Why is the somali community so soft on the guy's?

[Khaem]

In Somali gender wars, I've observed most of the people who had the issue are young western-born or raised Somali men vs older Somali women who were born back home and came here as teens or adults.

What I also noticed is some of the young Somali men who were either born or raised in the West have turned out to be very nationalistic when it comes to Somalis and their history. They adopted a certain supremacy attitude where they look down on other groups. And it is this group that is at war with any Somali woman they see crossing the line, especially when it comes to marrying a non-Somali or saying anything negative against Somali men. These guys are fierce, sometimes very racist, and have plenty of time on their hands.

The bottom line, we need to understand these younger Somali guys are not necessarily incels. Some of them have wives or girlfriends. They just see themselves as the gatekeepers of the Somali name in the West and would defend it at any cost. Especially, in the UK, they tend to have issues with Jamaicans & West Africans. Sometimes with Asians as well, but by and large they have issues with Yardies and Fufus.

I agree but there are also some things id like to say

And it is this group that is at war with any Somali woman they see crossing the line,

Not every somali nationalist is like this, I always defend somali women aswell since they are a part of the somali identity and name.

Especially, in the UK, they tend to have issues with Jamaicans & West Africans. Sometimes with Asians as well, but by and large they have issues with Yardies and Fufus.

Yeah as a somali in the UK idk what we did to these madows but they always have something to say about somalis, i can't stand there and let them disrespect somalis so obviously i have to say something aswell but i often get shut down as a racist even though i only gave back a fraction of the energy they give.

They just see themselves as the gatekeepers of the Somali name in the West and would defend it at any cost.

This is very true, many somali guys i come across including myself have seen how the somali name has been dragged by the media and it is often the men who face this disrespect so naturally we fight fire with fire.
I'm not a woman so idk how the young Xalimos get treated but so far i just see they are just fetishized.
Like no joke 2 days ago i was walking to the bus stop behind this group of madow guys and they were talking about cadaan women, indian women and then 2 of them started talking about somali girls and then i remember one looking back at me and then leaning forward to say something.
That type of fetishizing of Xalimos makes me hella angry but i dont really have the words to describe exactly why

 

[Waa dhamatay]

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because you have killed all your iq


Rape culture happens even in high functioning societies example the Japanese culture .
The women dont have kids and their infrastructure is the best in the world yet they have rape culture with comic books praising rape even have a character called rape man . The Japanese also have child anime characters drawn in the nude for all the pervs who enjoy it , its a high society yet has all the perversions of a poor society .

JUST SAY YOU HATE SOMALIS AND MUSLIMS AND BE DONE WITH IT you heathen of low intelligence .

MAY THE SOMALIS AND MUSLIMS LAST FOREVER AMEEEN

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[Danakiil]

You on to something a bunch of those nacas niggas online treat Somalis like we're all NPC 's instead of individual people. When one sheep deviants he's now a goat lmao

I don't think it's just the Somali community that is soft on guys but also other Asian and African communities too.
In these families, the parents have so many kids to the point where they can't raise them properly. They are more scared of the girls bringing shame to the family than their sons, this leads to the boys being left to be influenced by their environment.
Immigrants are mostly concentrated in low-income and crime-infested areas of cities and this makes them feed off the negativity of one another. While the daughters are kept locked in their houses, the boys join gangs and start trapping.
Obviously, there are exceptions but a large percentage of adults have wasted their potential. It's honestly sad seeing people that you have friends since reception (pre-school), despite being in the same age group, have achieved absolutely nothing.

To solve this problem, I think parents especially the older generation need to start teaching themselves how to properly parent. Fathers need to realise that they don't have the support of their local qabil and extended family anymore, hence start being a role-model in their children's lives rather than spending all day in the restaurants arguing about politics. They need to be active in their schooling and character development.

Furthermore, if can afford to move to a nice area, please do so, I think it's worth it. It will even help you develop linguistically. (Imagine calling your CEO, a G)
Living in council houses is not a good long term solution.
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You're spot on about the crime infested hoods Somalis live. I'd say half the Abdis in my ends were either gangbangers or weed enjoyers who did nothing but could high all day.

