Wisdom behind gender wars/hate for opposite gender.

[Taij4an]

Why does misogyny, misandry, gender wars, marital problems, sexism, exist?
From the beginning of time, shaytaan has tried to destroy bani aadaam through everyway possible.
We know a women was created from a man in order for the man to find peace through her, and for them to live in harmony with each other.
Now we know this principle, all of mankind was created in pairs, the pillar of society, is based on marriage between man and woman, the humankind wouldn't exist without a man and woman being in a relationship, in fact it is all hinged on this relationship between man and women, they both work in their roles in order to complete the objective of pleasing Allah and eventually re-entering jannah in order to live in pleasure together forever.

Now we know that men and women are created to be in harmony with each other and that they are both meant to help each other and are necessary for a functioning society, and functioning religion, how can we destroy this pillar of Human relations in order to destroy humanity from the inside.

We know 1. that the 3 worst sins in Islam are, shirk, murder and zinaa. Now zinaa, destroys this natural inclination betweeen men and women which is to be married and be in a long-term committed relationship with the person. So we can see how through zina of all types, can destroy this nuclear family in the society, this is one way shaytaan can destroy us.


But back to my main point, if shaytaan, can whisper into us, to insight hatred for our created partners, he can create disharmony in our households and lives, and eventually in the entire society, if shaytaan can incite one gender to oppress and take advantage of, limit, and be hateful towards the other gender, he can break up the strong partnership between man and woman, so if he incites men to hate woman, lack empathy for them, blame them and have double standards than them, to believe they are better than them and assert power and oppress them to increase their own desire for power and wealth and ego and lust, then he can destroy the basis of society, and this goes the other way around aswell for women, who do the same to men.

So you can break up a society to be picked off one by one if you split up the most powerful and fundamental relationship,
this is alsso the wisdom behind lgbtq, zina,forcing women into work, making marriage difficult for both genders, p0rngraphy, etc etc

As long as we stop focusing on blaming or overgeneralizing each gender, and start working as humanity, to find solutions, and try to understand each other, and stop dismissing each other, and providing solutions, we will become a better society.

Maybe some people love to follow their own views and beliefs and are too stubborn to open their mind a bit, they stunt the growth of the ummah, aswell as people who know better but are so greedy for whatever dunya gain it is, they will sell out the truth for falsehood at the expense of all of is

TL:DR
Shaytaan using hatred and enmity for opposite gender in order to destroy all of us, this isn't a gender war, but a war on all of us, being painted as a gender war so we don't focus on the real problem which is the lack of righteousness of mankind and our steering away from religion.

 

[Angelina]

We live in a man’s world and throughout the ages men have always had an upper hand, but in the West things are becoming more equal with now a surplus of women doing better or proclaiming they no longer need men, which causes young men to have an identity crisis, especially the lonely types who don’t have much going for them. I suppose misogyny makes them feel empowered.

Also, a lot of the things women now regard as sexist and even most of the views of redpill are the views men had in traditional societies. It is now only a ‘war’ because women are now in a position to be able to verbally defend themselves.

 

[Taij4an]

We live in a man’s world and throughout the ages men have always had an upper hand, but in the West things are becoming more equal with now a surplus of women doing better or proclaiming they no longer need men, which causes young men to have an identity crisis, especially the lonely types who don’t have much going for them. I suppose misogyny makes them feel empowered.

Also, a lot of the things women now regard as sexist and even most of the views of redpill are the views men had in traditional societies. It is now only a ‘war’ because women are now in a position to be able to verbally defend themselves.

