A sense of unity and brotherhood among the Somali people is still possible with an independent Somaliland. So is helping each other out. On top of that, having 2 Somali-inhabited countries (or 3 if you count Djibouti) = much more voting power internationally! In the horn, you can speak up with two united voices against Kenya and Ethiopia (until they also become your buddies). You can be a real cool gang, like Visengrad Group in Europe or the Nordic or Baltic States. Heck I even feel unity and brotherhood with French people and Swiss people and Austrian people.
You need to realise that SLanders have been taught by villainous and corrupt politicians to hate their southern brethren, so why do you think SL and Somalia will be allies once SL gets recognition? The answer to that question is that they will not be allies, they will be rivals trying to dominate the Horn. Whenever there will be a dispute between, Somalia and Somaliland, Ethiopia shall side with Somaliland, because they want to further break apart the unity of the Somali people. Foreigners like they, are the ones who will benefit from this, their ultimate goal is to become hegemon of the Horn.
This type of unity is impossible for Somalia, that unity is a weak one, the slightest disagreement and it will collapse. Just look at Brexit, look a the far right parties trying to dominate European politics, Somali don't need weak unity. We need a strong one, a united country, so everyone will enjoy the fruits of development.
This is the path to reconciliation - voluntary fusion will not happen from Somaliland side, so maybe you should look at realistic options. Having both countries on the same level (Somaliland recognised, Somalia at peace) is the foundation for peace and prosperity in the region. And who knows - maybe fusion will come by itself.
No it is not, because as I have said before, once SL gets its recognition, the doors will be open, it will be able to rival Somalia for resources, when the best option is to unite and share the resources, so no one is left out.
Mantra-like repetition of "Muh Qabiil" will not help and doesn't constitute a legit argument. Even you admit the Somalia system is broken at the moment, so how could - realistically - reconciliation and union even happen in the near future?
I never said reconciliation will happen in the near future. The fact is, it won't so for the time being SL is still an illegal secessionist state, it is just a mere federal state like everyone else. Clan reconciliation and unity is the way forward not division, surely a German like you would know that, how would you feel if all the work of Otto Von Bismarck was ruined and all the states in Germany declared independence?
"Muh Qabiil" Syndrome is real when a state that calls for independence is calling it because of "Muh Qabiil" got massacred when in actual fact many qabiils got killed but only they are calling for independence.