Hooyo did something that probably saved my life. As a yute she dressed me up in fresh button up polar drip with jeans all the hood kids used to bully tf out of me cause I looked "miskeen" & "nerdy" LMAO. Thx to this deterrence I never got sucked up into this lifestyle hooyo had that 200 IQ strategy planned out

 

[El Nino]

it's stupid to think that way. Take redpill and men for example. When redpill first started, most people said it was only an online thing and it doesn't happen irl. Look at its progression now, many women have complained about running into men irl who believe / operate under redpill knowledge. There have been many studies that have come out regarding social media influence in a person's life/ thoughts/ beliefs. Remember a human's actions are naturally influenced by their thoughts/ beliefs/ and values that they carry in their minds. Even if this isn't a problem irl currently, it will influence and seep into our young somali men's heads/ thoughts, and eventually they will get the courage/ boldness to have these thought come out of their mouths irl or even act upon it irl. We are seeing some of them already these days, even if it's just a small number. Some somali women are starting to run into some somali men who use these disgusting online terminology irl. Many things that originally start online, eventually shows up in people's actions irl. So, it is important to deal this this problem before it becomes a irl community issue.

Somali community has far more issues to address then fringe accounts on social media. Thid seems so chronically online thing. These boys wouldn’t be trolling on social media if for example somali community actively would provide after school activities (they wouldn’t have time to troll). Even then this wouldn’t necessarily stop their antics because they are not normal.

Report them and move on. That will stop them.

 

[Rasheedosman619]

In Minneapolis somalinimo doesn’t exist to Somali males in their late teens and early twenties they shoot and rob each other over petty shit. Since I was a kid my biggest haters were other Somali niggas, ajnabis ain’t did shit to me so I don’t view them as a threat.

Your right 100% somalinimo is non exsistence there when I went to Minnesota for 3 months in the summer of 2020 them Minneapolis Somali niggas are different my own cousin in law who’s a fetty addict finessed me for $2600 because he lied about being locked up (he did get booked into Hennepin county but he got released for a court date) & I tried to “bail” him out & his Caadan girlfriend is an addict too she’s the one who lied & made it seem believable. So I sent her the money through cash app & we started beefing. It’s crazy because I use to be very close to him.

Another Somali dude at the apartments I stayed at tried to steal out of this dodge challenger scat pack I rented off the turo app. Then two Somali guys got into a shootout right in front of the apartments I stayed at off Franklin avenue. Minneapolis is a crazy place lol I heard it’s even worse now ever since the George Floyd protests.

 

[Khaem]

Your right 100% somalinimo is non exsistence there when I went to Minnesota for 3 months in the summer of 2020 them Minneapolis Somali niggas are different my own cousin in law who’s a fetty addict finessed me for $2600 because he lied about being locked up (he did get booked into Hennepin county but he got released for a court date) & I tried to “bail” him out & his Caadan girlfriend is an addict too she’s the one who lied & made it seem believable. So I sent her the money through cash app & we started beefing. It’s crazy because I use to be very close to him.

Another Somali dude at the apartments I stayed at tried to steal out of this dodge challenger scat pack I rented off the turo app. Then two Somali guys got into a shootout right in front of the apartments I stayed at off Franklin avenue. Minneapolis is a crazy place lol I heard it’s even worse now ever since the George Floyd protests.

What type of looney toons gang shit is this??
We in the UK are not exactly the best but when we somalis see each other we have a sense of community and help each other out. WTF is this savagery

 

[Rasheedosman619]

What type of looney toons gang shit is this??
We in the UK are not exactly the best but when we somalis see each other we have a sense of community and help each other out. WTF is this savagery

I live in San Diego, California where theirs strong somalinimo since the population here isn’t large like minnesotas, even the Somali Bantus where I live have more somalinimo then Minnesota niggas, lol I go to Minnesota like once every year in the summer when it’s not super cold. Maybe it’s the cold weather over there that’s causing psychological & psychiatric problems lol.

 

[Yaraye]

I live in San Diego, California where theirs strong somalinimo since the population here isn’t large like minnesotas, even the Somali Bantus where I live have more somalinimo then Minnesota niggas, lol I go to Minnesota like once every year in the summer when it’s not super cold. Maybe it’s the cold weather over there that’s causing psychological & psychiatric problems lol.

we got cold weather about 7-8 months of the year. Maybe that's what's causing us probs

 

[Angelina]

In Somali gender wars, I've observed most of the people who had the issue are young western-born or raised Somali men vs older Somali women who were born back home and came here as teens or adults.

