Somali males do not have a strong male influence in their lives and have careless mothers who give no heed to them leading them to fall into the wrong kinda stuff.
Why is the somali community so soft on the guy's?
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The women have a strong female presence in their lives which is why they are more successful
Nevertheless many Somali men have stepped up their game and the losers are a minority and they have proven themselves despite this they are always under a lot of criticism from liberal Somali women on the internet who embarrass them and the Somali community in general
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A Mean Guy
Minister of Ajanabi Affairs
I don't think it's just the Somali community that is soft on guys but also other Asian and African communities too.
In these families, the parents have so many kids to the point where they can't raise them properly. They are more scared of the girls bringing shame to the family than their sons, this leads to the boys being left to be influenced by their environment.
Immigrants are mostly concentrated in low-income and crime-infested areas of cities and this makes them feed off the negativity of one another. While the daughters are kept locked in their houses, the boys join gangs and start trapping.
Obviously, there are exceptions but a large percentage of adults have wasted their potential. It's honestly sad seeing people that you have friends since reception (pre-school), despite being in the same age group, have achieved absolutely nothing.
To solve this problem, I think parents especially the older generation need to start teaching themselves how to properly parent. Fathers need to realise that they don't have the support of their local qabil and extended family anymore, hence start being a role-model in their children's lives rather than spending all day in the restaurants arguing about politics. They need to be active in their schooling and character development.
Furthermore, if can afford to move to a nice area, please do so, I think it's worth it. It will even help you develop linguistically. (Imagine calling your CEO, a G)
Living in council houses is not a good long term solution.
In these families, the parents have so many kids to the point where they can't raise them properly. They are more scared of the girls bringing shame to the family than their sons, this leads to the boys being left to be influenced by their environment.
Immigrants are mostly concentrated in low-income and crime-infested areas of cities and this makes them feed off the negativity of one another. While the daughters are kept locked in their houses, the boys join gangs and start trapping.
Obviously, there are exceptions but a large percentage of adults have wasted their potential. It's honestly sad seeing people that you have friends since reception (pre-school), despite being in the same age group, have achieved absolutely nothing.
To solve this problem, I think parents especially the older generation need to start teaching themselves how to properly parent. Fathers need to realise that they don't have the support of their local qabil and extended family anymore, hence start being a role-model in their children's lives rather than spending all day in the restaurants arguing about politics. They need to be active in their schooling and character development.
Furthermore, if can afford to move to a nice area, please do so, I think it's worth it. It will even help you develop linguistically. (Imagine calling your CEO, a G)
Living in council houses is not a good long term solution.
It's all in your head you Luxembourgian airhead. We are one of the least cuddled or misogynistic men in the world.
Barni
⚠️ EPILEPTIC WARNING ⚠️
Anyone who disrespects me to my face or online will end up on fox9 with a bunch of holes in them and I don’t care about Somali females, I’m a MN nigga I view Somali females as nothing more than a nut maybe your UK/euro bros operate differently but my enemy is actually Somali males in my age group.
Holy sh*t these are probably the craziest posts I’ve read in a minute wtf.
Yaraye
VIP
it's stupid to think that way. Take redpill and men for example. When redpill first started, most people said it was only an online thing and it doesn't happen irl. Look at its progression now, many women have complained about running into men irl who believe / operate under redpill knowledge. There have been many studies that have come out regarding social media influence in a person's life/ thoughts/ beliefs. Remember a human's actions are naturally influenced by their thoughts/ beliefs/ and values that they carry in their minds. Even if this isn't a problem irl currently, it will influence and seep into our young somali men's heads/ thoughts, and eventually they will get the courage/ boldness to have these thought come out of their mouths irl or even act upon it irl. We are seeing some of them already these days, even if it's just a small number. Some somali women are starting to run into some somali men who use these disgusting online terminology irl. Many things that originally start online, eventually shows up in people's actions irl. So, it is important to deal this this problem before it becomes a irl community issue.
Khaem
VIP
Some crazy shit happens when you mention gender here
iskufilann
inactive.
It's not about whether you have a female presence in your life or not. It depends on the individual. If you want to be successful work for it, if not then there's nothing we can do.
yup, and like clockwork this already has 200+ replies lol
Yaraye
VIP
i know. I woke up an hour ago and 6 pgs of a thread that started this morning
They were proven to be non-somali. You won't accept facts.
NordicSomali
VIP
Honestly most of these guys are young (early 20s) and will grow out of this “phase”.
CHANGE YOUR NAME TO intelligence slayer
because you have killed all your iq
Rape culture happens even in high functioning societies example the Japanese culture .
The women dont have kids and their infrastructure is the best in the world yet they have rape culture with comic books praising rape even have a character called rape man . The Japanese also have child anime characters drawn in the nude for all the pervs who enjoy it , its a high society yet has all the perversions of a poor society .
JUST SAY YOU HATE SOMALIS AND MUSLIMS AND BE DONE WITH IT you heathen of low intelligence .
MAY THE SOMALIS AND MUSLIMS LAST FOREVER AMEEEN
I don't believe you. No self-respecting Somali man would say he would chase around khaniisad. Were you saying something that got him triggered?
In Somali gender wars, I've observed most of the people who had the issue are young western-born or raised Somali men vs older Somali women who were born back home and came here as teens or adults.
What I also noticed is some of the young Somali men who were either born or raised in the West have turned out to be very nationalistic when it comes to Somalis and their history. They adopted a certain supremacy attitude where they look down on other groups. And it is this group that is at war with any Somali woman they see crossing the line, especially when it comes to marrying a non-Somali or saying anything negative against Somali men. These guys are fierce, sometimes very racist, and have plenty of time on their hands.
The bottom line, we need to understand these younger Somali guys are not necessarily incels. Some of them have wives or girlfriends. They just see themselves as the gatekeepers of the Somali name in the West and would defend it at any cost. Especially, in the UK, they tend to have issues with Jamaicans & West Africans. Sometimes with Asians as well, but by and large they have issues with Yardies and Fufus.
What I also noticed is some of the young Somali men who were either born or raised in the West have turned out to be very nationalistic when it comes to Somalis and their history. They adopted a certain supremacy attitude where they look down on other groups. And it is this group that is at war with any Somali woman they see crossing the line, especially when it comes to marrying a non-Somali or saying anything negative against Somali men. These guys are fierce, sometimes very racist, and have plenty of time on their hands.
The bottom line, we need to understand these younger Somali guys are not necessarily incels. Some of them have wives or girlfriends. They just see themselves as the gatekeepers of the Somali name in the West and would defend it at any cost. Especially, in the UK, they tend to have issues with Jamaicans & West Africans. Sometimes with Asians as well, but by and large they have issues with Yardies and Fufus.
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