why some ppl are cynical and akward

[Testo 21]

If you ask me its cold world, you can lose everything than you gain back. Also if you add all the shitty stuff happening in the world, if you f*ck around , you deserve to get smacked around. Big man thing only understand, big man they never try

 

[Testo 21]

As second tought male privilege still exist, and i benefit from it many occasion. I was like wow. You have to be smart realize the game and power it holds. If i see other successful men i get inspiration and work even harder.

 

[sh-89]

There are people who suffer but there are some who are self absorbed and think they are the only ones.

If you think about it most people will experience their loved ones dying and everyone will experience death. For some reason, some people feel entitled to abuse others in workplaces, friendships, relationships etc. So you just have to steer clear but that is hard. Allah tests everyone. If you can avoid abusive people, try your best.

Also social media has jaded people and has led to unrealistic expectations about life. Imo surrounding yourself with good people is crucial to not end up jaded and cynical. And remeber everything is temporary including pain and happiness. This is a blessing. Thats what helped me and accepting things that I cannot control.

 

[Testo 21]

There are people who suffer but there are some who are self absorbed and think they are the only ones.

If you think about it most people will experience their loved ones dying and everyone will experience death. For some reason, some people feel entitled to abuse others in workplaces, friendships, relationships etc. So you just have to steer clear but that is hard. Allah tests everyone. If you can avoid abusive people, try your best.

Also social media has jaded people and has led to unrealistic expectations about life. Imo surrounding yourself with good people is crucial to not end up jaded and cynical. And remeber everything is temporary including pain and happiness. This is a blessing. Thats what helped me and accepting things that I cannot control.

Im not complaining, life is not perfect but it could be lot worse, alhamdulillah only staying strong became last option.

 

[sh-89]

Im not complaining, life is not perfect but it could be lot worse, alhamdulillah only staying strong became last option.

I was responding to your question not directed towards YOU. I don't think you sound like complaining to me.

I don't meet to be rude but I dont know you enough to say you are a complainer or optimistic etc. I was responding to your general question about PEOPLE being cynical. So my comment was towards people being cynical which I noticed too.

I was agreeing and then sharing why I thought they are that way. It stems from deep disatsification which has been increased by social media. And us interacting with people online. It has lifted a veil.

This is what I think. I could be wrong. Your thoughts on people? Why do you think so?

I recently wanted to learn piano, take walks, spend time with family etc. Too much toil and free time can be a killer.

 

[Testo 21]

Always spread somewhat positive message, xaasid waliigiis ma liibaano. Sharta iya isha cadowga ilaahey hanaga haayo. waa billahi towfiiq