Older Somali women who were raised abroad are too busy being on the fob side of TikTok. Too concerned with their fellow fob Abdis.

What I also noticed is some of the young Somali men who were either born or raised in the West have turned out to be very nationalistic when it comes to Somalis and their history. They adopted a certain supremacy attitude where they look down on other groups. And it is this group that is at war with any Somali woman they see crossing the line, especially when it comes to marrying a non-Somali or saying anything negative against Somali men. These guys are fierce, sometimes very racist, and have plenty of time on their hands.

The bottom line, we need to understand these younger Somali guys are not necessarily incels. Some of them have wives or girlfriends. They just see themselves as the gatekeepers of the Somali name in the West and would defend it at any cost. Especially, in the UK, they tend to have issues with Jamaicans & West Africans. Sometimes with Asians as well, but by and large they have issues with Yardies and Fufus.

Why did you change your name? I prefer Roori. Go back to that.

 

[Al hashimi]

It's not about whether you have a female presence in your life or not. It depends on the individual. If you want to be successful work for it, if not then there's nothing we can do.

I agree which is why I have stated many Somali men have defied the odds. However It is harder for someone who doesn’t have a good influence

 

[Barni]

I don't believe you. No self-respecting Somali man would say he would chase around khaniisad. Were you saying something that got him triggered?

No one gives a flying f*ck if you believe me or not. Besides what could i have said to warrant this behavior, some somali guys r unhinged just admit it. I am not saying all r like this.

 

[Al hashimi]

WILL YOU GUYS TAKE A BREAK

 

[Al hashimi]

WALLAHI ITS EVERYDAY SOMALI BOY VS WOMAN SHUT UP ITS RAMADAN CHILL DAWG @malab DO U LOT NOT HAVE ANYTHING BETTER TO DO KAC GO AND ORAY IR READ QURAN OR SUM

 

[iskufilann]

WALLAHI ITS EVERYDAY SOMALI BOY VS WOMAN SHUT UP ITS RAMADAN CHILL DAWG @malab DO U LOT NOT HAVE ANYTHING BETTER TO DO KAC GO AND ORAY IR READ QURAN OR SUM

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[Yaraye]

WALLAHI ITS EVERYDAY SOMALI BOY VS WOMAN SHUT UP ITS RAMADAN CHILL DAWG @malab DO U LOT NOT HAVE ANYTHING BETTER TO DO KAC GO AND ORAY IR READ QURAN OR SUM

Take a breather and say

 

[JackieBurkhart]

WALLAHI ITS EVERYDAY SOMALI BOY VS WOMAN SHUT UP ITS RAMADAN CHILL DAWG @malab DO U LOT NOT HAVE ANYTHING BETTER TO DO KAC GO AND ORAY IR READ QURAN OR SUM

Gender threads are fun, though. Besides, they're easy pickings.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Why did you change your name? I prefer Roori. Go back to that.

I will, insha'Allah, stick with this one a bit.

 

[Man with a garuun]

No one gives a flying f*ck if you believe me or not. Besides what could i have said to warrant this behavior, some somali guys r unhinged just admit it. I am not saying all r like this.

You broadcasting being khaniisad is the issue here. Perhaps it is time you stopped broadcasting it.

 

[Internet Nomad]

These people are the new edgelords of the internet. First it was the r/Atheists, then the Alt-Right, then the Leftie/Commie and now its incels. The internet microculture shifts every 5 years.

Plus if you think this is a Somali problem you would be shocked to see Asian Incels as they are very prolific on the internet and some even commit mass shootings.

just look at the national level

There is a lot of angry sexually frustrated young men who have turned against society because the believed they were wronged.

 

[Khaem]

These people are the new edgelords of the internet. First it was the r/Atheists, then the Alt-Right, then the Leftie/Commie and now its incels. The internet microculture shifts every 5 years.

Plus if you think this is a Somali problem you would be shocked to see Asian Incels as they are very prolific on the internet and some even commit mass shootings.

just look at the national level
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There is a lot of angry sexually frustrated young men who have turned against society because the believed they were wronged.

Lol asians have an actual reason to be angry incels seeing how the media shat on their masculinity and now a below average white guy can get any asian woman he wants both in the diaspora and in asia, I live in london and even here im starting to regularly see some ugly ass old cadaan dudes walking around and even having children with these young sweet asian women.

Somalis men have no excuses though, they can just take a trip home or ask around if they are that desperate for a wife