself first and foremost. Achieve my goals and work towards saving enough money till i can call an early-retirement and settle in Hobart or Gold Coast (9 yrs since i have been there last time was for schoolies lol).Garaad
Not consensual sex, then, what sort of sex? Rape her?
lol this is no queensland bs, this is my personal opinion and i will not impose it on anyone else. Sxb, come to say you never told us which state you are from. You take way too many shots at us qlanders so im assuming ur from NSW.
Are u asexual?He means on his end. Like she'd have to rape him cuz he sure as hell doesn't want to
[QUOTE="Garaad Darawiish] .
I dont know if ur being srs or fooling around.Answer my question NSW?Garaad
Look at the bright side, the doll chats and can accompany you anywhere. She doesn't require maintenance like a human female and most importantly, she will never get bored and leave you and nor will she abandon you for another man. Look her again.
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nothing at all sxb. I dont drool over women the way most men do nor do i see them as sexual object. I want to satisfy myself first and foremost. Achieve my goals and work towards saving enough money till i can call an early-retirement and settle in Hobart or Gold Coast (9 yrs since i have been there last time was for schoolies lol).
Why?neither, just dont see sex as a necessity.
Why?neither, just dont see sex as a necessity.