Why Somalis R Useless In West

[DR OSMAN]

The reason for Somalis being useless in the west is quite simple. Break-down of the family home. You will find 90% are from single mother households, this correlation is seen in also African Americans. It's also seen in aborigines who have absent parents(jail, or drug/alcohol usage). What happens is basically when these young men encounter difficulty in life be it societal, school, work, identity crisis, they have no1 to speak too.

They don't seek help either due to pride and acting like their 'tough'. But their not, they end up in jail or drug addicts and usually 'die earlier' then most. You need a stable home to rebuild yourself when you collapse, if that home isn't there. Where do you go? at least with white people their family unit isn't strong either but they strong 'community centers' for their people who utilize it like psychologist, therapists, church groups, they have many groups they can attend and 'feel welcome'. This isn't the case for Somali. He has no community center to turn too because Somalis are people who hide their problems and the kids have no way to express it, it ends in drugs/alcohol and just following your friends into gangs.

We see the same correlation with aborigines in Australia. Since the family home is dead, their cultural identity is dead, they have no community center for aborigines, these people just end up following friends and gangs and they are now full in jail. Why? they don't have a stable home or community center to rebuild themselves from. When I had my mental issues, alhamdulilah I always had a stable home to return too or else I would be stuck alone and would've turned to drugs or alcohol as my companion or I would've joined other lost boys from no strong house or community center. We would end up just being a mess.

So Somali culture is OK if the family home is strong, u won't need community center, every family will look after his own but once that family house is gone, where do u expect your kids to rebuild themselves if they encounter problems? plus u dont have community centers and u have a culture like middle-easterners who don't operate like a community nor speak about their weaknesses or problems, u prefer a culture of acting like your something special when your house is falling apart(ppl are not stupid), way garan karan inaadan stable ahayn ama maxaa keenay gurigaga inu kala daato?

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

The reason for Somalis being useless in the west is quite simple. Break-down of the family home. You will find 90% are from single mother households, this correlation is seen in also African Americans. It's also seen in aborigines who have absent parents(jail, or drug/alcohol usage). What happens is basically when these young men encounter difficulty in life be it societal, school, work, identity crisis, they have no1 to speak too.

They don't seek help either due to pride and acting like their 'tough'. But their not, they end up in jail or drug addicts and usually 'die earlier' then most. You need a stable home to rebuild yourself when you collapse, if that home isn't there. Where do you go? at least with white people their family unit isn't strong either but they strong 'community centers' for their people who utilize it like psychologist, therapists, church groups, they have many groups they can attend and 'feel welcome'. This isn't the case for Somali. He has no community center to turn too because Somalis are people who hide their problems and the kids have no way to express it, it ends in drugs/alcohol and just following your friends into gangs.

We see the same correlation with aborigines in Australia. Since the family home is dead, their cultural identity is dead, they have no community center for aborigines, these people just end up following friends and gangs and they are now full in jail. Why? they don't have a stable home or community center to rebuild themselves from. When I had my mental issues, alhamdulilah I always had a stable home to return too or else I would be stuck alone and would've turned to drugs or alcohol as my companion or I would've joined other lost boys from no strong house or community center. We would end up just being a mess.

So Somali culture is OK if the family home is strong, u won't need community center, every family will look after his own but once that family house is gone, where do u expect your kids to rebuild themselves if they encounter problems? plus u dont have community centers and u have a culture like middle-easterners who don't operate like a community nor speak about their weaknesses or problems, u prefer a culture of acting like your something special when your house is falling apart(ppl are not stupid), way garan karan inaadan stable ahayn ama maxaa keenay gurigaga inu kala daato?

90%? So out of 10 houses you went to, 9 didnt have a father?

 

[The alchemist]

All children should be brought up in stable homes, preferably with two parents in an environment that is nurturing, predictable, and routinely. Abrupt changes and most forms of involuntary discontinuity have adverse effects on a child's psychological development.

These negative effects often occur like a domino effect. A disruption in one domain like employment triggers a disruption in other areas like childcare. It naturally often hit lower-income and lower-middle-class families who lack savings and assets that they can tap into during temporary periods of transition.

One theory suggests that a family's ability to maintain stability depends on three factors: a stressful event, a family’s perception of the stressor, and a family’s existing resources. There's no wonder why people higher on the socioeconomic ladder produce healthier kids. They are more educated on average, which means they're able to detect stressors more quickly, and they own more material wealth as security in case of abrupt changes caused by external pressures.

 

[Basra]

Because there is a mismatch of personality. Somali mothers are not submissive as wives should be. Somali fathers are half submissive which is disgusting.