I don't think that is entirely the case since women are not always in the right with this gender stuff

 

[Mercury]

I doubt there would be gender wars if people practiced Islam the way its intended to be nowadays people use culture and confuse it with religion for example a married woman will be told to cook/clean for her husband and using the religion when infact theres nothing in the Quran saying the wife must cook and clean but it says if she would do it out of her own Will she would gain ajar/reward for it
also another thing alot muslims do is use islam for their own gain

for example a man says he wants 4 wives because he wants to live like the prophet scw but he wont emulate the other things like helping the wives in the home

 

[Taij4an]

for example a man says he wants 4 wives because he wants to live like the prophet scw but he wont emulate the other things like helping the wives in the home

I think the man himself wont even be emotionally intelligent be a leader or manager and be able to handle multiple woman
the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasalam lived in a society where polgyny as normal, he had the accommodation and money to support multiple wives, he was the leader of an entire religion so he has experience in leadership, he had great emotional intelligence, and actual normal intelligence, he had great wisdom, he was a great military commander and negotiate, He understood how the world works and how to deal with people, how to make religion easy for people, how to deal with difficulty.
Nowadays men lack all of those qualities, they just want 4 wives because have multiple women to have sex with sounds nice even thought the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasalam didnt even get married for sex he got married for bigger life reasons like religious reasons

 

[AllStarSaciid]

I doubt there would be gender wars if people practiced Islam the way its intended to be nowadays people use culture and confuse it with religion for example a married woman will be told to cook/clean for her husband and using the religion when infact theres nothing in the Quran saying the wife must cook and clean but it says if she would do it out of her own Will she would gain ajar/reward for it
also another thing alot muslims do is use islam for their own gain

for example a man says he wants 4 wives because he wants to live like the prophet scw but he wont emulate the other things like helping the wives in the home

A woman is obligated to obey her husband. If the husband says cook and clean for me, rear my children, I will provide, protect and be parentally invested in the children. She should absolutely do that. No questions asked.

 

[Taij4an]

A woman is obligated to obey her husband. If the husband says cook and clean for me, rear my children, I will provide, protect and be parentally invested in the children. She should absolutely do that. No questions asked.

is she working a 9-5 in this situation

 

[AllStarSaciid]

I think the man himself wont even be emotionally intelligent be a leader or manager and be able to handle multiple woman
the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasalam lived in a society where polgyny as normal, he had the accommodation and money to support multiple wives, he was the leader of an entire religion so he has experience in leadership, he had great emotional intelligence, and actual normal intelligence, he had great wisdom, he was a great military commander and negotiate, He understood how the world works and how to deal with people, how to make religion easy for people, how to deal with difficulty.
Nowadays men lack all of those qualities, they just want 4 wives because have multiple women to have sex with sounds nice even thought the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasalam didnt even get married for sex he got married for bigger life reasons like religious reasons

Why can’t I have multiple women to satisfy my sexual desire if I’m capable, I want I should have it if I meet the criteria.

stop making your Necessity a virtue. Just coz you can’t have it doesn’t mean the next man shouldn’t.

 

[AllStarSaciid]

is she working a 9-5 in this situation

Why is your wife working a 9-5?

 

[Taij4an]

Why can’t I have multiple women to satisfy my sexual desire if I’m capable, I want I should have it if I meet the criteria.

Because marriage isn't about sex
maybe to a 17 year old boy though(majority not all)
If you get married for sex ur gonna flop ur marriage

plus no woman will ever be able to satisfy ur desires, after the second wife u will just want another woman, and another
a mans lust can never be satisfied except by abstinence

 

[Taij4an]

Why is your wife working a 9-5?

Alot of people need their wife to work because they can't afford rent

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Alot of people need their wife to work because they can't afford rent

If you can’t afford to put a roof over your woman’s head then that says a lot about your capabilities as a man. You’re useless.

 

[Taij4an]

If you can’t afford to put a roof over your woman’s head then that says a lot about your capabilities.

You clearly don't live in the real world then
Have u got a Job?
Do u live on ur own?

 

[Omar del Sur]

A woman is obligated to obey her husband. If the husband says cook and clean for me, rear my children, I will provide, protect and be parentally invested in the children. She should absolutely do that. No questions asked.

The people who oppose this are opposing Islam. The feminists are staunchly opposed to Islam. People can choose one or the other. I'm all for giving women their rights but women are entitled to the rights Islam gives them, not the fake rights the West claims they have such as sleeping with random men, using abortion as birth control, prostituting themselves on OnlyFans and combatting the God-given authority of their husbands.

