Why is it the average/ below average earning men worried about gold diggers

[Yaraye]

They’re not ‘settling’, they’re getting what’s on their level; they tried to shoot for the stars but fell down and crashed when reality hit them with the truth of their UNDESIRABILITY

it’s this effed up notion of women expiring past 25 that needs to be changed

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Not necessarily. Many women do indeed settle. Women unfortunately to ‘fall’ for potential. Very easy for them to be swayed by words. Also, proximity is key. That is why you see women who are more strategic with dating get better partners. They’ll go to professional meet ups or choose a profession in which they’re around certain types of men.

Professional meet ups are just standard for networking but choosing a profession not because of interest but just to be able to hang around the men sounds predatory lol

 

[JohnCena]

it’s this effed up notion of women expiring past 25 that needs to be changed

I agree with this point. Some of the best looking women I've ever seen have always been 30+

 

[Angelina]

Just because they're rich doesn't mean they're intelligent.

We see too many men of differing backgrounds behave in this way for you to reduce it to lack of intelligence. I see it in real life, we see it with celebs and we see it on this forum when it comes to the topic of marrying back home in which average men take on the position of being the rich back home.

Men who get women just because they're rich now have always been losers and will usually end up losing their money in the long term to their future spouse

This isn’t the case of simply getting women. It’s about getting particular types of women or trading an older partner whose been with them from the get go to a younger beautiful one who clearly wouldn’t have given him a chance if he was an old broke man.

The passport bros who do go for 3rd world women are usually interested in traditional women who hold stronger conservative values. If they were smart, they would also sign a prenup if they were to ever get married to them.

Nope, these women’s submission is based on monetary gains and having a man to provide for them. Rich men can easily get a traditional dynamic back in America or the UK or whatever as they have enough money to make traditionalism seem beneficial. A lot of women don’t mind staying at home and raising the kids as long as their partners has enough and can sustain their lifestyle.

Also women do the same thing. Lots of older women love visiting Jamaica and love exploiting the young men there for sexual favors.

Nowhere near and I mean nowhere on the level of men. Don’t even try it LOL and you know it.

Your entire post is mainly for low IQ wealthy men. An intelligent wealthy man would never fall for this bs.

They do all the time.

 

[Angelina]

Professional meet ups are just standard for networking but choosing a profession not because of interest but just to be able to hang around the men sounds predatory lol

Predatory? That isn’t the definition of predatory. People go to meetings and events to make friends ect and you wouldn’t say it predatory. Events can be places to meet people. You’d know if got off the internet and stop being socially awkward.

 

[JackieBurkhart]

1- Wallahi its true that men have no probs with gold diggers.
2- That woman they dump when they get rich has a name. She's called "The come up woman" They use "the come up woman" until they get to a pay level where they can get women they didn't have access to before. I warn sisters not to be the "come up woman". DO NOT SETTLE WITH A MAN FOR HIS POTENTIAL. Firstly, you never know if he will reach his potiental. Secondly, you never know if he'll dump you after he reaches his full pointental. Assess a man when he is currently at, regardless of his background/ circumstance. Are you satisfed with where he is curretnly? Will you happy if he stay there forever? If not, then don't settle. Only settle with a man if your satisfied with what he currently has. Become the women that these bastards wish they can get. Have standards, and gold dig. There is nothing shameful about that. HIS POTENTIAL/ FUTURE DOESN'T MATTER. HIS CURRENT QUALITY OF LIFE IS WHAT MATTERS.

I've said this before:

Yes, he better get me a 5 course dinner and flowers, and I want an pretty and expensive ring like this: View attachment 249932 After a few weeks I'll break up with him saying he made me feel pressured by proposing in public. When he asks for the ring back, I'll say I lost it. Cha-ching, on to the next one.

 

[JohnCena]

We see too many men of differing backgrounds behave in this way for you to reduce it to lack of intelligence. I see it in real life, we see it with celebs and we see it on this forum when it comes to the topic of marrying back home in which average men take on the position of being the rich back home.

This isn’t the case of simply getting women. It’s about getting particular types of women or trading an older partner whose been with them from the get go to a younger beautiful one who clearly wouldn’t have given him a chance if he was an old broke man.

Nope, these women’s submission is based on monetary gains and having a man to provide for them. Rich men can easily get a traditional dynamic back in America or the UK or whatever as they have enough money to make traditionalism seem beneficial. A lot of women don’t mind staying at home and raising the kids as long as their partners has enough and can sustain their lifestyle.

Nowhere near and I mean nowhere on the level of men. Don’t even try it LOL and you know it.

They do all the time.

Source?

Again these men that you're talking about are low IQ wealthy men.

Find me 5 relevant studies that explicitly states that Modern Men prefer Gold diggers.


Bet you won't

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Predatory? That isn’t the definition of predatory. People go to meetings and events to make friends ect and you wouldn’t say it predatory. Events can be places to meet people. You’d know if got off the internet and stop being socially awkward.

I didn’t say anything about meet ups being predatory, i said choosing a profession not out of interest but just to have a chance to be near certain types of men (who can provide the lifestyle you desire) is predatory

 

[notinuse.]

This whole gold digger/ soft life/ never settle argument is above my tax bracket.
i can’t be the only working /middle class person on the internet?
why is everyone rich? Where are they getting this money from?

Generational wealth, as someone who's middle class and grew up with "wealthy" friends most of them have parents who invest in them financially.

