Wife cheated for 30+ years, kids ain't his, dad left and offed himself and mom shunned by whole family

Omar del Sur

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Islam obviously is the answer in terms of preventing this kind of thing but Islam is also the answer in terms of preventing suicide in this kind of situation (as well as preventing the man from killing his wife... she could be stoned to death and justice can be delivered without him having to go against the law).... what happened to him is a nightmare for any man and even for a Muslim it would be hard to deal with... but ultimately, if he has faith in the akhirah and he understands why it's a bad idea to commit suicide... insha'Allah even though he'd almost certainly be devastated he would overcome the temptation to commit suicide... and also to understand that this is not some ultimate humiliation for him... he may think it is, other people may think it is and it may feel that way but if he deals with this kind of thing and has faith in Allah and in Islam and is patient then in the eyes of Allah he might be honored and in the akhirah he could given all kinds of honor... the real success is reaching jannah, the real winner is the one who attains jannah, the real loser is the one who goes to jahannam.... so even if something like this happens to you, you don't have to feel ashamed and humiliated as long as you understand the true aim of life
 

Omar del Sur

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100 lashes, that’s it

The lashes are if an unmarried person commits zina. If the fornicator is married, the sentence is death by stoning.

edit: there is no question as to the stoning. but I was wondering as to whether the person who denies it is a valid subject of takfir.... and the person who denies it... I think clearly can be called as a kaafir.

"So stoning is established in the Book and in the Sunnah of the Prophet sallAllaahu `alayhi wa sallam sayings (Sunnah qawliyyah) and his actions (Sunnah `amaliyyah) and by consensus. So whoever denies it is a disbeliever, because he is denying that which Allaah has said and His Messenger and the consensus of the Muslims."

 

Aurelian

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The lashes are if an unmarried person commits zina. If the fornicator is married, the sentence is death by stoning.

edit: there is no question as to the stoning. but I was wondering as to whether the person who denies it is a valid subject of takfir.... and the person who denies it... I think clearly can be called as a kaafir.

"So stoning is established in the Book and in the Sunnah of the Prophet sallAllaahu `alayhi wa sallam sayings (Sunnah qawliyyah) and his actions (Sunnah `amaliyyah) and by consensus. So whoever denies it is a disbeliever, because he is denying that which Allaah has said and His Messenger and the consensus of the Muslims."

thats for fornication. for an adulterer situation like this, the punishment would be stoning to death
He said quranic, which doesn’t have stoning punishment. There’s no such punishment as stoning in the Quran

don’t takfir me
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Maybe I'm cynical, but I bet this isn't true.

A lot of people use that sub and r/tifu as outlets for creative writing lol.

"It.
Broke.
Me."

:mjlol:

It's dramatic, kudos to the writer. It's the details that sell it:



Awoowo is depressed 😭

She's pregnant :ohdamn:
They didn't celebrate ONE thanksgiving in 33 years as a family :guccishock:


Her mum spends her days staring at a wall :kendrickcry:



I'm telling you, this writer has a future in the young adult fiction genre.
 
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Maybe I'm cynical, but I bet this isn't true.

A lot of people use that sub and r/tifu as outlets for creative writing lol.

"It.
Broke.
Me."

:mjlol:

It's dramatic, kudos to the writer. It's the details that sell it:



Awoowo is depressed 😭

She's pregnant :ohdamn:
They didn't celebrate ONE thanksgiving in 33 years as a family :guccishock:


Her mum spends her days staring at a wall :kendrickcry:



I'm telling you, this writer has a future in the young adult fiction genre.
LOL
 
23andme is rocking the boat :ftw9nwa: I remember two Somali guys arguing, and one of them was saying "waar reerkiinu waa garacyo" (your subclan are bastards) because your haplogroup is different than us. We always know you were sheegatos. :dead:

Now, families are breaking apart and spouses are committing suicide after it turns out that the fathers no longer fathered their kids. An old Somali guy was told that he was not the father of the kids when he was processed in Ethiopia by the US refugee resettlement agency. The old odey was quoted "oo ileen naagta waa layla qabey".
 
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This is why women will be filled in hellfire and one of the main reasons is being ungrateful towards their husbands. This woman deserves nothing but misery upon misery in this life and the next, when there will be no protector no helper but Allah.
 
Maybe I'm cynical, but I bet this isn't true.

A lot of people use that sub and r/tifu as outlets for creative writing lol.

"It.
Broke.
Me."

:mjlol:

It's dramatic, kudos to the writer. It's the details that sell it:



Awoowo is depressed 😭

She's pregnant :ohdamn:
They didn't celebrate ONE thanksgiving in 33 years as a family :guccishock:


Her mum spends her days staring at a wall :kendrickcry:



I'm telling you, this writer has a future in the young adult fiction genre.
It’s also the fact that this shyt can, will and has happened to some poor sucka before :mjlol:
 
This is why women will be filled in hellfire and one of the main reasons is being ungrateful towards their husbands. This woman deserves nothing but misery upon misery in this life and the next, when there will be no protector no helper but Allah.
Plenty of men are trash and abusive and ungrateful towards they wives too
 
He said quranic, which doesn’t have stoning punishment. There’s no such punishment as stoning in the Quran

don’t takfir me
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Well, the Quran does mention it indirectly (Hadith clarifies the sort of Punishment). Then from the Hadith, a man who committed adultery and testified four times to the Prophet (PBUH) was stones for his actions.
 
Plenty of men are trash and abusive and ungrateful towards they wives too
both type of spouses deserve misery. But the issue with women is that when they cheat on their partner they do it emotionally and may even do paternity fraud on top of that her husband is providing her everything, women cheating is much worse.
 

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