Why

[Ladylike]

Why do women ignore the ugly guy then all of sudden want him once he gets married to a woman? I am asking as a women myself lol help

 

[Kizaru]

This thread gonna be wild

 

[Sup]

Ego,
The thrill of the chase I suppose. Some women want to be chased after, even if they’re not interested in the guy.

I watch way to many reddit stories lol

 

[Daydreamer]

I saw this one video which, while it may be unrelated, could maybe explain why women would date unattractive men. I don't know how true it is so maybe the women here would like to confirm.


the comments also have some reasons related to the video.

 

[Basra]

Why do women ignore the ugly guy then all of sudden want him once he gets married to a woman? I am asking as a women myself lol help

Well its a vanity thing. The realization that the "ugly" man is better than your single a$$ self. So suddenly u want him. The problem with an "ugly" man is -he is desperate due to his own self awareness that he is ugly. He tries too hard, he is desperate. Women hate that. Women like confident rude, scoundrel who insults you but also treats u like a queen occasionally. (like a dog wants a treat once in while and looks forward to it) The ugly man wants to treat u like a queen all the time. Women hate that. But if he is married- then- she is sure the desperateness is gone because his single status has changed, she realizes he is now better than her, and maybe the married woman has trained him a little bit to be manly and not look despro

 

[Ozymandias]

Why do women ignore the ugly guy then all of sudden want him once he gets married to a woman? I am asking as a women myself lol help

Maxaa dhacay noola sheekay, shaaha baan ba soo diyaariyay

 

[Ladylike]

Well it’s a vanity thing. The realization that the "ugly" man is better than your single a$$ self. So suddenly u want him. The problem with an "ugly" man is -he is desperate due to his own self awareness that he is ugly. He tries too hard, he is desperate. Women hate that. Women like confident rude, scoundrel who insults you but also treats u like a queen occasionally. (like a dog wants a treat once in while and looks forward to it) The ugly man wants to treat u like a queen all the time. Women hate that. But if he is married- then- she is sure the desperateness is gone because his single status has changed, she realizes he is now better than her, and maybe the married woman has trained him a little bit to be manly and not look despro

Interesting point, do you think the same be said for men when the lady is ugly lol?

 

[IstarZ]

I think it could be a destructive pattern of behavior rooted in unresolved childhood wounds. Some women (men too) unconsciously seek out emotionally unavailable individuals.

The unattractive man didn’t suddenly become good looking appearance wise but he became unavailable and that’s where this newfound attraction stems from.

 

[suspect75]

I saw this one video which, while it may be unrelated, could maybe explain why women would date unattractive men. I don't know how true it is so maybe the women here would like to confirm.


the comments also have some reasons related to the video.

Why does she look like brad Pitt in a wig?

 

[Nin123]

Why do women ignore the ugly guy then all of sudden want him once he gets married to a woman? I am asking as a women myself lol help

This is called bipolar disorder and almost 90% of women have it sadly.

 

[Ladylike]

I think it could be a destructive pattern of behavior rooted in unresolved childhood wounds. Some women (men too) unconsciously seek out emotionally unavailable individuals.

The unattractive man didn’t suddenly become good looking appearance wise but he became unavailable and that’s where this newfound attraction stems from.

That’s it. You’re right.

 

[Basra]

Interesting point, do you think the same be said for men when the lady is ugly lol?

Naah with female its different. Ugly female become comedians and have a 'personality'! Females are more creative than men in survival techniques of relationships

 

[_Yusuf_]

Why do women ignore the ugly guy then all of sudden want him once he gets married to a woman? I am asking as a women myself lol help

The single woman sees that the married man is capable of supporting a marriage lifestyle. In her envy she either wants to steal it or break it.