 

[Angelina]

Source?

Again these men that you're talking about are low IQ wealthy men.

Find me 5 relevant studies that explicitly states that Men prefer Gold diggers.

Fact of the matter is that we wouldn’t have sugar babies, passport bros, significant age gap relationships, old odeys mback home marrying women who would never have married them if they had opportunities and the list goes on.

Are all of these types of men low IQ? The relationships I have outlined above are mostly transactional. Obviously, no man wants to feel used, but from my observations a lot of men don’t mind relationships that are transaction based provided they’re benefiting more and the woman doesn’t make them feel like they’re ATMs.

 

[JohnCena]

Fact of the matter is that we wouldn’t have sugar babies, passport bros, significant age gap relationships, old odeys mback home marrying women who would never have married them if they had opportunities and the list goes on.

Are all of these types of men low IQ? The relationships I have outlined above are mostly transactional. Obviously, no man wants to feel used, but from my observations a lot of men don’t mind relationships that are transaction based provided they’re benefiting more and the woman doesn’t make them feel like they’re ATMs.

Come on fam, I expected studies/journal articles in your response.

You're making anecdotal claims based off random celebs hooking up with young women and then claiming that "Men love golddiggers" off those tabloids.

When there are studies that actually state that Men prefer dating Gold Diggers, then I will agree with you.

But you won't see them because Men don't like dating gold diggers in general.

 

[Ragaasi]

I've said this before:

Heartless

 

[Danakiil]

Niggas don't like gold diggers how this a debate

 

[JohnCena]

Niggas don't like gold diggers how this a debate

I know right LMAO

My favorite past time hobby is spending all my hard earned money on my goldigger girlfriend who's going to eventually take it all away and move on to the next wealthy man!

Nothing better than that feeling as a man

 

[bluebird]

I don't get the hate for gold diggers. its a two way street. the men they're with want beautiful women on their arms and use their wealth to attract them on purpose. Also, why preoccupy yourself with hating something that isn't even a reality for 99% of the population (i.e. being used for money). It wont even be a problem if you see women as human and not fish you bait and catch. dont be shocked in that case when you only "catch" vapid low vibration "fish" who's only concern in life is money

 

[Bundasliga]

Men love golddiggers.

They only complain about them when they can’t afford them.

1.They have no problems with golddiggers that are within their pay grade. Example, the same guy that complains about the materialism of a Western woman will go to a third world country and try to get with a woman who sees him as a walking talking ATM machine.

2. Another example, when many men become rich, it is rather common unfortunately for them to dump their wife/GF of many years for a woman who he deems as someone he couldn’t afford when he was broke.

3. Another example, in the redpill and even Muslim community, especially amongst some of our wayward men influenced by Tateism and redpill argue against female education and financial stability. Why? Because they want women to financially rely on men and thus settle for men they normally wouldn’t if they didn’t have finances to think about. That is textbook gold-digging yet that is peddled as a ‘solution’ to increase marriages in the Muslim community and beyond.

4. Therefore, I need average/men from low socioeconomic backgrounds to stop complaining. Western Gold-diggers do not want you and that is why you dislike them. You have no problems with third world women who merely want you for finances as their needs due to cost of living and differences in exchange rates makes it affordable. Nor do you have issues with creating a world in which the financial circumstances of Western women is greatly reduced and would thus have to resort to gold-digging from average/poor men.

That is what it boils down to: accessibility to women.

Here comes the red pill for Female suugo science

 

[A Mean Guy]

I honestly don't see why women about how they are forced to settle. Men settle too.
Everyone shoots and goes for someone really attractive but reality wakes both genders from their princess/prince mentality.

If you are an average/below average woman or man, stop complaining about settling and know your place. Clapped people should not have a big ego styll.

Thank you for coming to my TEDTalk. Join me next time on the weekly gender war thread.

 

[Angelina]

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Come on fam, I expected studies/journal articles in your response.

You're making anecdotal claims based off random celebs hooking up with young women and then claiming that "Men love golddiggers" off those tabloids.

My favorite past time hobby is spending all my hard earned money on my goldigger girlfriend who's going to eventually take it all away and move on to the next wealthy man!

Nothing better than that feeling as a man

that is why I said men don’t mind transactional relationships when it benefits them. Example a very rich man with a much younger woman. He spends on her but has enough money stacked away that a 4k channel bag is peanuts for him.

You’re looking at this way because you’re average and your money is very limited, so anything you spend on a woman adds up . The same cannot be said for a very rich man or if you go back home for example in which your money will stretch.

Even in the other thread about looksmaxxing a lot of the guys there were saying that making money will make you more attractive ect. Men definitely associate more money= with prettier women.

 

[Bundasliga]

I know right LMAO

My favorite past time hobby is spending all my hard earned money on my goldigger girlfriend who's going to eventually take it all away and move on to the next wealthy man!

Nothing better than that feeling as a man

Using red pill ideology to justify Gold diggers, but if any man uses red pill he's a misogynist sexist predator

 

[Angelina]

Here comes the red pill for Female suugo science View attachment 252704

You really can’t come for me. The rise of Tate, passport bros and men in the other thread saying how all a man needs to do is make money all point towards the points I made. Are we also going to pretend that men don’t lead with their money when they’re trying to get women?

Don’t worry I’ll wait, and I’ll show you first hand how full of contradictions you lads are.