 

[AllStarSaciid]

The people who oppose this are opposing Islam. The feminists are staunchly opposed to Islam. People can choose one or the other. I'm all for giving women their rights but women are entitled to the rights Islam gives them, not the fake rights the West claims they have such as sleeping with random men, using abortion as birth control, prostituting themselves on OnlyFans and combatting the God-given authority of their husbands.

Going on a tangent here.

why do you think women will fight tooth and nail to keep abortion legal?

 

[Omar del Sur]

Alot of people need their wife to work because they can't afford rent

this idea of send your wife out of the house to work is a feminist view. realistically speaking, what is going on? she is mixing with men. it is contradictory to call for traditional values but also want your wife to work. you might not live in in absolute luxury but you on your own should be able to provide necessities and if not then it may be that you are not financially ready for marriage... I don't mean you of course but I mean generally.

 

[Taij4an]

this idea of send your wife out of the house to work is a feminist view. realistically speaking, what is going on? she is mixing with men. it is contradictory to call for traditional values but also want your wife to work. you might not live in in absolute luxury but you on your own should be able to provide necessities and if not then it may be that you are not financially ready for marriage... I don't mean you of course but I mean generally.

its not ideal but for alot of people here is no other choice

 

[Mercury]

I think the man himself wont even be emotionally intelligent be a leader or manager and be able to handle multiple woman
the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasalam lived in a society where polgyny as normal, he had the accommodation and money to support multiple wives, he was the leader of an entire religion so he has experience in leadership, he had great emotional intelligence, and actual normal intelligence, he had great wisdom, he was a great military commander and negotiate, He understood how the world works and how to deal with people, how to make religion easy for people, how to deal with difficulty.
Nowadays men lack all of those qualities, they just want 4 wives because have multiple women to have sex with sounds nice even thought the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasalam didnt even get married for sex he got married for bigger life reasons like religious reasons

one thing that happen quite alot is muslim men marrying mutiple women than once they divorce one of the wives they dont contact let alone provide for their own kid

Another thing is many dont realize the more wifes you have the less time you gonna have to spend with your kids for instance if you got 4 wives spend 2 days with each that means you only see your kids twice a week

 

[Omar del Sur]

Going on a tangent here.

why do you think women will fight tooth and nail to keep abortion legal?

The idea is absolute freedom and power for women. Now of course women should have the freedom and power to do things like for example learn Islamic knowledge. They should be able to own property, be free from forced marriage.

Some women have a special talent. For example, some women have deep insight and are very wise. They should be able to do things like write books and pass on their wisdom. Some women have a special talent like that that can benefit society.

However, these are a minority. Avenues need to be open so such specially talented women can realize their potential. We need freedom for such specially gifted women to realize their potential.

But most women are not talented like that. They should be wives and mothers and find fulfillment in their dīn and their natural biological role.

The minority of specially talented women have to be allowed to reach their potential and there has to be freedom for them to do that. And that is basically the bait and switch of feminism- sure, if there is a female Shakespeare out there, let her benefit us all with her talent. But rather than opening doors for an undiscovered female Shakespeare or a female Islamic scholar- feminism insists on opening doors for women to do ridiculous things like sleep with random men, post provocative pictures of themselves online, rebel against the authority of their fathers and husbands, etc.

Now unlimited access to abortion helps to enable female promiscuity. So the agenda is simple- it is satanic and it is about helping women to do evil and destructive things. It's about promoting casual sex, OnlyFans, twerking, abortion, etc.- rather than helping to cultivate an undiscovered female Shakespeare for example (btw I'm against plays but of course there's nothing wrong with beautiful poetry).

 

[Omar del Sur]

its not ideal but for alot of people here is no other choice

it's cucked. there is a problem if you're okay with your wife working with men in a mixed environment outside of your presence. you should fight it tooth and nail, not be ready to accept it. to accept it would be dayuth in tendency.