Wife Living With In-laws During Marriage?

[jabsveg276]

I see this is popular in South Asian culture and some Africans do it. I’m glad we don’t. I’m getting us our own place after marriage .

 

[Sheikh Google]

Ill never forget working with a timo jilac nigga who was my supervisor and finding out him and his brother (who was also married )and his sisters and the wives all lived with their parents in one house. That was wild and both he and his brother had children. I was thinking how the f*ck does he karbaash his wife properly if they have to have quiet boring sex constantly. The idea of my parents even being in the same house puts my gus off from even working properly I have no idea how these timo jilac niggas do it. Thank god it's not in our culture although I do see it slightly creeping when idiots get married young just because they have no self-control and want to make it "halal" as if you weren't going at it in the back of the ford fiesta. They have no means to provide for themselves so end up moving in with their parents and then both become parents young. Word of advice only get married when you have your shit together. Marriage is a serious commitment and not just because you want to make it "halal".

 

[jabsveg276]

Ill never forget working with a timo jilac nigga who was my supervisor and finding out him and his brother (who was also married )and his sisters and the wives all lived with their parents in one house. That was wild and both he and his brother had children. I was thinking how the f*ck does he karbaash his wife properly if they have to have quiet boring sex constantly. The idea of my parents even being in the same house puts my gus off from even working properly I have no idea how these timo jilac niggas do it. Thank god it's not in our culture although I do see it slightly creeping when idiots get married young just because they have no self-control and want to make it "halal" as if you weren't going at it in the back of the ford fiesta. They have no means to provide for themselves so end up moving in with their parents and then both become parents young. Word of advice only get married when you have your shit together. Marriage is a serious commitment and not just because you want to make it "halal".

Wow that’s crazy, I could never do that. I’ll probably get some sort of nice apartment with my wife and move into a house when we have kids and become a family.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I agree I could never do this. This is so vulgar but how do these couples even have sex there’s no way I would do that with my parents in the house uff what a turn off. Even if they weren’t home and were out and about I’d still feel weird. Ewwww

 

[Sheikh Google]

Wow that’s crazy, I could never do that. I’ll probably get some sort of nice apartment with my wife and move into a house when we have kids and become a family.

I mean usually part of the gifts of the wedding include setting up the wife and husband with their own place. Someone correct me on this but I've seen it happen many times. Even if its a one bedroom place and not the best. Atleast its a home for you and your new bride to build upon and grow together. Not fucking living under the same roof as your parents and having to act like I'm in my late teens and early twenties sneaking snow bunnys in and out of the house.

 

[Sheikh Google]

I agree I could never do this. This is so vulgar but how do these couples even have sex there’s no way I would do that with my parents in the house uff what a turn off. Even if they weren’t home and were out and about I’d still feel weird. Ewwww

Exactly. Like I was thinking how on earth are you supposed to pull out all the moves with your wives if you have to have quiet sex like church mouses because you to scared to make noises as you got your sisters in the other room, your parents in one room etc... madness.

 

[Juke]

A female Pakistani co-worker used to always complain to me about her brother and his new wife living with them loool. There's downsides but instead of burning money on rent they delay their gratification for a short period of time in order to save up for a deposit on a home.

 

[yaqir]

Ill never forget working with a timo jilac nigga who was my supervisor and finding out him and his brother (who was also married )and his sisters and the wives all lived with their parents in one house. That was wild and both he and his brother had children. I was thinking how the f*ck does he karbaash his wife properly if they have to have quiet boring sex constantly. The idea of my parents even being in the same house puts my gus off from even working properly I have no idea how these timo jilac niggas do it. Thank god it's not in our culture although I do see it slightly creeping when idiots get married young just because they have no self-control and want to make it "halal" as if you weren't going at it in the back of the ford fiesta. They have no means to provide for themselves so end up moving in with their parents and then both become parents young. Word of advice only get married when you have your shit together. Marriage is a serious commitment and not just because you want to make it "halal".

i spitted my drink this shit must be tough for south Asians

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Exactly. Like I was thinking how on earth are you supposed to pull out all the moves with your wives if you have to have quiet sex like church mouses because you to scared to make noises as you got your sisters in the other room, your parents in one room etc... madness.

It’d get boring so fast oh man

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I mean usually part of the gifts of the wedding include setting up the wife and husband with their own place. Someone correct me on this but I've seen it happen many times. Even if its a one bedroom place and not the best. Atleast its a home for you and your new bride to build upon and grow together. Not fucking living under the same roof as your parents and having to act like I'm in my late teens and early twenties sneaking snow bunnys in and out of the house.

Sheikh Google brining up his snow bunny days will always make me laugh wtf

 

[jabsveg276]

A female Pakistani co-worker used to always complain to me about her brother and his new wife living with them loool. There's downsides but instead of burning money on rent they delay their gratification for a short period of time in order to save up for a deposit on a home.

They can get a 1 bedroom apartment in a cheap area, not that hard. Why do people get married when they're not financially able?

 

[Mercury]

Although we don't have it much in our somali culture to have in laws live with you
ive seen it happen before newlyweds who just got married and the guy bring his siblings come live with em or his mom

 

[jabsveg276]

Although we don't have it much in our somali culture to have in laws live with you
ive seen it happen before newlyweds who just got married and the guy bring his siblings come live with em or his mom

Wallahi that's weird.

In the Somali culture however, the parents move in with one of their children when they get super old. This is usually 20-40 years into the marriage and when the grandchildren are becoming grownups, which is caathi. But moving in with your in-laws after marriage? Yaaaaaaaaaab.

 

[Sheikh Google]

Sheikh Google brining up his snow bunny days will always make me laugh wtf

I am a reformed human being formerly of salaf origins who succumbed to the wiles of becky as soon as I dropped the salaf diraac uniform. The nights I spent regurgitating hadith after hadith and putting takfir on random brothers was cleansed when becky threw it back on me and I saw nirvana through her starfish (If you know you know).

 

[jabsveg276]

I am a reformed human being formerly of salaf origins who succumbed to the wiles of becky as soon as I dropped the salaf diraac uniform. The nights I spent regurgitating hadith after hadith and putting takfir on random brothers was cleansed when becky threw it back on me and I saw nirvana through her starfish (If you know you know).

Yet you get mad at my bad behavior? I'm your daddy now.

 

[Sheikh Google]

Yet you get mad at my bad behavior? I'm your daddy now.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL only a degenerate like you would get what I meant. Therefore you are my son.

 

[jabsveg276]

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL only a degenerate like you would get what I meant. Therefore you are my son.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I am a reformed human being formerly of salaf origins who succumbed to the wiles of becky as soon as I dropped the salaf diraac uniform. The nights I spent regurgitating hadith after hadith and putting takfir on random brothers was cleansed when becky threw it back on me and I saw nirvana through her starfish (If you know you know).

I can’t take it hilarious

 

[Hybrid()]

Wallahi that's weird.

In the Somali culture however, the parents move in with one of their children when they get super old. This is usually 20-40 years into the marriage and when the grandchildren are becoming grownups, which is caathi. But moving in with your in-laws after marriage? Yaaaaaaaaaab.

It's very common for Somali families in cities to live with their in-laws due to financial reason. Depending on how big the house is, a Somali couple can have between 2-5 relatives living in their homes. young female relatives are usually invited to move in by the wife in order to help out.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

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